Hey everyone, I know some of you might not care and idc if this is downvoted or not, but I'm saying this because I have noticed how the community helps each other sometimes and I need some right now. My gf dumped me because I called her friend cute in a friendly way. I spent an hour apologizing with the help of that friend of hers to clear things up. It didn't work. She says she hates me and never wants to see me again and that I'm worse than her ex. Who put her in a hospital from beating her. She was my best friend and I've spent all day literally in tears because she was my everything. Idk what to do anymore and I wanted to hear if any of you had any advice on this
@The Landshark , For complimenting her friend? She ain't worth it.
@The Landshark , if someone dumps you from something small like that, it's a good thing, because it means it wouldn't have worked out long term. You'll find someone better, or you could bang her friend. Both are applicable
@Ajunta Pall, thanks man. I've been thinking that way but it's hard you know. I also have no idea why you're getting downvoted. I think you're funny most of the time. Who cares about the leaderboard. It's hypocritical to downvote you systematically and then say that the leaderboard doesn't matter
@The Landshark , if she treated me like that, shiiiiiit! I'd be the one to dump her. You can do better!
@The Landshark , If she truly dumped you for that one comment than the issue is definitely with her. Chances are though that it may be more than that and that was just the boiling point
@The Landshark , How old are you?
@He Shat You Not, thanks. You're all right. It wasn't worth it
@Abusive Breasts, thanks abusive breasts. Looks like you and her had something in common
@The Landshark , Thanks
@PeanutButterPopsicle, 22, why?
@The Landshark , what a bitch.....her not you. Let her go and if she would rather be in the hospital regularly then let her be. You deserve better because honestly she's being immature and STUPID. *virtual bro hug*
@The Landshark , she might just need time to cool down. I know if i have a boyfriend that's pissing me off or something i dont want him to apologize over and over, I just wanna be left alone. She's probably blowing it way out of proportion and she'll realize how silly it is after some time
@YEE, *virtual bro hug*
@The Landshark , first of all I second Ajunta Pall - if she's going to do that over that, she ain't worth it. Second - give it time. If she is worth it she'll realize that she blew it way out of proportion and come around. She probably, for whatever reason, feels that you hurt her and just wants to hurt you back (even if in the big picture it's just silly). Just give it time and if she doesn't realize that it was an overreaction you just saved yourself a lot of time and a bigger heartbreak in the future. The community is always here.
@The Landshark , ok bro. We need to find out what is really wrong here. If she makes a big thing out of this, there must be other underlying factors. Is there a history between you and that friend? The fact that you called that friend to help convincing her actually made things worse, I guess. She obviously is insecure about something, and then the person you use to solve an argument is that exact person that made her insecure in the first place. I guess you just convinced her that her overreaction and suspicion was justified. I am not saying it was, just trying to help you to find the root cause here.
@Pinkpuppetfred, she blocked my number, threatened to call the police, and made her friends stop talking to me. I don't think this is something to cool off from
@The Landshark , wait, so this girl is also around your age? Because that's some real middle-school shyt to pull on you.
@El Grande D, I already told pinkpuppetfriend why I'm sure what you're saying isn't true. But thanks
@frodo from 349, none. We'd literally met today and I'm a friendly guy so I complimented her
@The Landshark , Just, keep your distance. She sounds kinda crazy.
@CunningLinguist, nah, she's 10. She's 24. We've been friends children and started dating a few months ago
@The Landshark , ok then I'd say get out the ice cream and start getting over her. She seems too toxic to be around.
@The Landshark , I agree, she overreacted. But given the fact that her last relationship was an abusive one, she's gonna be a little emotionally damaged and more guarded now. If you really care about her and don't want the relationship to end, you've got to prove and reassure her that you love her.
@The Landshark , hey man, don't think to much into it. As a woman, we can all be a bitch at times. If she doesn't want you back, then she's definitely missing out, I'm sure. 🙂 just remember that there's more fish in the sea, and that she's not worth your tears!
@The Landshark , You'll live. Engross yourself in a hobby for a week, listen to happy music that isn't about love, and read some books.
@The Landshark , move on
@The Landshark , it's all good bro I was in the same boat a few years ago. Turns out the girl that helped me out was awesome girlfriend material lol. It'll be alright dude. To quote a somewhat famous 'philosopher' "just keep swimming" lol
@The Landshark , because that sounds like high school stuff, man. Honestly, she did you a favor.
@The Landshark , lol dumb@ss. At any rate if she's so vain that's how she reacts then you did yourself a favor
@The Landshark , kind of reiterating what ajunta pall said, but really. That's just… woof. And I get that you cared for her, but let her go. You'll get over it eventually. Maybe she just wasn't thinking right.
@The Landshark , let me tell you something from someone with perspective, run from her. She is toxic, whether on purpose or not, and she will do nothing but bring you down
@The Landshark , how old are you? Cause she's acting like she's 4
@The Landshark , She sounds kind of crazy and immature, you're better off without her.
@The Landshark , damn dude you got hella responses. My answer has already been said by everyone else, so I'll say this. You got a lot of support from everyone here so it looks like you're in the right in this situation. I know it's hard to lose someone like that so just give her some space and one of two things will happen. She will talk to you again or you will move on. If she talks to you again it means she cares about you and is worth having in your life, if not then you're better off moving on. So it works out in the end. Good luck man. -Your friendly neighborhood Spatula.
@The Landshark , im so glad to see that our community is giving you support it times like this im extremely happy to be apart of this community and hey her loss your gain in its own way it shows she wasnt the one for you so my friend drink and be merry for the lighy shall rise tomorrow and dawn a new day *virtual bro hug and fist bump*
@The Landshark , Man. That sucks but I'm gonna side with Ajunta Pall and Abusive Breasts here on that one. Her treating you like that isn't acceptable. I understand that it hurts. I can sympathize with you on that one. But there had to have been underlying issues somewhere else for that to happen and she just hasn't spoken up and that was the snapping point. You can and will do better than her and soon you'll see that. Just don't bang her friend. That never ends well. Unless you like her. Then whatever. Just don't do it for revenge. Been there, done that. Bad idea.
@Abusive Breasts, well breasts, you're right. She apologized and explained herself. She said everything is okay, but she's not in the mental state to be in a relationship rn. She suffers from borderline personality disorder like me, but hers is much worse. So she insisted I go out with her friend and me and her can stay friends
@The Landshark , you did nothing wrong. She seems insecure. You are not comparable to someone who beats someone up to the point they need to be hospitalized. You are your own person not someone's possession-she can't control how you talk to people-especially since she didn't want you to be nice.
You sound like a stand up guy and I'm sorry you're having a tough breakup
@The Landshark , hookers and blow should help
@The Landshark , I know it's already been said a thousand times but she's not worth it. Maybe one day she'll realize how ridiculous that was of her to act that way and beg for you to come back to her but we're all going to agree that you should be the better man and say no. However that will be your choice to make. That's one crazy bitch right there.
@The Landshark , I feel you. I've had a sh*t relationship stuff this year. 2 girls and 2 guys. And it hurts either way. I have really been messed up over leaving a guy for sex with a girl and I hated myself for it and hurt myself quite a bit. But recently with the help of people around me I've pushed through it. Don't be sad over this because life moves on and paths that cross eventually go separate ways. Life is full of paths. You'll cross many more and there will be people that walk those paths with you. Never forget the people who are beside you and listen to them. People here have quite literally saved my life and supported me through my troubles. I only want to return the favor. Ily bby
@The Landshark , my friend it appears she has very bad trust issues and is insecure about herself,. That's her own problem, you did nothing wrong and I know how bad it hurts for someone you love so much to dump you, but believe me it was for the better,.. For now look at funny pics, watch qorn , and try to get over her, eventually you will, and then you'll wonder why you were even so down, a new girl will enter your life and that void she created will be filled with joy again, and maybe it'll stay like that or maybe the process happens again, but you'll be fine in the end.,.. I hope this was helpful... Here's an upvote
@The Landshark , some friendly advice from someone that's been married twice.
Just think if it's worth all that drama over nothing.
My wife is cool, I can check out a hot chick and say look at the butt on that one, she knows I have a perv at joggers,
it's kind of normal for a guy to do that.
If he isn't looking at good looking women something is seriously wrong...
@The Landshark , hey, I'm a married female so I thought I'd give my input. F8ck that bjtch. Seriously. No relationship could last long term if she hurt you over calling another woman "cute" in a non sexual way. She's obviously insecure and was just using you. You can do WAY better, keep your chin up and know that it has nothing to do with you.
@The Landshark , I think I understand why her last ex beat on her....
@The Landshark , she ain't worth the tip of your c*ck
@The Landshark , it wouldn't have worked out long term I mean in order to get by in the world you almost have to compliment people. My doctorly advice? Pork her friend bud :). Or rebound, rebounds help with getting over someone
@Just a doctor , yeah I'm messing around with her friend now, ironically with my ex's permission. She apologized and said that we could still be friends, but can't date because she's not in the mental state (suffers from borderline personality disorder like me) to have a relationship. So me and her are staying friends, but I'm banging her friend now
@The Landshark , wow buddy DO NOT go out with her friend!!! That is what's called "entrapment" she's trying to prove that you do like her friend
@SOPT RAIDEN, you're right. I'll just be friends with her friend then. Hadn't thought of it that way
@The Landshark , I got you fam, bros before hoes
@The Landshark , I think you've dodged a bullet there, buddy. Falling out of love is HARD, but you're young and will move on. I'm so sorry.
@DaddyWurzel, seriously. My husband and I always express when we think someone is hot. We both know we won't act upon mere physical lust. It's our 5 year anniversary this year and we were both surprised it's already been that long. I guess that's a good sign.
@Pizzazz, I can't think of a better sign than that man. I wish you another great five years
@Pizzazz, or woman* since I may have misread the comment lol either way glad to hear you're relationship is going wel
Honestly I have no idea what this means, but the random Jewish name made me laugh so UPVOTE
@moist shrimp legs, I believe it's using the stereotype that Jews are really clever businessmen and he's making the company scared it will lose a lawsuit to a Jewish guy so it will appease him
I know this is unrelated, but is anyonw here a ps4 gamer? I would play online durinh the summer with anyone here. If you want to play, tell me and ill give you my gamertag.
@onewhowatches, my username there is casypup, add meee 😁
@onewhowatches, mostly depends where you're from honestly, as time zones can be a real bïtch
What games are you on
@onewhowatches, add me my brethren renji559
@Smash Like Gaston, gta v, farming sim 2015, watch dogs, farcry 4, star wars battlefront
@casypup, does yourndescription say im awesome?
@casypup, you play fallout 4?
@onewhowatches, yeah, just got it platinum last week
@casypup, okay, so i sent that request to the right person
@onewhowatches, I'll get it tomorrow, I'm in bed right now
@Marshal Bowdrie, they can be until summer in which time is a fickle tool to measure how long before I work again not when j sleep.
@casypup, oh i almost forgot, i have a youtube channel and stream fairly regularly so if you want to be in a stream someday..
@onewhowatches, we ps4 gamers on funny pics have a community named StuckPixel
@Ajunta Pall, @casypup, Y'all haven't added me yet. What the hell? I'm not that scary. Also, @onewhowatches, I'm IMA_3AT_YO_FAC3.
@onewhowatches, add me @duan_wei
Can someone explain?
@Pinkpuppetfred, Jewish stereotype that their kids are either doctors or lawyers. They're smart and ruthless, so they will win any case. It's not worth it to fight with a Jewish lawyer. Or so the stereotype goes.
"Random Jewish name" Why am I laughing this hard?
@Ajunta Pall, do you regularly post on tumblr? I hear that has something to do with laughing uncontrollably at normal stuff.
@George Feeny, No... I might need help
@Ajunta Pall, "I am sorry, I am afraid to tell you you have tumblerism you have less then a week to live"
@Killing instincts , What? No! NOOOOOO!!!
What does "cc" mean?
@Scotch Pilgrim, carbon copy. It's not a literal carbon copy anymore since that's outdated to hell, but in this case it means that someone else is also receiving the email chain not just one person so like a lawyer, lawyers client, and the third party being part of the email
@Scotch Pilgrim, dating from when people would put a sheet of carbon paper under another piece of paper while writing. The carbon transfers exactly what you are writing to a bottom paper. Think about those receipt books some people use
Well idk about anyone else, but my domain sure is firm.