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@JamesBondFreak, my husband is shorter than me and I never think of it at all. I use to wear stilettos before him but gave them up and got shorter heels instead so I wouldn't be that much extra taller than him on occasions. I actually love having a shorter guy instead and I love him dearly. :) just felt like sharing.
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@Spikeup12, me and your mom!! OH SNAP. Lured into a false sense of security with our little game and attacked you from inside. Don't let me in or I will destroy all you ever lived for. I am the shadow beneath your feet that won't let you see the pit. The pillow beneath your head that suffocates you in your sleep. I watch for eternity...
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@paunchy, being overweight and eating unhealthy is a cause to getting diabetes. You don't become fat BECAUSE of diabetes. Often times people are overweight because of genetics, thyroid problems, or medications they take. So really, it's none of your business why someone is overweight and maybe you shouldn't hate someone just for the way they look. The only type of people I dislike are the ignorant, mean, superficial ones that really don't know what they are talking about.
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Believe me, chubby chicks, especially this chubby chick doesn't want to date anyone smaller than them, whether it's height or general weight and muscle/mass. We want to feel somewhat protected and feminine. It's just the way we are made, for the most part. And that, again is just how I feel about being attracted to others. I'm not saying guys have to accept me the way I am either. I would just appreciate general kindness and consideration. I don't want guys to like me and be attracted to me even though I'm chubby, but there is more to people than what they look like.
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@AgentK006, I'll take back the dog statement; you're right, she didn't agree with that. But like the guy said, you can change being fat, and you can change being an a$$hole. You can't change your height. Plus, she could have been more tactful about it from the start. She upfront said for short guys to "swipe left," which implies that she won't even give them the time of day. If you ask me, she was being an a$$hole, so the guy was an a$$hole right back.
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@SimonPetrikov, I'm on tinder and I've seen all kinds of swipe left. From if you're black, to if you're white, their height, age, even hair color. Sure some people are on there to hook up. But some are on there cause they don't have time to go meet people. I'm a guy that I work 58 hours a week so that's how I meet people and go on dates when I have time to do so. It's a preference. I've known short guys who hate that some girls are so tall and hate that they exist. There are a lot of people like that out in the world. A lot of people who won't give others the time of day. It's not that she doesn't like shirt guys. She just doesn't want to date them is all. And that's what Tinder is. A dating site. Not a friendship site. So stating what is a turn off to you isn't an issue. And others should respect that.
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@SimonPetrikov, and I know that. And I'm not disagreeing with you. But I'm saying in this context that really isn't a big deal for her to say that. Now if there was some video of a short guy just trying to talk to her and she was disgusted and just saying horrible things to him if be right there with you all saying how bad she is. But honestly it's is just her preference on things. For me personally (and I'm already getting down voted so really I guess I can't do much worse now) but I'm 6'6" and personally I don't like dating girls under 5'6". I just don't. But that's just my preference. Not that I hate them or nothing. One of my best girl friends is 4'11" and I love her to death. But I wouldn't date her. It's just too much for me.
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@AgentK006, I get that, and calling you shallow was out of line; for that, I apologize. But relying solely on preference means you miss out on a lot. Everyone has preferences, it's unrealistic to expect people not to. I prefer dark skinned girls with freckles, small feet and large thighs who are at least 5 inches shorter than me. But I'll tell you what, I've crushed on girls who are no where near that description. There's plenty more to a person than our idealistic imaginary portrayals of them, and I don't want anyone missing out.
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@SimonPetrikov, hey man no need to apologize really. I'm not arguing with you or anyone else on here. Just talking is all and I get that I really do cry first gf was 5'2" after that was 5' I'm not saying that I can't find someone outside of a preference. I'm just saying I know what has worked best in the past.
As a short guy... I approve of that a$$holes comments!