Dont call me out like this, especially when im at work with no booze in sight.
Hi “it’s complicated”, I’m Dad...
“Just my Imagination (Runnin’ Away with Me)” by The Temptations. Great song.
This hits a bit close. Cause I have a crush on my friend, like, we talk every now and then, and we're good friends, but I don't want to ruin things. And I think she's into another guy, do I just see how that ends up and talk to her after? Or do I man up and still be a lil bjtch and talk to her friends about it?
@Codeine, I was in the same boat until I came under the pretense that the door for dating was open so I got super excited. And then a couple nights later I was texting said love interest and inquiring if I could come over. They said they would have invited me if they didnt have someone over already :/ which threw me for a loop. The next morning the person was sorta teasing me for being jealous so I thought it was a good playful. Vut then later I texted them about things (and because I cant text properly I sent a lot and overwhelmed the person) and found out they didnt want a long term relationship since they were leaving the area in a few months and so things are a bit awk since a few days ago my ex crush wasnt doing well and had to get away for a while and told me not to text them. Yeeet
@Codeine, shoot your shot. You’ll regret it if you never try.
@Basil Fawlty, that sucks man. But God damn. That just made me feel anxious and I'm sitting on the toilet. The safest place there is
@Codeine, yea life happens. I'm glad I wasnt super into the rabbit hole of feelings and held off until I thought it might be a thing. And that was only a 2 day episode. I think sometimes it could help to hold back serious feelings until you really get good signals. Not necessarily repress then but temper. Eventually you will have to talk but if you set realistic expectations the pain will be lessened or the joy will be increased ten fold depending on the outcome
@Codeine, im a couple with a very close friend of mine. If you guys work well as friends you’ll work well as a couple. I was blunt with how i felt but make sure you know how to tell her how you feel before you shoot your shot. Wording and tone have a lot of weight in serious moments. Just be yourself. Also helps to know how they feel, but for me she made it clear that she liked me and it made me return the feelings knowing they’ll be accepted, so in my opinion I say go for it. There’s nothing to lose but a while of awkward moments before you go back to being friends