His game is weak
@Dexios S Divine, Like my pull out game...
@Indomunisrekt, pull out game? What's that? Never heard of it...
@Indomunisrekt, basically goes to if you can pull out of a girls V at the last second possible before ejaculating. Just wear a condom..
I got to get this off my chest. My best friend invited a guy from tinder for sex and when she met him, she didn't want to do it. No because of his physical attributes but there was no chemistry. I said "bitch, it's a hookup. You don't date while having sex." Seriously, that pissed me off.
@hasher2288, hookup or not she can always say no, frankly it isnt worth fussing about either. If no one forced anything then the only loss was a boner turned blue balls.
@Ludicrous Panda, you don't invite someone over for sex then wuss out cause there's no emotional chemistry. If she wanted that, go on a date first. Don't invite a guy over for sex then reject him. It's a hookup not a date.
@hasher2288, I'm not saying it didn't suck for the dude. I'm just saying it isn't a crime for someone to get cold feet. Was the intent for sex there? Yes. Was the excuse given unusual? Again yes. But there is still no obligation, merely expectation.
@Ludicrous Panda, what ticks me more off is that, this is her 3rd Guy! She invited them over to her unit. One guy said "is tonight the night I come over and we can get sweaty?". She invited him that night to her unit then.... no emotional chemistry and she kicked him out.... 3 guys that she told me about. Who knows how many more she invited. I told her, go on a date first then see where it goes. Can't have your cake and eat it too.
@hasher2288, there's still no obligation to do anything once you invite someone over. The "we're meeting to have sex" part is understood, but it's an invite, not a binding contract. She's allowed to decide nah for whatever reason she wants, yknow?
@hasher2288, also idk the situation but for me, if I can't connect with a guy when we talk, that's a big turn off. I don't mean deep talk, just like having an easy rapport etc .. Most people don't randomly have sex with people they don't click with at all
@Carmen Sandiego, that's what I'm trying to say. If you want emotional stimulation, or building chemistry/rapport before having sex. That's cool, I'm down for it. But invite them for dinner, drinks, pub first. Don't invite them for sex first!!! She did that to 3 Guys and rejected them
@Carmen Sandiego, let's say you're digging this guy online. Cute, handsome, can keep a conversation online. So you invite him for sex. And yes it's for sex. You made it clear it was a hook up. He rocks up to your home, you speak for 5 minutes and you don't dig him at all cause there's no rapport. You kick him out. Now that's silly don't you recon? The smart thing to do is go to a pub or say something "let's have a drink first, and see where it goes. If we get along, you can smash me". See where I'm getting at?
@hasher2288, have you ever tried to have sex with a girl who isn't into it? It's literally painful. Sorry to be blunt, but if they aren't wet, sex won't be fun for either. It's the same for men, if they aren't into it and can't get it up, then you literally can't have sex. She's gotta be turned on. Some people can't just pull down their pants and do it. So yeah, emotional chemistry is important. She invited him over for just sex, yeah, but foreplay, dirty talk, all that is part of sex. Emotionless sex isn't for everyone. And someone who can't have emotionless sex still deserves to have sex once in a while. If there is no emotional connection, and she can't get into it, then there is literally no problem and all the guys should stop whining.
@McGeek, read my replies. It answers your comments. Girls should stop playing with men and get straight to the point. None of these mind games. If a girl wants rapport then invite him out first before stating she wants a hook up. People need to stop these childish games.
Seems like something my weird ass cousin would write
Her response was luke warm.
Use the force...