You don’t wanna see the third kids room
@troubled panda, do they even get a room? At the rate of depreciation it seems more likely they’d just get a blanket to wrap themselves up in while sleeping outside
@nemestrinus , when you have the third kid, everything changes. The second child will now evolve into the Middle-Child: their life is over. They are forgotten. The third takes control of the rest of the pack with subtle empathic mind control, while the first hunts for scraps of love and sustenance.
@nemestrinus , a blanket?!?! "Look at me, I can afford to emotionally and financially provide my 3rd kid with a blanket."
Give that little turd a newspaper. 1 sheet.
@The Common Shaman, being the middle child is an interesting experience. Has both it's pros and cons but the stereotype of getting blamed for everything is absolutely true
@troubled panda, I totally didn't do this at all. I've designed and decorated all 4 of my kids rooms extensively. Even keep redoing them as they change and grow. Oldest son has a Lakehouse theme, oldest daughter an Aspen Mountain theme, youngest son a Military theme, and youngest daughter a Garden theme (her room also has a built in adult life size princess house). I love making their rooms so unique to them and their interests and creating a loving, productive, safe haven for them!
@PacificaPelican, as the middle child I was the good kid actually I was too busy being a medical anomaly to misbehave my younger brother on the other hand is the one constantly misbehaving and apparently never learning from his mistake as e does the same thing consistently yet expects not to be caught
@KittyVonClaude, wow you sound like an awesome mom
@PacificaPelican, thank you! 💗 they are my world.
I'm not like Karen though...more like a sorta rap listening Martha Stewart, you know, without the going to prison thing
@KittyVonClaude, that's really great! Also, the same n-word dropping Martha Stewart?
@PacificaPelican, ohhh. Kinda forgot about that. I have not been officially given a n pass, so I say nibba.
@KittyVonClaude, I know a guy who could hook you up with a pass, But it might be a bad influence on your kids....
This is why you should just have another child every year or two, to make sure no one gets stuck in a rut and experiences multiple levels of neglect
I’m a second child. This is 100% true.
@Man with a Cat, My wife and I were both the babies of our families, and trying to make sure we don’t do the same to our second daughter. And I was even the one who insisted on decorating her bedroom (Legend of Zelda themed) before she was born. I’d say I put just as much effort, if not more, into her room than we did the first, with the only difference being that we put a cutesy princess chandelier in the first girl’s room.
The hard part is, you have the first kid, and they’re an adjustment, but by the time the second kid comes around, you think you’ve got this whole baby thing down, until you realize how different they are, and how much goes into balancing between the two intellects. If I’m not careful, I can easily defer to paying more attention to my oldest daughter, who can talk and communicate better, and is easier to manage in public, because I’m also just more used to being around her. It does take effort to make sure you’re not being too dismissive with a second child.
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