Plot twist: She says yes
@Greninja, plot twist: rips breast off and eats
@Grim Encounter, DONT HURT THE TITS!
@Greninja, Plot twist: there is no plot twist
@Greninja, your trainer didn't name you, I see.
@Greninja, not too much a plot twist.
@Greninja, her saying yes is my new fantasy.
@Greninja, that's a plot addition rather than a plot twist. Lol
@Sylvanus , unless she has two newborns at the same time, there is another mammary she can present in such a fashion at the same time.
Seriously, the US is one of the only countries where nursing in public is frowned upon or not socially acceptable. Hence why so few women do so when all research leads to it being the best thing for the baby. Get over your sexualized view and just accept it. Or better yet go to Europe and tell all those women to stop. Lets see where that gets you. To end: would you rather barely notice a content eating baby or be annoyed by a screaming hungry one?
@Lollygager, Thank you!! Someone who is educated?? My thread of comments suggested that most were not!!
@TheNoodleNapper, ya I saw where yours was going so I said something. This topic really bugs me, I nurse my baby girl and I will do so with all my children because it is the best thing for them. Regardless of how immature people feel about it. As long as it's not all hanging out, it shouldn't bother anyone.
@Lollygager, And most of the time it's not all hanging out. It just looks like a mom cradling their child.
@TheNoodleNapper, exactly. But then there are those women who show EVERYTHING and ruin it for everyone else. So I understand where some people come from not being okay with it. But the majority aren't like that.
@Lollygager, Even then it's not bad. Breasts shouldn't be looked as JUST sexual object. There are countries who's women walk around with their breasts plopping out. Like I said early if breasts are looked at for a man's pleasure and not a way for a baby to get nutrients, then people with that mindset are going to have one hell of a time wrapping their minds around the fact the vagina is a birth canal for babies and not just a hole to get your nut in.
@TheNoodleNapper, Lol all very true. The US just needs to get its mind straight.
@Lollygager, The US constitution at least guarantees that a woman has the right to breastfeed a child anywhere that she has a legal right to be.
@CaptainSwordsman, Okay the citizens just need to get their minds straight.
@Lollygager, my wife breast feeds but in public if she has to feed she covers up. I definitely don't see breastfeeding feeding in a secure way, but I feel like in our society it's courteous to at least attempt to cover some of it up.
@ToolOGT92, That's what I'm saying, most women try to do that.
Sees women breastfeeding in public. Joins in.
Okay, okay, okay, I would actually like to know who here is a little uncomfortable or against breastfeeding in public? I read this debate on FB.
@TheNoodleNapper, You only asked for people against it, but I still want my voice heard. I honestly think there's nothing wrong with it. It's just one of those things that happens. Let it happen
@TheNoodleNapper, I know this answer is kinda typical buuut it depends on the place in my opinion. Hospital waiting room: I think it's appropriate. Funeral: Ehhhh not so much
@DumbleDoofus, Oh, I should have clarified. I'm one on those people all for it, so I guess I just wanted to know the other side... Lol, but how were you to know my position? Anyway I agree. It's natural. I hate the argument "Why don't you feed her/him in the bathroom?"... I think that is disgusting to even say. If I eat at a table like a civilized human so will my baby.
@TheNoodleNapper, It's just normal to me because I grew up seeing my little sisters being breastfed just as I was. Just watching tv, mom flops out her boob and starts to feed the baby. I don't even pay attention
@Your Racist Grandma, I see what you're saying. But I could also see why you would leave to your car anyway to feed the baby. Everyone is mourning, your baby is hungry and getting fussy about it, so it'd be smart to walk away anyway.
@DumbleDoofus, Same here. In fact, in the middle of a conversation, my sister-in-law pops it out and feeds her baby. Honestly I wouldn't want it any other way. I just don't understand the other side's argument, so someone who disagrees freaking reply. Lol!
@TheNoodleNapper, as someone who may be breastfeed in the future, I know I wouldn't do it in public. I don't really think it's a big deal as long as they're sitting down and have a cover. When I see nipple, then I feel uncomfortable.
@Kaceyk, I see. To me it's just too natural and necessary to run away and then do. I don't want to cover my baby's heads... I'm sure you wouldn't like a cover over your head when eating. I don't want to take her to the bathroom... Try eating in the bathroom... I don't want to take her to the car. I guess some people feel uncomfortable because of how people view breasts. It's mammal nature. Horses are breastfeeding their young while the horse next to them is grazing... I think breasts I looked at more of a sex object more so than a way to bond with a child.
@TheNoodleNapper, If they have a cover of some sort, I'm perfectly fine with it, but without, I get a little uncomfortable.
@TheNoodleNapper, now im not saying this as a radical opinion or anything... but with society how it is breast arnt viewed as milk bags used only for baby feeders. So its uncomfortable to see someone just randomly plop out their boob. If it is warned before hand its easier to accept. But even then its easy to cover so why not do so. If your argument against covering is that the baby might not like it. Well come on its a baby it has no idea whats going on aside from that there is a boob in its face. Humans are no longer just regular animals. We dont see bodies as bodies. Once tv allows boobs all of the time. Then I will absolutely agree with it. But until its acceptable to see it all of the time. Or for a guy to whip out his dick and pee on a tree in the middle of a park with people all around. Its just not appropriate.
@TheNoodleNapper, The simplest answer: it's not socially acceptable. You may not feel weird when it's someone you know, but when's complete stranger just lowers her shirt and starts breast feeding it can get a bit awkward. I'd prefer it if the stranger wore a cover or went to their car or something, the baby doesn't give a shjt, it's mind is to simple to even think. Humans aren't animals anymore, part of being civilized means that we have to go against nature.
@TheNoodleNapper, Your username makes me uncomfortable...
@The Lone Guppy, Ah! I dislike it when people compare breastfeeding to releasing other body fluids or taking poos! Breastfeeding is sanitary whereas those two are not. One is feeding a child nutrients that the mother naturally has, whereas the other two are not. One is a bonding moment between mother and baby whereas the other two or not. Well, I could also feed my baby in the bathroom. He/she would be unaware that is in the bathroom. They will just know that a boon is in their mouth.... But why would I feed my baby in a place like that? I'm sure you wouldn't want to eat with your face covered or while you or someone else is sitting on the cr@pper. You're right were not animals... or just any kind if animal.. we're mammals. And one of the qualifications of mammal is the ability to breastfeed our young.
@CriTiKa1, A lot of what we do is socially unacceptable, but we do it anyway. Some to benefit others, such as breastfeeding, some for their own personal gain, such as tattoos/piercings/body modifications. And if part of being human is to be civilized then I guess we should all stop eating meat, right? You know most of where it comes from is a slaughterhouse... We're horrible animals to cage a bunch of animals, feed them until their plump, and then hack them up to eat... That's what other animals do right? Oh, and let's not forget territorial or the whole "what's mine is mine" mindset a lot of animals have. If someone decides to flirt with your bf/gf just allow it. Truth of the matter is were more animals (mammals) than what people would like to think. I don't care if my baby can't process the fact that some people are unable for him/her can't stomach the fact that she's getting fed.
@TheNoodleNapper, *Where people cage a bunch of animals and feed....
Sorry. Totally half asleep. Btw, I respect your opinion
@CriTiKa1, Ugh, where I replied to myself..' I meant to reply to you. I feel stupid!
@TheNoodleNapper, its no different than eating a sandwich in public, in fact its more important than an adult eating a sandwich
@TheNoodleNapper, What you don't realize is that what you just described is civilized. Being civilized isn't being polite, it's to advance in our development. We don't have to stop eating meat to be civilized, that's a really ignorant argument. Slaughterhouses are more civilized than simply hunting the animals, it also creates more food to feed more people. Other animals don't do t because they're not civilized. Since when were tattoos or piercing socially unacceptable? Billions of people get piercings/tattoos, it's acceptable, going overboard with it, however, is not. You're right, I wouldn't want to eat in a restroom or with a blanket over my head, but a baby doesn't give a shjt where it eats. It still can't think how you and I think. It doesn't even know what a restroom or a blanket is.
@CriTiKa1, Well, it really isn't an ignorant argument because they are slaughtered. Several at a time. And hunting the animals? Are we going to call hundreds uncivilized now? I mean, because there ARE hunters who... uh, do hunt... to... uh EAT. Oh you haven't heard people ranting and raving about tattoos... They're marking up a body given by God (I don't believe it's a big deal). Wait, so when it's moderate, it's fine, but when it's overboard it's unacceptable? I'm not understanding that train of thought. It's either unacceptable or it isn't. Do I cringe when I see photos of people who have every inch of their face pierced, yeah... But who cares? Is it physically hurting me? No. So move on with your life and stop with the "I feel so uncomfortable when SOMEONE who has nothing to do with me is doing what they do".. as long as they're not impeding on your natural born rights, then what's the big deal. And do people not see how unsanitary it is to eat in the bathroom?
@CriTiKa1, Just because a baby isn't a college graduate doesn't mean to treat them like a dog. A dog would gladly eat off the floor in the bathroom or anywhere in the bathroom because it's unaware... But like you said, we need to step away from being an animal and eat like humans.
@CriTiKa1, Dammit, I forgot to ask how is eating meat not uncivilized? We have alternatives, and that is an option given to us as a society stepping away from animal nature. We have alternatives whereas animals do not.
@TheNoodleNapper, Have you seen the people who go overboard with body modifications? The German guy with two gaping holes where his cheeks used to be? The guy who made himself look like a cat? When you compare those to earrings or a tattoo, yeah, they're fvcking unacceptable. And going by your logic, pissing in public should be acceptable. I'm not hurting anyone by pissing on the grass, animals do, so should I, right? It may be unsanitary, but it's grass, it's always dirty. I don't want to see a stranger whip out her tit just as much as she doesn't want to see me whip out my dick. You're right, we do have options, society decided that meat is acceptable, since just about 7 billion people eat meat. It also decided that tits are sexual, most women don't breast feed in public or they cover up when they do. You do have options, either put a cover on when you breast feed or do it somewhere more private.
@CriTiKa1, I've seen both. I've seen picture of people tattooing themselves with patterns of an animal, or they get horns in their heads (whatever), slit their tongue into two. But who cares? Better question, why? You're gonna see that person before school/work and what? "I'm sorry boss/teacher I just can't continue. This man who has nothing to do w/me just made me lose my focus on my own life." Pissing is unsanitary which CAN lead to someone getting hurt. Are you not aware of why sanitation IS important? Unless I have a disease running through my milk glands and squirting in people's eyes, or anywhere in their direction, I'm not hurting anyone. Uh, A LOT of people can argue that. Just for something sexual? Then you're going to have one hell of a realization when you discover that when you have sex a baby MIGHT pop out nine months later. Yes, the vagina, the thing you like to penetrate (I think) is used as a birth canal and not just for a man's pleasure.
@TheNoodleNapper, In my opinion, I probably wouldn't care where I had to breast feed my baby, but I would put a blanket thing to cover it up just because I feel like everyone once in a while there will be some a** that tries to take a picture or video and post it on some social media thing. Some people just don't have any scruples after all.
@TheNoodleNapper, You missed the point on the people with body modifications. As for peeling being unsanitary, dogs do it when you take em out on a run, yet no one complains about them pissing on grass, where no one is sitting, so why can't i do that? Oh, because it's socially unacceptable, because society decided that a dick is something that should be covered up, just like tits and vaginas.
@CriTiKa1, No I didn't. The point was that despite being disturbing to some people, it's not hurting anyone therefore they shouldn't have any type of punishment for it.
And not necessarily. You're sitting on a park bench eating your lunch and a dog pisses on the bench's leg right next to you. You're probably going to react. I know i would. And MOST people shoo stray dogs away when they piss on their property... Just like how they might do with you. And not all of society decided to be narrow minded and say "You know what?! A baby being fed in public is a shame and revolting. To hell with the mother nursing her child." Just some not all.
@SerenityW, Yeah that is a good point. There are weirdos!!
@TheNoodleNapper, Dogs don't automatically go piss next to people eating you know. Say I took a piss on a tree, that should be okay by your logic. Who said anything about pissing on someone's property? I said in a park. I would shoo away a woman if she say in my lawn and just started bread feeding too. Narrow minded? No. I just want women to have some decency in public. You are very narrow minded aren't you?
@CriTiKa1, No. They sniff around finding a place to mark. If one happens to find the leg next to you perfect you wouldn't just let them piss right next to you. Or you'd be quite disturb if they began shutting right next to you. But don't worry most responsible owners pick it up so you don't have worry or look at it. Ah, yes I'm extremely narrow-minded for not caring what people do to their bodies no matter how extreme. I'm extremely narrow-minded for judging a woman who is not only nursing her baby naturally but is also bonding at the same time. I'm sorry I don't judge hunters too, for they are uncivilized citizens who are killing their meat to eat instead of going to the grocery store to buy the meat that had the same fate as what the Hunter was going to hunt. Satan take me down for being so judgemental and not allowing people be people.
@TheNoodleNapper, I don't know how a discussion on breast feeding in public turned into meat is murder, but... the option that hasn't been mentioned and would most likely generate the least amount of conflict is to get a breast pump. Then you can bottle-feed your child in public and still breast feed at home. It may not be ideal to you, but it's a concession you make for others around you, which is what happens any time people go out in public.
@TheNoodleNapper, I'm all for women taking their breasts out in public
@TheNoodleNapper, I dont mind it but I wouldn't do it. Like I didn't even leave the house for very long till my baby was old enough to eat actual food. I just dont feel comfortable having people watch me pull my boobs out.
@TheNoodleNapper, I see now even though you asked everyone's opinion, it was not out if curiosity, you only wanted to state your own. If you want to have a discussion or debate on the subject this is not the place.
@TheNoodleNapper, yes but my point was that another thing about humans is we have to piss. Its a natural thing. Yet if you pee in a public area you can get into ALOT of trouble over exposing yourself. Also I never said to go to a bathroom. Just go somewhere less people are. And as far as covering my head. In case you skipped childhood. I used to love eating in forts. And for a baby that would pretty much be a fort haha
@Kaceyk, Uh, well you're seeing wrong. I responded back to everyone's reply, he just so happened to respond back with his know it all brain. Did you see there? I responded to others. Even though they disagrees. I don't know if you can but it's up there.
@Cococonnection1, Meat isn't murder to me, I was just simply stating that by slaughtering animals like animals do to their prey we are in fact animals. But anyway, as a great of an idea as that may sound, breast milk only lasts about an hour when not fridged. So if you're out longer than an hour then what? We have to cut the family time down to drive all the way to breast pump more to feed the public?
@Cococonnection1, and by feed I meant please. I don't think anyone would like it if they were being fed boob milk unless they're into that.
@The Lone Guppy, I've seen a lot of babies, my baby brother, grab the cover and fight with it. Because they don't like it. If I covered your face, one you probably wouldn't like it to BEGIN with, but if you did, you probably wouldn't like it while eating. I never ate in a fort... Just under my bed. It was lot more rebellious.
@meowarina, Eh, well, I'm currently pregnant, and I'll be having her in winter. I doubt I'd be going out too often, too. Lol especially since my boyfriend works and has the car. But if I did go out, it would be something I'd do. Lol but I see where it can be uncomfortable!!
@TheNoodleNapper, you can keep a couple of ice packs like the ones you put in lunch boxes in a section of your baby tote and keep the milk good that way.
@Cococonnection1, So now I have to breast pump, pack ice packs on top of packing diapers, wipes, extra clothes, a few toys, blankets, so much and so forth...? I mean the things listed are to please the baby, but the first two are to please the public.
@TheNoodleNapper, i understand that, and I see no problem with it. You should be able to feed your baby wherever. Babies are hungry alot and they can't wait just because it might offend someone.
@TheNoodleNapper, no one with any semblance of human intelligence. There's your answer.
@CriTiKa1, you have no intelligence or sense whatsoever. You can't decide what's socially unacceptable or not, and there's something wrong with you if a stranger breastfeeding is in any way uncomfortable to you. If my faith in humanity were higher I'd assume you were trolling based on all the things you've commented before, but I know you, and many other people, are just that stupid.
@CriTiKa1, It is still completely legal for a woman to breastfeed. Who cares if you feel uncomfortable with it really? My wife does it when the baby needs it. Don't want to see it? Stop looking. Another thing I think that is weird how it is acceptable to drink cows milk, but the thought of breast milk is gross.
Honestly, if I ever have a kid, I hope my wife doesn't breast feed in public. I saw a woman breast feeding completely topless in an airport when I was younger ..that sh!t scarred me for life. Apologizes for the long post
@Poonapple, you got scarred for life after seeing...a topless lady? How will you even have kids if you can't deal with seeing boobs. If she was a topless lady at a strip club or in a magazine, is it okay then?
@ TheWot, actually what a terrible analogy. If i saw a man's **** at an airport I'd probably get scarred for life too. What I was trying to say is that a baby being fed by a woman scarring you for life is something I can't really wrap my head around.
@ TheWot, ok, thanks for clarifying. And yes, I see your point what I should have said was that she was easily 50 and probably didn't understand that it's not socially acceptable to whip out the melons in an airport. But whatever. I was like 5 so for a younger me, it was troubling. Sorry if I offended you, not my intent
@Poonapple, wasn't my intent to bite your head off at an otherwise funny situation. What I reaallly meant was boobs shouldn't be offensive while being used to feed a baby because it's not sexual...like a man watering his lawn without a shirt... No sex appeal, no offence. But I guess I can see a younger kid getting freaked out. Anyway thanks for not getting defensive and angry at my ignorant comment.
@Poonapple, McFvcking Kill Yourself.
@Poonapple, I can see your point, I really don't want my wife's breast all exposed to the world, but then again between having the baby and everything, you get over the privacy thing quick because everyone on the baby floor at the hospital see EVERYTHING
Hairy hippy women are all I see breast feeding in public, makes for a sad panda
29 May 2014 #29May2014
I would think that this picture would be better with the socially awkward penguin meme instead..