My lover, with whom I've been completely smitten for seven years, just left me for my best friend, so I feel your pain op (if you weren't just making a meme)
@Tyrellious, I hope you're staying strong 👊 never happened to me but I feel your sadness
@AdrianBrody, thanks man. It's been up and down. Today was especially rough because I saw her, but it can only get better from here. I really appreciate the support
@Tyrellious, yeah no kidding. Supposedly it gets worse before it gets better but everyone is different. Stay strong
@Tyrellious, happened to me as well it really hurts, but time heals all wounds
@InsaneWorm, I sure hope so
@Tyrellious, No problem, you're not alone
@Tyrellious, he violated the bro code what a djck
@InsaneWorm, it's really nice to know that
@FFCrisisC, yeah tell me about it...
@Tyrellious, to everyone that has replied or upvoted (or will) thank you all so much. Those two were really my only friends and knowing that I have this community here is more of a relief than I ever thought I'd have. I'm so glad to be able to be a part of it!
@Tyrellious, bang her mom and knock her up, become the step father, seize the house, dominate
@Tyrellious, sorry to hear about that man. Stay positive. Also, the post is from reddit, so no need to worry bout that. Chin up fella!
@InsaneWorm, that wouldnt apply if we were elephants. People just have the unfortunateness/fortunateness to vault and let go.
@Tyrellious, Well I mean, it COULD always get worse. You could get stabbed in the kidneys.
@Tyrellious, all I can say is worry about you and yours, worry about yourself and your life, deal with whatever you need to deal with but the best way to move on is to take it one day at a time and do whatever it is you need to do, whether it's washing your car or going to the store, just do you and you'll be happy (:
And of course there's always time to pull out your phone and view some funny pics (or catch some Pokemon if you've hopped on that train) and enjoy this amazing, supportive community who only wants the best for our fellow members
@Tyrellious, get yourself a bottle of whiskey and tinder and see where the night leads
@Tyrellious, taking long drives late at night really helped me. Just play some music, grab some chips and a soda, and drive for 2-3 hours.
@Tyrellious, Feel ya man. Some advice, there will be a day she will contact you again. Whatever you do don't even acknowledge her. Yes it'll be hard ive been there done that and dealt with the aftermath. Funny pics community got your back (I don't know how to do emojis so pretend I did the fist emoji)
@Abusive Breasts, Then make her stand in the corner for eternity
@Tyrellious, My fiancé and mother of my unborn child just left me for her ex whom (you guessed it) she told me not to worry about. So I feel your pain too bruh
@Tyrellious, that happened to me several years ago and the best thing in the world is running into her and her family (her parents love me) and taking about how successful I am (she failed out of beauty school and is a bartender)
@Quoth the Revan, wow man. That's really rough. I'm sorry to hear that. Stay strong. We're all in this together, and this awesome community will always be there to back you up, me included
@MasterCylinder, that sounds awesome. I hope I can rise above this and make her regret it like you did
@Tyrellious, I sincerely feel for you and I hope you will get to a better place soon. Life can feel like an insurmountable burden at times. I won't bother you with "there's plenty more fish in the sea" or "when life closes a door" type of nonsense but do know that your post made me stop, think, and care about a stranger on the Internet. Best of luck to you.
@Dr Crowntwig, thank you very much. That means a lot to me right now
@Tyrellious, hey man im in the random section and just wanted to say i hope things have gotten better for you.
@bigbrownbeaver, they have a bit, random traveler. Those two broke up literally 2 days ago, and I've moved on to another woman who I think is even better. I don't know that she will ever have any interest in me, but I already like her more than I did the other one, and I objectively think we'd make a better pair.
@Tyrellious, good luck. Hope it goes well
@Tyrellious, so hows it going buddy?
@BigCook, im over her. Have been for a while now. She and he have already broken up (laughably). I am smitten with a very sweet girl who lives right down the road from me (though I don't think she's interested, I still believe she and I would be a better match, as she is, subjectively and objectively, a much better, more beautiful person, inside and out). School and work are keeping me busy. And I'm trying not to worry about her too much atm. All in all just livin my life. One day at a time.
@Tyrellious, so it's been a year or so since you posted this, and I hope my reply to you finds you in a good place in your life and you are doing very well. A similar situation has happened to me. The woman I love with all my heart and my all, left me. Bought her a new car, invested my time, money, love, put my future on hold and so much more all for her. So I feel your pain brother. But it does get better. It has to rain before the flowers can bloom. And i hope you are doing so much better a year later and happy where you are at! Peace bruv
@LilPuppyOfDOOM , thank you kind traveler. I am didheartened to hear of your misfortune, but your words encourage me. My current situation is a bit weird. As life would have it, she broke up with him, (16 months ago, given they started dating 22 months ago) and, loyal as I am, I believed we could be friends again. And while we are friends (though it seems to be dwindling of late, due to the fact that she has started talking to him again, and now barely speaks to me) I have abandoned all illusions of ever being with her. I now, unless someone should come along, will live as the hungry wolf. But I am at peace with it, and am thankful you brought it up. Going back to that place and looking over these old posts always stirs up the writer in me and increases my drive to do better. I keep the pain in my back pocket as motivation. I’m thinking of getting a wolf tattoo to be a reminder of what I am, and wish peace on you too, in all that you do. Have a blessed existence, and remember that,
@LilPuppyOfDOOM , no matter who is in your life, you intrinsically rock. (The new song “Danny Don’t You Know” by NSP encapsulates this pretty well. I’d recommend it.)
@Tyrellious, my brother, your situation is not far from mine. We broke up 7 months ago, she moved on from a man that loved and still loves her dearly, to a man who mistreats her harshly, being a disgruntled veteran, I've wanted to bash this guys head in, I've rescued her so many times, the times she has been kicked out of their place. Sometimes I feel as if I'm just a backup, the fallback, the man who will just drop everything to help her out, and the idiot who is being used by her. I dont know, my heart still aches and longs for her, but its through people like you, this wonderful community, and the little things in life that give me hope, keep me strong, and keeps keeping on. So my dear brother, I encourage you to look for the beautiful things in life, the small things, through music (which I just finished listening to your suggestion, great song btw) sit down and look at the sunrise, or the sunset, a nice walk in the mountains or near a peaceful body of water.
@Tyrellious, But most importantly you must find it within yourself. In your heart, as well as in your mind. Be of sound body, mind, and heart. Be at peace with yourself. Remember that every white water river comes to a calming flow. You matter a whole damn lot, dont forget that. Life is too damn beautiful to be down. So keep your head up, and keep on. The only person keeping you from peace is yourself, and everything will be okay.
@LilPuppyOfDOOM , you’ve brought tears to my eyes brother. I have a newfound sense of camaraderie. We will survive, thrive, and arrive at our goals in due time, lilpup. Until then, let us simply do the best we can
@Tyrellious, you'll always have a brother in me my friend. And amen to that.
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I'm sorry man I can't begin to understand how that would feel but if she did that to you the relationship was never meant to be. Let it go. Easier said than done though I know
@AdrianBrody, ah yes, the tactics of a narcissist