You respond by saying that you don't wanna just be friends and want something more. If she says no you move on and don't look back. Shell text you if she wants to try to meet again.
@Tentastic, if she texts you back it's because shes been with ten guys and is now a single mom.
@Tentastic, so she should lose a friend because she doesn't want to sleep with him? If he's only being her friend because that's his end goal then that's a bit douchey of him.
@Tentastic, I’m not anybodies second choice. Is something I’ve never said.
@Kayda, Well he isn't trying to be her friend, he's trying to be her boyfriend. If you love someone and they don't love you back, why would you want them around if they aren't going to treat you as such? Why would you keep them around if they're just going to taunt you. People who mope around something they lost instead of moving on are losers.
@Tentastic, or or and im just spitballing here. You recognize the clear rejection and instead of making one last hail marry in a futile attempt to coerce a relationship out of her you instead just reply with. Sorry i just see you as a friend not a bestie.
@Kayda, also that's a loser mentality. "Oh I can't have her as a gf, I'll just take her as a friend instead even though I want her as a gf"
That's just showing you don't get what you want and appreciate being treated however people treat you.
Imagine if you worked for a company and your boss said. "Sorry I won't pay you, but I appreciate what you do for me". And you said "Awesome! I don't think you should lose an employee, so I'll keep working for you"
@Tentastic, That kind of dynamic eventually breeds a lot of toxicity and resentment in the relationship. Maybe she really does love him as a friend and ends up missing him, but then she's confused as to whether she misses him as a friend or because she has stronger feelings. So she gives it a shot only to realize they don't work as a couple and now have a nasty breakup and a more baggage for future relationships because of it. The solution is not to give her an ultimatum, but to actually try just being friends with her because you might gain a great friendship and eventually be able to get over her in a healthy way, then you both walk away more emotionally mature people because of it.
@Tentastic, And I agree that you shouldn't continue to hang around her and act like you're best friends if you really don't feel that way, but to cut her off completely and hope it convinces her to go out with you would be an immature and kind of manipulative move on the guy's part.
Sorry i just see you as a friend not a bestie. I hope that doesnt make anything weird.
I know you're not together but dump her
That guy’s dreams were sank faster and colder than the Titanic.
Bullcrap, Emily. A best friend would suck his dick whenever he got horny so he wouldn’t be tempted by all the awful hoes out there.
I require this 'oof size' image on its own.
@Reach4God, download and crop, that’s how I get all my reaction images
@Cpzombie, or yknow, screenshot and crop it right there