How ‘bout you fück off with your pestering and just be glad I actually showed up.
@SurgeonSean, and people wonder why I don't show up to events more often when this is how they treat me
"Thanks for all the good reasons for me not to interact."
god I know I’ll be downvoted to oblivion for saying this but... like why does it feel like nowadays it’s cool to be introverted. Yeah like... people can be d!cks if they act like this... but yeah, you should like talk? It’s uncomfortable, it’s not pleasant, but if I had a party and a guest is just standing their like a silent statue then GTFO. Make an effort. It almost comes off as attention seeking like “oh I’m so shy poor me boohoo”
You’re ruining the vibe. If you like being at home so much then go home. The world doesn’t revolve around people helping you get out of your shell... it’s an entitled attitude. You have to do that and yeah, it’s hard!!
Maybe you’re not like this but I KNOW people like this. Again, I am so sorry for saying this but the world needs to strive to be extroverted
@LoveTheBomb137, partially true, but if you’ll extend an olive branch, some people talk too damn much
@LoveTheBomb137, introverted people have a really, really hard time with trying to be extroverted (speaking from experience). It's not fun, you always feel excluded, you try not to bother people. Sometimes it's paired with anxiety, and then you're legitimately scared of people; that is an illness and usually needs treatment if it's overbearing and keeps you from socialising (again, speaking from experience). I don't blame you or downvote you for your comment, for extroverts understand the true feelings of introverts as much as introverts understand the feelings of extroverts - very little, I'd think. Even if introverted people make an effort, like you said, say, at a party, it is often very straining and the people don't feel at ease. TL;dr: Introverts often need people to help them socialise, they definitely don't do it for attention or to ruin the mood of other people. Some people though, like you said, act shy to get attention, however, that's merely fishing for attention, I think.
@LoveTheBomb137, so yeah, introverts (sometimes) want to go out and have fun, but are scared and don't know how to do it. And people like you (no offense, you're not doing anything wrong in that situation) are the reason introverts are scared of going outside, cause they don't wanna bother people haha (at least that's how it is for me)
@A pet named Steve, You know what, I really respect that comment. I understand that. As an extrovert there’s nothing more fulfilling then gently working a friend out of their shell and into socializing with their consent. I’m after the attention seekers and the people who won’t try even a little bit.
Though I can’t fully understand how an introvert feels, as an extrovert I can understand how introverts /can be/ if that makes any sense. I analyze people... that’s part of what makes me an extrovert. And SOMETIMES I see people who really don’t want to try and are just well... being lazy because it’s too hard.
@Captain Anderson, oh my god yeah, I know. Those people suck.
@LoveTheBomb137, I do agree that you should make an effort. Step by step out of the comfort zone. It's not easy, but worth it in my opinion.
@LoveTheBomb137, And to expand on this... I want to see an extroverted world. I want to see what I can do to help people get there. I just think it’s much better way to be then being introverted and bitter about it.
there’s also the irony that introverted people can be very vocal on the internet and sometimes even bullies...
@LoveTheBomb137, just because someone is an introvert doesn’t mean they’re a nice person. And on the Internet you can hide your identity so people are much more likely to show their true colours. I’m an introvert and so is my fiancé but we both love going on adventures and seeing our friends. We’re nice to people and are happy to talk to a stranger if they talk to us but good golly is it tiring! And my sister is very extroverted, she’s always in plays and out meeting people. I don’t know how she hasn’t died of exhaustion haha
I paused my game to be here, so the least you could do is ask me what game it was instead of why I don't talk to you.
Me at an orgy