Guys I just told a girl my feelings today and she said she doesn't know and that theres a lot going on in her life, essentially, she put me on hold. My uncle just commit suicide, I didn't shed a single tear, now after she told me this, I bawled like a baby, what's wrong with me...
@DickButtDoodles, hey man pussy is some powerful stuff
@DickButtDoodles, honestly I'm not sure how people work. I myself didn't cry when my older sister died a year ago yet for some reason I'm pouring my eyes out when I watch my favorite movie character die. It may be because those feelings were more fresh and intense in your mind, while reacting to a suicide makes people often want to deny and reject the reality until they can handle it properly.
@DickButtDoodles, I'm sorry for your loss... When my cousin killed herself I didn't cry.. I didn't feel much of anything.. But then, a couple months down the road, I completely broke down over something that was still sad but not to the point of completely breaking down.. I do know that sometimes, in a situation like this, the "missing" emotion is somewhat frozen inside until something else triggers it - such as a girl you really like turning you down - and will bring those emotions to the surface. Nothing is wrong with you, I assure you. Things will get better over time. If you truly feel for this girl, don't give up on her. Be her friend. Help her through what's going on in her life. Hope this helps. Tl;dr nothing's wrong with you, everyone shows emotions differently.
@DickButtDoodles, dam dude that's a lot of deaths in a year, I wish I could relate but I really can't...I don't know if a relationship is the right thing at this time...may be for the better the turmoil of a relationship could mess with you even worse, overall though it may be just a case of shock as to why your not crying about it. I'm no psychiatrist by any means but just hold in there. By your chat language you definitely should turn to your family for comfort, you clearly are looking for it...if your family can't provide the comfort, remember the Funnypics community is always there for you 👍
@DickButtDoodles, really?! Dang dude I'm pretty sure the answer became a definitive no after that. It really sucks about your uncle no doubt but dude come on. That's a thousand times worse than saying I love you on the first date.
@DickButtDoodles, I recommend apologizing and telling her you had a lot going on and the stress got to you. I mean if you ever want more than a pity date. Again I'm not making a joke. You asked what's wrong with you. You wore your heart on your sleeve and wasn't able to take the rejection.
@DickButtDoodles, if I may be so bold, I think maybe your uncles suicide numbed you completely but the girl putting you on hold was pain you could feel, essentially because you had high hopes for a quick yes. Sorry to hear about your uncle and troubles. I mean I got 99 problems but a chick ain't one. Just kidding they're all chicks... Just kidding I'm alone ... Brazzers counts right?
@Just a doctor , that's what happened with my grandpas suicide, the first week I felt nothing but now I ball my eyes because of that...but things got better this year when I met the girl if my dreams by accident, I've found that things that come to you naturally are the best in life, but there are always highs and lows @dickbutdoodles, make it through the low and things will be better, trust me the 2 years of misery paid off...also my wrist used to be very sire then also
@DickButtDoodles, sometimes, the death of a loved one can be so much of a shock that it doesn't hit you till later. I didn't cry much when my grandfather died, or when my grandmother died 7 years later. About a month after I watched a home video with both of them in it and I bawled my eyes out. There's nothing wrong with you.
@DickButtDoodles, I'll be honest. In my experience, which admittedly isn't much, when a girl says she doesn't know, it's her way of turning you down lightly. It could be different for you so keep trying but it happened to me twice
@DickButtDoodles, you're a human, nothing is wrong with you. My grandma died not too long ago, and I didn't cry, but I bawled when my girlfriend of only a year broke up with me. Different events take different tolls.
@EvaWinters, Emotions are weird. I'm currently obsessed with a game character who didn't even die or anything, it's literally only because I found out he's not canon and now I'm super sad.
Emotions suck sometimes.
@Janus , my cats not that strong but I mean I guess
@DickButtDoodles, its different. When my mom died, I didnt cry. I just focused on the happy things I had with her. But in the last month I came out to my two best friends that I am bisexual and that I was also in love with them. The girl, ended up she was asexual and had thought about us dating but no. The guy, as I knew was straight so of course he did not want to date me. And so I had cried for both these times, and not only because I got shot down but because they were both so supportive and it made me very emotional. So it is a very different thing and there is nothing wrong with you.
@DickButtDoodles, a lot of the time when their is a death in the family people ball those emotions up and you seem like a prince ruperts drop, you appear indestructible but when something clips your tail those bundled up emotions spew out and you just have to cry, it's only normal
@DickButtDoodles, being emotional sucks! Trust me, I've had more than my fair share of shjt happen in my life, but I've found that sometimes taking a break from people (like going on a long bike ride or listening to your favorite albums, for example) has helped me calm down and get me thoughts situated. Stay strong and safe.
@DickButtDoodles, Hate to sound cynical, but I did the same earlier in the summer, and she said the same thing, and it ended up with me feeling like dying as I found out about her and another guy. Just be careful about girls
@DickButtDoodles, Nothing. You're perfect in your own way. Honestly, she doesn't know right off the bat then she doesn't deserve you man. You're an amazing person, you could get anyone you want. So go for it! I have faith in you my friend. I'm so sorry for your loss, may God heal all your wounds.
@DickButtDoodles, believe me man. If she's being truthful don't give up, but if she makes you wait too long cut yourself loose and look after you first. Death compared to relationships affect everyone differently and you might not be in as good as a place as you think. Good luck to you and hope everything goes positively
Now if only I can find one of these so called "gamer girls" and prove this theory
@casypup, probably on the other side of the deep web.
@casypup, I play GTA and that's it but I'd still understand it cant be paused
@casypup, Well if you like the game Destiny, there are quite a few, like Laced Up Lauren or Ms. 5000 Watts.
@casypup, You play Destiny?
@Bob the Pink Hoe, It all depends which system they play on
@casypup, Nice me too.
@Bob the Pink Hoe, I think I've found my soulmates...
@Bob the Pink Hoe, I just got off it to go to bed actually
@Bob the Pink Hoe, sweet, add me on ps4, casypup
@casypup, Will do bro
@casypup, Just saying, im a girl and I am a "gamer girl" I play different games but I havent played anything recently
@LinkandWolfLink, what kind of games?
@casypup, I think the last game I played was call of duty ghosts. As I said before, LONG time ago. And I wasnt too aware of other games like destiny and such
@casypup, hi! Yes, this is true. It doesn't keep me from getting irritated and turning off the computer/Xbox/PS when I asked 12 times for you to take the trash out BEFORE you started playing that game. (Children only, my husband suffers other ways when he ignores my chore list in favor of his gaming system)
"Dinner in five! Pause it and come eat!" Hold on I gotta finish this can't be paused "just pause it, get down here" no mom I can't or my rank will drop "no big deal if you pause it! Get down here now!!!" *forced to leave the game* OK where's the food "it'll be ready in ten minutes"
@Exotic Xer, Too true.
@Exotic Xer, Every. Damn. Time.
"Derp come for dinner" " can't mom I'm playing online" "your feeding anyway just quit"
I was born a generation too early
But if they know...then wouldn't they be even more threatening?
We can only hope
First we see a post about gamer girls
True and in knowing this we will expect our children not to start an online game before dinner, chores and homework
But what if in the future, time itself can be paused for each individual, but video games are chronolocked and mothers don't understand that?
We'll also know when you try to take more time "finding a save spot" when you have save menu access. -__-
Gamer girls don't want to have kids, they just want to play games.
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