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@King Millner, ...the percentage is based on known knowledge of who is and who isn't gay..the more acceptable it is, the more people will come out. it has nothing to do with whether it is genetic or not. if it was completely unaccepted in society, then a very low percentage would be recorded as gay because there would be a fear of coming out
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@Davrial, But it's not unreasonable to try not to make any assumptions at all, so if your kid is gay they don't think they're not living up to your expectations. It's all too easy to do what my mom did... "Do you like any girls?" "No." "Do you like any boys?" "No." "Alright, well let me know if you do." Continually asking about girls your son has a crush on (or boys your daughter has a crush on) without occasionally tossing in other possibilities is a recipe for disaster if your kid actually turns out to not be straight.
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@Oujosh29, No, because then you're making them feel like they have to be that way. If your father says over and over again how much he's looking forward to you taking over the family business, is it going to be hard to admit that you want to be a pilot? Yes. It'll feel like you're disappointing him. Even with my mom obviously not caring what my sexuality was, it was *still* hard to admit that I was not as straight as I had assumed. I can't even imagine what it would have been like if all I had heard growing up was one expectation continuously repeated.
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@King Millner, Yeah, your kid is *probably* straight, but it's not safe to go about life assuming that's a fact because it might lead your kid to believe that they'd be disappointing you if they don't turn out the way you expect. It's all too easy to do what my mom did... "Do you like any girls?" "No." "Do you like any boys?" "No." "Alright, well let me know if you do."
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@Ruupasya, That's not right at all. If you force your kid to be straight and tell them that they shouldn't be gay but then they are, THEN they will feel like they disappointed you. If you just assume that they are straight but they are gay, then they should just recognize that gays make up a small minority of the population so it's not a big deal to assume one is straight.
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Seeing as how those are the preschool fridge magnet numbers, I'm gonna go ahead and assume that the children in question have no idea that their junk does anything more than make peepee, and love is that weird word mommies and daddies day to each other before putting their mouths where food is supposed to go. (Each other's mouths is what I'm implying. You dirty birdy.)
Considering only 3.5% of the population is gay/lesbian or bi, I think the odds are in my favor that my kids will be straight