What if not a 'nice guy' but just like a genuinely nice person?
People think I'm trying to flirt with them but really I just want friends 😥
@Codeine, hi friend
@MetalHeadTony, g'day mate
@Codeine, well the difference between you and "nice guys" should be consistency with your niceness and a lack of strings attached to it, if you've got that then you are just a nice person, also I feel like I've got a similar problem to that
@Codeine, then obviously they don’t want to be friends with you either. If they don’t want to talk to you then they shouldn’t have to.
For any “nice guys” out there I highly recommend the book “No More Mr. Nice Guy” by Dr. Robert Glover. It’s challenging and scary but that book changed my life
@PippyPie, I would also recommend just some good old fashioned introspection. Take a long, hard, serious look at yourself. Hopefully one day you’ll be able to say it was just a bad phase you went through in the past.
@PippyPie, could you give an example of something you found surprising or eye opening in the book?
@Natural Sarcasm , the entire book is surprising and eye opening but one concept that really resonated with me is that of putting your own needs first
The 2 mistakes reminds me of why I never liked them.
It’s funny because of the F word.
Ain’t this the truth.
Is it weird that it annoys me that they put 'nice guys' instead of "nice guys"
It's about that thick too