Most guys into bdsm are also super into cuddling, at least in my experience.
@Hoopscallion, i like my cuddles tighter than my cuffs
@Hoopscallion, It's important that doms and subs participate in some sort of gentle intimacy after sessions. Make sure the sub knows that it's all for their pleasure too, make sure the dom knows they're not a piece of shjt and that the sub enjoys it as well.
@SimonPetrikov, i meant in general, not just aftercare. Doms are snuggly
@Hoopscallion, Oh, that's nice to know. I might have to find a Dom...
@SimonPetrikov, it's generally pretty fun, though make sure you get to know them before letting yourself really be vulnerable in any way
@Hoopscallion, I don’t know about BDSM, but cuddling sounds like something my lonely virgin self needs tons of
@Hoopscallion, love being the dom and naked cuddling/spooning after is the best