Fvck that i wouldnt even let my own parents in that room let alone my in-laws. Not even sitting outside the door. I'll let u know whats going down and the next call will be when u can visit. End of story
@PunnyBaker, literally what me and my wife did. It was an amazing decision. Soooo much better from the stuff other people tell us about. My sister who has 2 kids was even jealous of our experience to hers. Ha ha!
Simpler answer. Say no.
@I Are Lebo, is he the one squeezing it out? Then he has no say
@Salem, in his parents being present, I agree. But this attitude is dangerous. Fathers are important for a lot more than just fertilization.
@I Are Lebo, no I completely agree. I truly think the reason why so many kids are problematic is because of an absence of a father figure. Fathers are incredibly important. But during the actual birthing, you stand there and hold your wife's hand saying sorry. 😁
@Salem, “I wanted to do it in the butt, but YOU said ‘no, it’ll be too painful!’, well now here we are.”
That's completely fair. Also why the fvck would you want to be in the delivery room? I was in the delivery room for my little brother. It was boring, it smelled bad, and mom didn't want us in there anyway. There was 0 reason to be in there until after my brother was born.
Tell the hospital staff to keep them the Fvçk out.
My parents abandoned me before I was born
@MuggyBroom, my parents had me aborted.
@I Are Lebo, my parents didn’t conceive me.
If my wife was having a baby, my Mother would be trying to break the door down to get in the moment the baby is born. Then she’d hug me and whisper ‘finally’ in my ear. I love my mother but she’s a bit obsessed about being a grandma. Probably cause her mom tried to spoil me rotten.
@Cloverleaf, me and my wife didn’t tell my parents it was happening until we were ready for them to visit after the birth. It was a great decision. Ha ha! My mom got over it super fast because she was too happy anyway. The privacy, enjoying the intimate moments with your wife and child, and the ability to rest before having company (for my wife, obviously) was beyond worth it! Plus they can bring you food on the way in.
No is that word hard to grasp
Who takes 12 hours to squeeze them out. This is childish just let them in.
Tell him if he needs his mommy so bad that he can wait outside. Where his parents will be
just strap a go pro on the baby for fun family memories for years to come
Hmm. Fair enough!
I already do that
Challenge accepted.... if my parents were still alive