If she's not sexually attracted to you she just isnt . How often do guys give fat chicks a chance?
@alexxxj, yeah it's a double standard
@alexxxj, most girls hold personality above looks. Any girl that doesn't care for who the guy is will probably be seen on 16 and pregnant
@alexxxj,on tv, it is hot chicks & fat slobs...
@alexxxj, ...to eat? Never. That's my cool ranch taco!
@alexxxj, there are "chubby chasers" out there so a few
@Hobo with an iPod, looks are important, but you're right. People who complain about the friend zone tend to have no personality or looks.
@alexxxj, we never lead fat chicks on and rely on them for lifts, drinks and a shoulder to cry on
@Unkle77, it's called friendship.. Honestly if my friend boy or girl is going to listen to me that's being a friend..
@alexxxj, Everytime I go drinking.
@alexxxj, dude the fat ones are still the same TRUST ME
@alexxxj, the chicks are physically fat. The girls do it physically and personalitywise. " oh, he's a genuine nice guy like I said u was looking for? Next! Oooo a scumbag with abs, who won't respect me at all? Perfect."
@alexxxj, show up at a bar at last call. Plenty of fat chicks get their chance.
@alexxxj, I agree in most cases it's a double standard, but in my personal experience a lot of the bigger girls I meet are bitchier for some reason. Idk, maybe it's just me.
@alexxxj, because most fat chicks can go on a diet and not let themselves go. However, this can be said about guys who are too lazy to get in shape as well.
@disregards, or balls
@alexxxj, amen to that! When I was a size 8 people asked me out, I'm not a size 14 and now noone cares!
@alexxxj, I do
@alexxxj, and thats why ive given up sugar so i can get action but im not complaining my only experiances with love was a person on club penguin and a creepy chick with a eyepatch not kidding she had a screwed up eye and wore a eyepatch *shudder* thats creepy
@alexxxj, but honestly, do girls give fat guys a chance? Looking unhealthy isn't attractive, in general.
On the other hand, there are a massive amount of girls I have no sexual interest in. I'm friends with some, but if they came and asked me out, I'd really give them a shot. Barring any really ugly things, piercings or those hoops in the ear.
But, people need to understand - REAL LOVE isn't based on looks. Any love has to BEGIN from attraction, which is more often than not physical. So yeah, people like nice-looking people. That's NOT a crime, and you shouldn't treat it like an unfair decision. Don't hold it against them.
Sorry, long rant.
I hate how some guys complain about being in the friendzone when they don't even attempt to try getting out of it.
@EmoBumPincher, Trying makes things worse.
@Azuride, not trying and complaining makes girls want to hit you. so how does that help?
@EmoBumPincher, I just got rejected yesterday and we're still friends. So no worries gentlemen. It doesn't hurt much, and you can still keep the friendship (provided you want to).
@EmoBumPincher, exactly. Been best friends with a girl since I was I was 4. Dating her because we're best friends.
@ThePhenom, why would you still be friends? You weren't trying to be friends when you started talking to her. That's why you guys are in the friendzone, because you accept it. I'm not saying don't be friends with girls, but if you want her to be your girlfriend you shouldn't settle for being just friends. It's one of those an all or nothing situations.
@AshinKusher, we were friends, I wanted to be more than friends, she didn't, we stayed friends. So I shouldn't settle for being a friend with her when now that's all I can possibly be? Your logic is flawed and you should feel flawed.
@The Last Airbender, you are a strange creature
@AshinKusher, it's not that we "settle for it", its more that the'll scream rape if we ignore their refusal
@barnabascollins, lol XD
@AshinKusher, guys need to stop befriending girls if their only intention is to date them. THAT is their problem. When a guy acts like a friend to me, I take it as he wants to be a friend. Plain and simple
Remember when guys weren't too cowardice to share their feelings with women and they didn't blame them for not knowing? We do.
@Pepperidge Farm, When was that?
Why do guys complain all the time? You guys don't have the guts to ask her! If not, she isn't the one!
@The Easter Hitler, you had me until you said "the one". There's no such thing as "the one". There's no magical bond. There's no destiny. If it never happens, it doesn't mean it's not meant to be. It means that you failed to make it be.
@WilfredMott, Very true, Wilfred.
@WilfredMott, I like your outlook on things. Lets be friends!
@The Easter Hitler, why thank you.
@bitch im viewtiful, your application for friendship will be put under heavy consideration. I shall be ready with an answer within 10 to 12 business days.
@WilfredMott, true, I mean what If your "one" got hit by a car?
@IAmFriendzoned , there is no "one" so it doesn't matter. Happy ending!
@WilfredMott, false. We have the one person who we are most likely to partner with, and everyone else. It's just a bigger chance, not a guarantee though.
@MuthafckinThor, there are 7 billion people on earth which means there will be an amazing number of people tied for first place in being most likely to be a good partner. There is no "one" there is a large number of "bests" and in all likelihood, you will find none of these bests, and settle for someone else.
@WilfredMott, I like you. Everyone calls me cynical for saying the same thing, so it's refreshing to see someone who shares that view.
"I hope you like the taste of prison food... and penis"
The Other Guys FTW
@MovieQuoter, Just watched that on Fx.
@MovieQuoter, great movie, but I'm really not feeling the comments
@MovieQuoter, dear god I love that quote
@MovieQuoter, ""I hope you like the taste of prison food... and penis" The Other Guys FTW"
Hmm, this girl likes me a lot and nobody else does, I should go out with her.
-said no guy ever
if the girl dosnt like you when you're being who you truely are. then shes not right for you. if you habe to fake a personality to have a relationship the relationship is fake. OR if your dumping all your emotions and insecurities as friends your pretty much saying ur comfortable as friends. try confidence if u have none fake it, throw your self inti a convetsation till theres no return, and dont call her by nick names her friends use, use her hole name until she uses pet names thats your wue too, generally speaking. if confidence and being ur self dosbt get her to like u then shes not right for you and move on its not hard
@funonacarousel, my apologies for the long post i just hoped to help
@funonacarousel, you obviously have never gotten head, even if its a "fake relationship" there is no way to fake getting head
I would just like to say I went out for one of my best guy friends. We dated for almost 2 years before he dump-texted me.
Actually that's how my first relationship started.
I asked the love of my life (at the time) if she could even try us together, 4 times, and she always had someone else. 2 months ago, she was dumped, and came to me and asked if she knew anyone good for her. I was tired of her sh*t, so I asked why I wasn't the last 4 times, she only kept me around because I had money. Tl;dr, fu*k women
@WhoKnewItCouldBreak, Sorry bro, but in this scenario, you let the bitch have it.
@WhoKnewItCouldBreak, "omg women are like so bad because someone didn't like me sexually!!!11" no. It's too bad she used you for your money. But YOU shouldn't have given yourself to her on a golden platter for her to use like that. Chances are, she saw nothing in you that would make her happy romantically. And that's okay. It's not always about what only makes you happy.
@disregards, I wanted to be her fu*king friend too, I didn't just wanna have sex with her dipsh*t
@Kregg the Duro, and thanks man!
@WhoKnewItCouldBreak, yeah, Imma go ahead and tell you she's a stupid cooze. I mean, after hearing that, why would you still want her?
@bitch im viewtiful, nooooooo I do not anymore f*ck her
@WhoKnewItCouldBreak, *Curls up, tries not to cry. Cries a lot*
@WhoKnewItCouldBreak, you fell in "love" with a bitch like that? Sounds like you duh your own hole.
@WhoKnewItCouldBreak, *dug. FACK!
"I think ill just let my boyfriend go ahead and say his opinion, maybe he'll be right and we can accept our differences then get along. Because im not always right." -said no girl ever
@Invalid Chicken, I have
@Shinigami Grell, you are not a girl then
@MuthafckinThor, yes I am. I am a girl
Girls get rejected to, guys. At least we don't make up a pathetic thing like "friendzone" to make out egos feel okay.
I don't ever go on looks...... and I'm not fat or ugly.. I'm just average
The reason most guys end up in the friend
what if i told you that a girl said that to me
My friend and I just convinced my best friend to break up with the girl of my dreams because their relationship is dysfunctional...Im not going after her, but I still wished she picked me instead of him :(
Two weeks ago I was smart enough to make a move on my (now) girlfriend. The first thing she did was apologize for friendzoning me for so long. I am living proof that there IS a light at the end of the friendzone tunnel. Don't give up hope gentlemen!
@Brave Fencer Musashi so you're blaming the girl for not being able to tell you love her? That's like expecting someone to do something for you without you asking. That makes no sense at all. Maybe men should make it clear! You can't expect a girl to assume you love her because if we do we get called out for having big egos
@Lzanjm, guys make it plenty noticable. Girls just ignore it
@MuthafckinThor, no we don't, don't get me some girls know it and don't want to mess it up. But It's not fair for you to expect us change everything because you don't make the move. Ever think we might just like you back to?
@Lzanjm, and us men will never understand women. 'tis a mutual relationship. And you can't expect us men to show our feelings. We have trained ourselves since the first day out of the womb to harden our emotions so we could look tough around you and show off our masculinity.
Actually my GF did tell me that.. And im still nice to her and shes still happy.. And i still gets the p***y...
Yeah, this is the thing. TRY. SHE WILL NOT KNOW YOU'RE ATTRACTED TO HER OTHERWISE. A lot of times, a girl and I have has mutual feelings and neither knew until I took that step.
@CyanideStorm, guys make it pretty obvious when they are nooning for a girl. Girls just ignore them
Are you fricking kidding me? I tried uploading this picture for a week and stuck pixel takes the up? Wtf!
Maybe we should give it a crush
Who is that a picture of?
@ExplodingToaster, I think it's selena Gomez not 100% sure though
@the narwall, in what world is that Selena Gomez?
Actually, my best guy friend whom I normally just go to for relationship advice asked me out. And I said sure, lets go out. Bam just blew your mind
To the guys complaining about the friendzone, it happens to girls too. And from a girl who only dates her guy friends, trust me, being her friend isn't the worst thing in the world. I've actually said this before.
@Rapunzel, well you live in a tower. Who do you date, pascal and when that doesn't work, you date mother gothel?
Kindness is so rare nowadays that people often mistake it for flirtation. Just because you're nice to a girl doesn't mean she is in any way obligated to return the favor (especially not by going out with you). It's basic manners and decency.
I'm dating my best guy friend..
Not true. I'm waiting to find the right time to ask him. :)
I'm a girl and I like guys who are genuinely nice to me...
Hello friend-zone! I deeply missed you! Said no guy ever!
@alexxxj fat chicks are disgusting
I've done this and it was a bad decision on both parts.
Cuz these nice guys are usually TRASH in the face. Truth.
Day of Upload: 4/6/13.
No girl, more money. No problems, more time.
I'm real tired of these complaints! Maybe if you actually talked to her about your feelings, and if she rejects you and wants to be friends that is what real friend zone is!
@Lzanjm, i'm real tired of these complaints! Maybe if the man really wants to be more than friends for soo long, but the woman just doesnt see it, then maybe she should get a clue about what true love is!
@Lzanjm, I told thus girl I liked her, she just said "lol" without looking up
@MuthafckinThor, I never said all girls are good. Yea some girls are bitches some guys are ass wholes
this is a cruel, cruel joke to those of us stuck in the friendzone.
I don't really get friend zoned. I just consider it making a new friend and move on.
Victim of multiple dating sites,I must make a point of not being a hot "bod" millionaire, friendzone to many Bbw/tweekers, just saying
I actually did this and he turned out to be a jerk too.
Worked for me and my girlfriend :)
Actually I said that to a guy friend once and we dated for a pretty long time.
correction " ill give you a chance" said my girlfriend
So true, so true... (forever alone)
@SwagF cker , Probably cause ypu have ''swag''.
Ha! Now I know which commenters are female!!
@alexxxj, Well, until I find a fat chick who realizes that she can't wear tight clothes or tries to look good; then I'm sticking with somewhat of my level
It's not easy for us to friendzone you guys either, it makes me feel really guilty but which is better, for us to fake it and go out with you which probably won't end well, or to just continue being friends?
Girls can be friendzoned too! I would know ;,(
I'm just saying that friendzoning can work both ways. I've told my best guy friend how I felt. He laughs about it and changes the subject. Then he complains how no one loves him. Then again I'm on the internet right noe, I can't be a woman, so I must regress and recant.
Tl;Dr Relationships be complicated.
If you have a girlfriend, you have no money. No money, no possesions. No possesions, penis
Said this women all tge fcking time
I have, and i was brozoned. It happens to girls too