I think people do judge others for always trying to be the center of attention. You can’t always blame your unwillingness to socialize or go out on others
I left my comfort zone so my gf can live with her friends, a year later I'm single and she hates my guts and I have no idea why. I tried my best to get along. Oh well.
Maybe because we evolved as social creatures and society shouldn't be expected to accommodate people who want an easier challenge; socializing isn't just difficult for Introverts and you only improve through overcoming adversity.
TL;DR:
Cry more idgaf
And then once you leave your comfort zone they tell you how annoying you are 😑