Bitches do this cr@p all the time for free drinks. It's sickening
@Dr WillGood, who would turn down a free drink? No reason to give someone desperate enough, no offense meant to anyone who uses this method, to pick someone up that they try buy their interest and time with drinks your phone number. I’m just saying it’s your choice to buy someone drinks you can’t really fault them for accepting
@Dr WillGood, As a girl, I feel guilty when I take a "free" drink and am not interested, but taking a free drink doesn't grant the person a right to your phone number or you being "theirs" all night. You dont sign a contract and agree to those terms before you take the drink. If you notice shes not interested after the first one, stop buying them.
@Dr WillGood, Dont buy a girl a drink; buy her an appetizer. Not only will it make you stand out but also no bad decision was ever made from having too many appetizers!
@shareeeeeee, you’re definitely right about drinks not entitling a a guy to someone’s phone number, but if the girl accepts lots of drinks and acts flirty then it is just leading someone on and that’s all sorts of jacked up. There is nothing wrong with accepting that first free drink but make the uninterest apparent or the person accepting the drinks is just as much at fault as the person buying them.
@George Feeny, bruh, its still manipulative. Do you not understand social Interaction? Ofc you can fault them for accepting. If they're at a bar and a guy buys them drinks, that means that he's Interested, and the girl should only accept if she's Interested. If she isn't, that means she used him.
@shareeeeeee, are all of you autistic? (Don't answer) it's not about rights, it's about being a cvnt of a human being. Just because something isn't etched into law doesn't mean that it isn't wrong or manipulative.
As for the last part, look men are way more desperate than women. I'm sure you can't understand this since you're a woman, but men take accepting a gift as a form of Interest. You should absolutely
feel guilty, but maybe you should use that feeling to become a better human being, rather than ignoring it while you slurp down drinks that someone else paid for
@yes bots, isn't buying a drink an ice breaker? It's like you're buying the opportunity to try and make her interested and if you fail then you wasted your opportunity.
@Medal Delivery Boy, yes, but what we're specifically talking about is that situation, but after the guy fails to interest the girl, she continues to accept drinks. The women in this scenario have no Intention of getting with the guy, therefore it's manipulative
@TennesseeCousinLover, yes, I agree completely. Those are two different things, not every girl is manipulative and will take advantage of a guy like that. One drink won't break his bank, or his heart.
@George Feeny, a lot of girls do actually, because they know the guy is interested.
@yes bots, kinda seems like if you bought her 5 drinks and you couldn’t tell she only wanted the drinks and nothing to do with you, you should have had a sign or two that’s how it was gonna go.
@nepheal, yes I agree, but it's not always that simple though
@yes bots, all I’m saying is if you’re buying drinks for someone “all night” you’re trying a bit hard and coming off as either desperate or trying to get her drunk either way I don’t think either of those would mean someone would want that person to be able to contact her again.
@Jipz, it kind of is, after at most about 15 -20 minutes of talking to a stranger you should be able to know if you can ask for a number. Any longer than that and you’re taking up her whole night and nobody wants a stranger talking in their ear all night. If you have a chance you will know for sure by then any longer then that and you really are just wasting you’re own time. I mean honestly in 15 minutes you will cover just about all mindless small talk that you could think of in that time you should be able to make at least some meaningful conversation and decide if you want to risk it or keep trying to get her drunk which is a pretty bad dating strategy
@TennesseeCousinLover, i can agree with that logic.
@yes bots, if she acts interested then yes I agree but if you keep buying a girl drinks who doesn't seem interested in you then you only have yourself to blame.
@shareeeeeee, I agree, just cause I buy a girl I’m not entitled to anything, especially if she clearly shows she’s not interested. But I’ve seen plenty of girls start flirting with guys just to get free drinks and leading a guy on like that is messed up
@Dr WillGood, I never buy them drinks. I just sit with them and keep ordering for me at the end if they've been ordering too I tell the bartender I never offered to pay for hers
@shareeeeeee, would you offer to buy a guy a drink?
@Dr WillGood, I would not. Not my method of trying to get a guys number. They choose this method on their own. I've given my number to people who didnt buy me a drink, but got my attention another, free, way. Lol
@shareeeeeee, see now that’s a good plan that way you knownthey are fiscally responsible as well as clever lol
@shareeeeeee, don't get me wrong. I never buy girls drinks in bars. I've worked in enough bars to see guys doing this and women taking advantage of their stupidity. And I know that a lot of women don't do this but I get annoyed at the women that go out of their way to feign interest in a guy just for free drinks. The kind of women that wear it a s a badge of honour that they went out with £20 and came home with £20 because they suckered some idiot into buying them drinks all night. I even recall times where I've been in bars and women have actually approached me as I'm buying myself a drink and try to grinf*ck me into buying them a drink. This is what frustrates me.
@Medal Delivery Boy, yeah but if she keeps accepting when not intetested then she is just an ass.
I see that I’m not the only one who thinks that it’s bad style to keep on accepting free drinks all night if you’re not even interested in him. I mean, the first one’s fine, it’s something like probing, but if you’re not actually interested... don’t be so f*cking shameless as to keep receiving them while pretending that there’s a chance for him. That’s sickening and these people need to learn to respect other people.
@Ristto3, I mean I can honestly say I have never once seen this phenomenon that everyone keeps talking about where a girl is choosing to pretend to be interested in you all night only talking to you so she can drink for free with you. So she got dressed up went out and is sitting alone and waiting for someone to hit on her and buy her expensive drinks instead of being with friends... That’s some odd behavior on her part to be willing to put up with someone all night only for free drinks. Did this actually happen to you or are you just getting mad about the possibility of it happening?
@George Feeny, I don't know where you grew up but this definitely happens regularly. Every day in fact. My evidence is hearing girls almost just as often talk about how much they go out and do this exact thing. 3 different states, 4 large cities, enough conversation to come up with a pattern of habit that this is a thing women do. Just not all women and not all the time.
Easy solution : give a fake number
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New meme format?
Reminds me of the ending of Fever Pitch.