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@stankindustries , *whispers* little bitssssssss
@Weird Porn Stash, "eat some fvcking sh!t you fvcking stupid bitch, haha I'm just kidding."
Every year my family finds a smol pumpkin, carved the same face out of it, and calls it Tim.
Guys I need help or advice or something. I just found out that my best friend/ex girlfriend, who I also still have feelings for, is dating someone and it's been eating me up ever since I found out. She's talked to people in the past and I've always hated it but this is the first time she's dated someone since we broke up. I want her to be happy and I'm glad she is, but it always feels like her happiness comes at the expense of mine. I could barely sleep last night I felt so shjtty, what do I do???
@jklyt1, cut her entirely out of your life. In spite of what're everyone says, you can't be friends after you've been together, you'll never move on. Delete her number, get rid of her on Facebook, make it so you never hear from her ever again.
@Hellabaloo, I've tried to do that before and I couldn't. But I don't think you're wrong :/ we've known each other for almost two years now though and at this point she's become friends with my friends. Kinda makes it harder to cut her out
@jklyt1, tell her honestly how you feel. Put yourself out there one last time. And tell her you cannot be friends with her. It hurts too much to see her with someone else. If she does not come back to you, delete her from your life and move on. I had to do this with my ex husband. No contact is best. He is blocked from my phone, facebook and everything. I do not wish to see him with another. It's greatly helped me forget him and move on.
@bootyquake, I know you're both right and I hope I can force myself to do that but what about us having the same circle of friends? Do you and your ex husband's lives ever overlap? And how do you deal with it if they do? This is kinda my main concern right now. She doesn't hang out with my friends as much as I do but she does every now and then.
@jklyt1, i am fortunate in the fact that he and I live in seperate states now and only have one friend in common. Distance yourself from running into her and start seeing other people. The distraction will help and time will heal your heart as your feeling for her will fade
@jklyt1, the way I see it, you can take control of the situation and limit/ cut off contact on your terms or be continually jealous by everyone that she hangs out with. Why put yourself through that. It's not even like you hope to try one day, you DID try and it didn't work. Don't let yourself get hung up because not having a relationship is frightening. Be happy for the experience and get her out of your head. You'll miss something else if you don't.
@nepheal, it's not necessarily the not being in a relationship part that bothers me, it the not being with her. I'm the one who ended the relationship, so I can't really blame anyone else but I just feel like I did prematurely because I was scared and thought I wanted to be single over being with her. Now I know if rather be with her.
@jklyt1, then you're gonna suffer, and it will only get worse.
@Hellabaloo, I just talked to my friend at work and he said the exact same thing. I've deleted her almost completely from my phone and social media so I guess I'll just go forward from here and see what happens
@jklyt1, cutting her out of your life is not necessarily the answer. Think about how you would feel if someone you were really close to suddenly stopped talking to you and cut you out of their life. I know it's hard to see her with someone else but it'll get better. Enjoy the time you have together as friends, and know that anything can happen in the future. If you want to be with her, there's a chance she might want that too, or maybe in the future she will. I know from experience that cutting off the people you love only hurts both of you. As for dealing with seeing her with someone else, distract yourself with other things or don't hang out with them as much. Try to move on, I promise you it's not impossible. And if you really can't deal with it, talk to her about it and maybe you can come to a solution that way. Good luck.
@Trogdorman, I appreciate the positivity, I really do. But it's been a year and a half of her knowing that I have serious feeling for her and us being on and off again friends with benefits (at her whim of course) so I agree with them that I need space. She knows exactly how I feel and I can tell she still has feelings too but there's something holding her back and idk if she's ever gonna get over whatever it is. About two months ago we were hanging out at my place watching TV and she decided to start slowing cuddling up to me which I avoided doing for a little and then finally caved and held her, then at the end of the night I kissed her and she got flustered, said she was "so confused now", and then said that she "had a reason she just couldn't date me again" but refused to tell me what that reason was. I care about her but obviously she's happy with this guy so I just need to get away from her for a while. I doubt she'll even notice that much
@Trogdorman, *slowly cuddling
That's what Trump calls his djck