I find it ‘funny’ how violent reactions from women are acceptable and even humorous, but violent reactions from men are condemned as evil and wholly unacceptable.
If a man scares a woman and she beats the shït out of him, it’s hilarious, but if a woman scares a man and he reflexively hits her once, he’s a monster.
@I Are Lebo, I’d agree, but I wouldn’t call any of what the woman in this gif does beating “the shjt out of him”, just a reactive slap at air and a couple charges we don’t see the end of. I don’t think if we flipped this the other way around there would be an uproar, nor should there be as from what is shown, there’s nothing malicious.
@I Are Lebo, because with these upgrades she never stood a chance
@Banetersaurus Rex, I wasn’t referring to this picture in regards to a woman beating the shït out of a man. I was more regarding the fact that in this society, violence from women towards men is mostly applauded, while violence the other way is seen as intolerable at any level.
This is the same society where the women on The View openly laughed about a man being mutilated by his wife for asking a divorce, she cut off his penis and put it down a garbage disposal, and these hosts suffered no ill consequences for their open support of this violence.
I encourage you to look up the college experiment comparing the difference between male-on-female violence and female-on-male violence. They took two actors, one male and female, and acted out, in public, a couple’s fight that steadily escalated into violence. They did this twice for each location, swapping which partner was the aggressor.
In EVERY instance of male on female aggression, bystanders intervened. Sometimes before it became physical, every other time it happened immediately after. In one instance the actor was forced to break character in order to avoid being beaten by the intervening bystander.
At no point during the female on male aggression did any bystander intervene on behalf of the male in any way, even after the female had clearly crossed the line into physical assault. Some laughed, some filmed it, and everyone else ignored it. On top of that, one bystander actually joined the female in verbally and physically harassing the male.
@I Are Lebo, you ever hit a woman? I haven’t but I feel like I could put one down. Like if every woman in the world was in a line to fight me I think I’d do pretty well. I probably would slide passed Asia with relative ease, may have some trouble with the Europeans, and probably stop around North America. Wouldn’t touch Africa or South America tho, or any country that cherishes their women. Is this sexist? Cause same situation but with children I would for sure be able to beat them all regardless of sex. But children 12 and under. But none of those freakish kids who can slap a dent in your chest.
@YodaGhostlightning , is it okay for midgets to attack people?
@I Are Lebo, it’s hilarious
@YodaGhostlightning , you think it’s acceptable for a midget to walk up to you and start punching and kicking you?
@I Are Lebo, if a midget started attacking me I’d think they’d have a reason. It’s a bigger risk for them yknow the same way bees won’t fvck with you unless provoked? Idk maybe I stepped on their hand or something who am I to judge them.
@I Are Lebo, Are we speaking of midgets, or dwarves? Because it’s funny with dwarves, whereas midgets are more circumstantial. Be careful, though, because 100% of dwarves carry knives.
In all seriousness, I get what you’re saying, and no, assault against any individual, BY any individual is straight up wrong, and should be seen as such. Considering the frequency of men who are abused by female partners, it should be taken just as seriously. However, I’ve not personally seen situations where it is “applauded”, except in cases where she caught the dude cheating and started wailing on him, which I still don’t consider to be justified, because like you said, if the roles were reversed, dude catches his wife/girlfriend cheating, and starts knocking her ass around, guess who’s going to jail, losing his job, Family stops talking to him? It needs to be more widely understood that violence against others in relationships is not acceptable, no matter your size, your partner’s size, ability or
@Berntley, success in harming the other. If your relationship has come to the point that physical violence seems like a viable form of communication, something’s gone horribly wrong, and it’s time for everybody to walk away.
@Berntley, yes, that’s what I’m trying to get across. I wrote a whole long comment in response to Yoda, but instead of posting, it deleted itself. Normally I copy my comments before posting in case of that happening, but of course when I forget to do so, that’s when the bug hits me. 🙄
The argument that women are naturally less strong than men is such a disingenuous slight of hand. It isn’t any more acceptable for a 5’0, 100lb man to attack a female weightlifter who is 6’1 and 200lbs than it is for the 6’1 man to hit the 5’0 girl.
Plus, when you add knives and guns (or even just martial arts) to the mix, training is far more important than body shape. I’m 6’3” and I weigh 240lbs, and I’ve met women half my size who can kick the shït out of me. I know a girl whose father is a Krav Maga expert that runs a dojo and works as a stuntman. She’s 4’10”, and unless I fall on her after she knocks me out, I couldn’t beat her up if I wanted to.
@I Are Lebo, you know some cool fvckin people. And I totally agree, as stated. Assault is assault, and in the case of gender equality, it’s one of the areas where I’ll bite and say the pendulum has swung in the opposite direction as far as double standards go. I don’t think it’s a massively rampant issue (as far as women being praised for being abusive), but there can certainly be a “you go girl” attitude about a woman who “asserts” herself physically over a man, and that’s just as toxic as men who do so. I’ve even had to have conversations with my wife about it. As sweet as she is, years ago, she used to have a real bad habit of pinching my nipples. Just a funny thing at first, no big deal, but she eventually did it harder and harder, and then incorporating it into arguments when she got mad, and that’s when it really became a problem. I’d talked to her about it, and she didn’t listen, so one day, I just did it back. Not her nipple. Her arm. Just as hard as she did, and she looked at
@Berntley, me like I’d just slapped her across the face. I think she even walked away, and when she tried to talk to me about it, she got all defensive, told me how not ok it was, and I told her she needed to cut it the hell out, too, then, because if she’s dishing out shît, particularly in fights, that I can’t serve back, then that’s just not ok, in any way. And that probably sounds kinda dumb, for it to be something like that, but she and I had some serious issues with double standards like that when we first got together.
@Berntley, I’ve had that issue with women, as well. Most men I’ve spoken to and listened to have.
Many women have knee-jerk reactions to unpleasantness by hitting or slapping. I know girls that hit when they’re just slightly annoyed. The blow being weak does not make it acceptable. I don’t care who you are, you don’t get to put your hands on me without my permission.
The hypocrisy that this behaviour is coming from people who have absolutely zero tolerance for any unwanted touching back to them is intolerable to me.
If it’s not okay for me to do a thing to you, it’s not okay for you to do it to me. That’s the basis of civility.
@I Are Lebo, because equality, remember? It’s what feminists and minorities pretend to want.
@iKnowWhatYouThinkin, you’re falling into their trap. It’s not a minority/majority thing, it’s a double standards thing.
Also, and this is the point that always gets me. 51% of the population is female. Women are the majority sex, men are the minority.
@iKnowWhatYouThinkin, but yeah, feminism is cancer
That’s quite an overreaction.
@Prime Umbra, ovaryaction*
@Prime Umbra, *throws a bowl*
But is scared me!!
She's gonna be really happy that he filmed all these so she can admit them as evidence in the divorce proceedings.
@CarlosTheDwarf, all other men are just happy to hear shes available again.
What’s the point with no sound
@celtics313131, I’m pretty sure it’s a voice saying, “you’re adopted!”
@celtics313131, somebody please make it so that the sound is a spoopy skeleton doot each time.
@celtics313131, Do you need sound to know what's going on?
@Jdrawer, yup, I’m a stupid moron who has no idea what’s going on! Sheesh, I just thought it would make it funnier with sound....
@celtics313131, But it still has a point, ja?
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It's acceptable to leave him
This needs sound. I wanna know what he’s saying.
@Shazamanite, hes telling her to get off her phone. I've seen the full video.
That guy don’t deserve a pretty girl like her
You don't need him honey, you can come over here and suck my dick
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