I just want to say that the friendzone isnt about being nice to girls expecting sex. Its about having feelings for someone but they dont share those feelings.
Ive experienced all the friendzone combos. Ive been friendzoned by girls, Ive friendzoned girls myself and Ive been just friends with girls. Im nice to them in all cases. Plz stop saying "hurr durr friendzone is about sex" cause its not, its about wanting to be with the other person but them not feeling the same and damn its the worst feeling in the world.
@Dragondoot, I'm going to chime in and give my 2 cents here. I actually don't believe in the friendzone. I don't know where this expression came from but I think its stupid. I think its an excuse. An excuse for people who can't take no for an answer. If they don't like you well to bad. They never did and never will so get over it. Move on. Being nice won't do a thing. No matter how nice you are or how much you shower he/she with affection or gifts if they don't want it then they don't want it. its as simple as that. Its not cruel. Its how people are. Don't be so dramatic about it. There is no friendzone. They just don't feel the same way you do about them. Accept that and then move on. Trying to change that will only hurt you in the end. Not them because again. They don't feel the same.
@Dragondoot, you know I mostly use the term friendzone as a little joke. My current boyfriend asked me out then end of my sophomore year of high school, and I told him I had feeling for someone else so he told me he would be my best friend, and he was. We finally started dating senior year of high school and now we've been in college for a while and were still going strong. The biggest reason is because I made the guy my friend first, and it strengthened the relationship greatly. We make jokes about me friend zoning him, but we know that it was worth it. So guys, if you want a strong relationship, sometimes being friends with them first really changes everything.
@Dragondoot, last night I told the girl I like, a good friend of mine, that I have feelings for her. Our situation is incredibly complicated- she has a boyfriend, but I was there when they split and got back together. So I get that I have no real right to butt in. But you know how feelings work. She panicked and said she doesn't want to hurt me. So it's safe to say that this is where I am now. And it is the worst feeling in the world.
@Dragondoot, if you're trying to be really nice to get sex then you have a ton to learn.
@Dragondoot, as a person who's currently in love with a girl who has a boyfriend I've got to say it's pretty painful. She knows how I feel about her as well.
@Captain Mal, it is the worst feeling and i know it well.
@Sir Bionic, i feel your pain brother
@Dragondoot, let the friendzoners rise up!
@The Gatorade Bitch, what your describing IS the friendzone. Dont call it that, deny its existence but whether you believe in it or not it still exists. Lets make it simple. Two people are friends, only one of those two want to be more then friends, that IS the friendzone. It is the worst feeling ever because do you tell the other person how you feel or hold it back in fear? will rejection mean the friendship is over? Do you stay friends afterwards? Can you even look for a new potential partner while being friends? Deny it if you will but only because you have never experienced it first hand.
@Dragondoot, and plus you can't expect every girl you like/meet to be your girlfriend and for her to love you back and/or have sex with you. This goes for girls with guy friends as well too I guess
@Basil Fawlty, Ive friendzoned girls before and it was hard but I just didn't feel that way towards her, she was upset but she moved on. Being friendzoned cant be helped all Im saying is that its not always about sex and that it really sucks when it happens. I would happily have dated my crush without ever having sex, just spending time as a real couple would have been great
@Dragondoot, oh no I get agree with what you said. I'm just adding on that sometimes the girl/boy you like won't ever become much more than a friend, hopefully a really good friend but not your lover. At some point some people have realize that
@Basil Fawlty, I think people know that but it doesnt hurt any less
@Greenchic08, Yes, thank you for the sound logic. I think its dumb that other guys (im a guy) look at a girl, say to themselves, holy crap man i like her let me go be an idiot. They then over think things way too much, and expect an immediate relationship. Most dudes dont realize that there is most likely someone else the girl is interested in, and getting put in the friendzone doesnt exactly write them off. Most people are idiots in high school. They have "girlfriends" and "boyfriends", but they never really stop and think, hey, the reason people date, is to get married, and when you get married, you stay together forever. The only reason most couples that are 18 or under are together is because they are hormonal... that is why we wait till the end of the bloom of youth to date, because then your desicion isnt based on looks alone. There is no difference between your best friend and your husband, and there is no difference between your bestfriend and your wife, they are one andthe sam
@SerCherry, yes. That is 100% true. My current boyfriend was the only one that was my best friend before. And now there is nobody else I would even consider dating. Making your boyfriend/girlfriend your best friend before you date might be one of the best things for you to do if youre in it for the long run
@Dragondoot, I find it also means that you like the person to eh point where you would hate to lose them , so you friend zone them, people grow apart after close relationships, friendships seem to last longer
@Captain Mal, I was there once too. My bestfriend, who was a girl went through two bad relationships, not very long, nothing really happened, but both of them cheated on her. we've been best friends for four years, and know everything about eachother and have been dating for a year and a half now, and it's perfect. befriend them for a long while and you'll see it works wonders for when you actually date.
@I am pickle, this guy cheated on her! That's why the breakup fiasco happened! But now they've gotten through it and all and are committed to each other. I'll stay optimistic. I also hate hoping my close friend goes through a breakup. But my heart is begging for it.
@Dragondoot, but then there are people like me who do not seek a relationship just to have sex but to have someone to love and to hold. It's severely depressing being alone and just the sole idea of having someone there for you makes life so much better
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@Greenchic08, my wife of several years was my closest friend in the world for like four years - during which time we each had partners of our own - before we even started dating. Then we dated for something in the way of five years before getting married. Best decision of our lives to let everything happen as it will.
@Greenchic08, whoa i have a similar story . I was dating someone and there was this girl who really liked me so we were in the same class and slowly we became friends and then best friends and we got real close and i fell in love wid here and umm its been 7months and we are still dating ;) and i think if we were not such great friends our relationship would not have been so strong it was because of that good friendship that we trust each other easily and tell our things to one another :D
@Captain Mal, bro everything will be all right keep it strong and keep jerking off to asa akira :p , just kidding , best of luck for everything
@Greenchic08, umm i am currently dating my best friend we have been besties for about a year and we gave been dating for 7 mnths everythings great and im in love wid her
@The Gatorade Bitch, The idea of the friendzone came about in large part, in my opinion, because of guys like me. I had a very close friend, whom I met and knew for 6 years before I said anything about a relationship. We were so close, and had such a connection, everyone that knew us wondered why we were not together, and many who didn't know us, thought we were bf/gf. Finally, one day, after she was about 2 months out of a breakup, I brought up the subject. Our relationship was never the same. She wanted a man exactly like me, but not me. She wanted me as a friend only. I stopped blaming her long ago, but I never stopped feeling that way. And I've compared every gf or potential gf to her ever since. If they don't make me feel the way she did, it usually wont last long. See, its not about Sex. Sex can be gotten easily either by money, low standards, or alcohol. Its about the fact that, as a friend, us guys know all the negatives about the woman, and we are still choosing them.
@Dragondoot, Although I've never really said it out loud I'm sort of in the friend-zone with my best friend of a few years. I think the whole idea is stupid but technically it does apply to me.
@Lover of Waffles, if your not looking to move your relationship to 'the next level' and your happy being friends then your just friends. :)
I went to the bar last night in Toronto, and the hockey game was on the screens all night... Of course.
The brunette in the white top in front of ultra hot
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@Dragondoot, Problem is she's the person I'm closest too in the world, we've been best friends for the longest time, and I've felt like I'm in love with her for a while now. So I really do want to take our relationship farther :(
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11 fkin HOT GIRLS !!!! I repeat 11 !!!!! Eleven hot girls!!!!! AND HE IS WATCHING THE MATCH ? Is this a new kind of foreplay ? Weird? Is he gay? STILLLLL ELEVEN HOT GIRLS SO CLOSE TO ME AT ONE TIME WOULD DEFINITELY CHANGE ME BACK TO STRAIGHT IF I WERE GAY !!!! ELEVEN 11 ELEVEN 11 ELEVEN !!!
Hockey is life, I see no problem.
Wanting to be with someone IS about sex. Perhaps it's not the priority but it is on the mind of the individual who desires a relationship with someone who does not share the same feelings. That is why I have no female friends lest I start to find myself wanting which isn't a good feeling at all. Basically what I'm saying is; no matter how you try to describe the friend zone it's still about trying to get laid but the person don't wanna give it up.
@dategrape, why don't people call it what it is? Is just some unrequited love.
@Jeffyg3, are the best...ok I was super tired and forgot half my post
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"If these women don't stop trying to make out with me, they'll miss the end of the hockey game."
Sorry, the chick in front got me distracted. I read it as PANTIES
Sorry for watching the tv during our pose....