Anybody here ever had a person is in another relationship, but plays mind games and flirts a lot with you? Got this girl giving me too much stress because I don't know wtf she wants
@HeavenlySky, batista bomb time
@Empshok, Lol. I like the sound of that. That some sort of sex move?
@HeavenlySky, not technically...it's a wrestling move
@HeavenlySky, I had a coworker be very flirty with me for a while, even doing a side tickle when she passed (really hard to get the wrong message with that). Turns out, though, that she thought I was gay, and I was her gay best friend... It was a double whammie.
@HeavenlySky, I was in one like that, don't talk to the bjtch, is trouble, listen to the voice of experience, son
@Alpha Warrior, what happened? Everytime I start avoiding this girl she keeps coming back and asking me why I'm being quiet and not my usual self
@HeavenlySky, ask her how her signifigant other is doing, if she complains about them then it could be a sign that she's unhappy. Although she could just have one of those flirty personalities, depends on how she acts around other people that she's compfortable with.
@Archmage Araketh, I did. I asked her what he's like. She says he's not a doormat but not too confrontational either. She says she wears the trousers. I think she likes me because I'm, if anything too overconfident. But she always dances around the line - never crosses. So I don't know if she's just a flirt or actually looking for something from me
@HeavenlySky, if it makes you uncomfortable, I'd ask her to either stop or at least tell you what it means. If you're fine with it, you could just leave it be but I wouldn't start flirting back cause things could get messy if she's still in a relationship.
@HeavenlySky, this guy up here knows, and if she's just messing could be trouble and and awkwardness for you later
@Archmage Araketh, I tried asking her indirectly, but she wouldn't be honest. She will never own up and admit it. Because of this I'm thinking just let her be. If she keeps coming back I'll have to put her in her place
@HeavenlySky, look, once I was into this girl and she was into me I think, but she wouldn't go out with me only solely I didn't own a car and this other guy did so she would go out with him, but she wasn't into him. I had to stop to that bullshjt, and later when I got ahold of my first car which was a nice car to be my first, she came around. Told her to fvck off, just like that.
@Alpha Warrior, interesting. Thing is she knows I've got money and a whip and all that. But I think she's just attracted to my confidence and reckless behaviour. I'm a bit stubborn - feel like teaching her a lesson about why you shouldn't be playing games
@HeavenlySky, Don't get me wrong I was, if not, I'm still like that, I had the money the confidence, and all the good stuff, the only reason I wouldn't get a car is because of certain reasons back then. But like I said, she sounds like trouble.
@Alpha Warrior, think so. I'll have to sort this girl out next week
@HeavenlySky, well good luck, and hopefully you don't wuzz out because you don't want to be that guy. Trust me, I've been where you are and it's the best for all parties involve
What am I looking for here?
Don't get me wrong I was, if not, I'm still like that, I had the money the confidence, and all the good stuff, the only reason I wouldn't get a car is because of certain reasons back then. But like I said, she sounds like trouble.