Im just kinda going through some shjt tonight, FP
@FPVeteranWolf, lay it on us, that’s why we’re here... well, to laugh at immature things... but also for eachother. What’s up?
@FPVeteranWolf, is this cause shrek just came out of the outhouse?
Seriously though, we’re here for you if you need to talk
@Snarfel Burger, just feelin kinda hopeless. Unloved if I’m honest. Or maybe unloveable is the best way to put it
@FPVeteranWolf, I understand how you feel. I just had a long talk with my gf about how I feel lonely because she only spends time with me maybe once or twice a week
@FPVeteranWolf, I hear ya! I know it doesn’t feel like it right now, but you have an awesome purpose! The situation you’re in at this moment is going to be so helpful for someone down the road. You’re going to beat this, you’re going to kick butt and find love, you’re going to be able to be there for someone else who’s at rock bottom and say, “been there, know what that’s like, lets get through this together”. Keep getting better, and don’t compare your life to others, compare it to your own life yesterday, and keep getting better. You may not be religious, but know that you are loved. Heck! I love ya dude! I’ll shutup, cause I know sometimes you just want someone to listen. But please, keep on, keepin on.
@FPVeteranWolf, I’ll tell you this much: anyone who has the balls to open up about their feelings is loveable in my book. And I promise there are people who love you, even if it’s more than you know.
@FPVeteranWolf, remember, no matter what kind of shjt you're dealing with, remember to wipe. Otherwise you get diaper rash
@FPVeteranWolf, well, you just remember this: all us lonely baxtards are keeping you company, here on the midnight shift.
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@FPVeteranWolf, I was there very recently. I found a community that really made me feel special on World of Warcraft (nerdy I'm aware). Like the amazing comments above me said, you are loved. If you play WoW let me know!
@FPVeteranWolf, Does it feel like a distance?
@SimonPetrikov, yes definitely
@FPVeteranWolf, It's Hell, I know, but it's temporary. Do you know how to cook?
@SimonPetrikov, a little bit
@FPVeteranWolf, I don't know if you're actually looking for advice or just venting - which is fine - but the best advice I can give is to engage in self-care until you're through it. One of the few things that have actually helped me is learning to cook for myself. There are some easy recipes you can find online.
@SimonPetrikov, I’m not sure I know how to self care, in the ways that matter. I’ll keep myself reasonably clean and well fed. But emotionally I’m a wreck and I physically don’t feel like doing anything, and I don’t know what to do about it
@FPVeteranWolf, find a physical activity you like. Or a goal of some kind. Myself, I am very goal oriented, I need to be DOING something, or working towards something. In the summer when I was trying to lose weight was the happiest I had been in a while because I would ride my bicycle all the time and it felt great. Also, there are mental health services around that you can go into and just have a one hour walk-in session and talk with someone. Just to vocalize your thoughts and have someone provide insight to how you feel. It's great. But my suggestion is to find a goal, or something to do. Self-care is important, but is more than just being clean and fed. Go for a pedicure (it's great), try playing squash or racquetball (non-team sports that you can do yourself or with few others so you don't need to make a bug time commitment), try to find a hobby you might enjoy. But the biggest thing is to have a goal in mind.... build a birdhouse, lose some weight, learn a skill, anything.
@FPVeteranWolf, I don't know what kind of love your looking for but the love you mostly need is love from yourself, I'm sure you're a great person and you need to recognize that, look in the mirror and tell yourself that you're a great person. So long as you can find a way to love yourself then everything will fall into place
@FPVeteranWolf, If you’re in need of more advice & support I recommend you check out themighty.com
It’s a very supportive community for everyone who has health issues, from physical to psychological. You will find people with odd and rare conditions as well as people with very common problems. If you feel like it, you can find me there as @knitwithme
You are not alone in this world ❤️
@Snarfel Burger, sometimes there is no solution. Things dont work and shyt happens. We all dont make it. We can try and hope but yeah.
@FPVeteranWolf, I totally get what you’re saying. People say “go study” but don’t tell you how to study. “Love yourself” but no one tells you how. It’s frustrating. I’ll echo people’s advice to find hobbies or goals. Also, just like getting a cold, depression is nothing to feel embarrassed about. And also, like broken bones there are people who devote their whole lives to help solve these problems. No problem in asking for help from a doctor/therapist. Even just a few sessions might give a lot of perspective.
A personal favorite is mindfulness. I swear it felt like total bull until I started to realize greater control over my own thoughts and emotions. I was better able to work with stress and ... without saying too much, the bad feelings just didn’t have as much control of me. They still came, but I could recognize them and analyze them rather than getting swept away/stuck in bed. If they seemed relevant, I’d explore. If they were just sad for no reason, I could take back control.
Khan had so much sex with conquered women that his dna is in 35% of Mongolian Chinese today, and 0.5% of the world
Also because the chinese have a long history if ethnic unification practices whereby they'd send their people to foreign peoples and essentially make them fúck out the foreigners and slowly force their population to take control