For all of you who are "stuck in the friendzone".. quit using it as an excuse. It's a pet peeve of mine that people blame their inability to find a boyfriend/girlfriend on this magical place called the "friendzone". No. If you like a girl or guy, and you tell them, and they AREN'T interested, then it's not meant to be because they don't find you attractive for one reason or another. Then you move on and find someone who will.
BUT... even bigger pet peeve of mine is the people who hide behind the thought that a girl/guy has put them in this "friendzone" before even telling them they have feelings.. sigh... No.. you're simply too shy or you aren't confident enough to let it be known so you hide.
Moral: If you like someone, tell them. If they don't like you back, move on and don't complain. Find someone who will like you for who you are.
@EL COMMENTER, live without regret
@EL COMMENTER, Thank you for that much needed rant.
@EL COMMENTER, *slowly begins to clap*
@EL COMMENTER, I think ill go wrestle a bear now
@EL COMMENTER, thanks for the advice. Much appreciated dude.
@EL COMMENTER, someone never accomplished to conquer a crush
@masterhump, I'm actually currently dating my best friend of the last year and we just had our two month last week. So I do know what it is like to conquer a crush, and yes, to answer your question, it is worth sitting though all of those who don't like you for who you are.
@EL COMMENTER, then you should know better what the struggle feels like, I do dissagre with those poor souls that feel sorry for themselves pouring their life on here... But is not easy to accomplish a conquer sometimes...
@EL COMMENTER, so.... If I might add... And this goes mostly for males but... Gents. If you act like you've got a Gap in your legs your associated counter part is going to treat you like that. One thing I've learned is that if you're confident in yourself and willing to make mistakes, such as telling a girl who is not interested you like her and being rejected, but recover from it, more times than not you're going to be better off and more times successful than not. The reason you are in the friendzone 9/10 times is because you stopped trying, and/or you're just not confident in yourself. Take it from someone who thought he was ugly and gonna end up dating girls he really didn't like. Guys and girls.. Corny as it sounds just believe in yourself and you'll do fine. Sorry @EL COMMENTER it's just a peeve of mine as well. I thought I might further reinforce what you said. Knowledge is power and great minds think alike. :) enjoy your weekends. The gf's comin over ;)
@EL COMMENTER, I literally did the moral part 1 hr ago
@masterhump, I actually succeeded by getting my best friend ( a very attractive girl) to set me up with her friends. We've been dating for 1 year and 7 months now. Really it just depends on how bad you want it, and your persistency. But I know the struggle and it sucks just you can't give up though.
@Arnold swazz, how'd it go bro?
@EL COMMENTER, The friendzone topic has been overused more than retoast i swear. There three types of posts: 1. This guy 2. What lamp post said 3. I'm friendzoned :(. Seriously can we stop
@EL COMMENTER, A pet peeve of mine is when you've been treating them like a god damned queen because you love them, yet they go off and screw some jerk, and get hurt, then come and cry to you. Let me tell you, It hurts, It hurts a lot. And when they're in that situation, it's not a nice thing to say "Date me instead" trying to use their anguish for your own personal gain. Tell me how to solve that oh great wise one, because this cycle's gone around three times now and I don't see an end.
@Yg Dosst, you are describing a different friendzone then el comenter is.
@EL COMMENTER, thats bad advice for people with low confidence/self esteem. The rejection that might happen would lower it even more, or could cause depression. Thats why a lot of people are in friendzones, and while they should try to get out, they cant just move on sometimes when they get rejection since they feel like noone wants them.
@CPS, I've actually done the same thing, about 12 years ago....then i married her. ...aaand then divorced her.
Just never know how what can happen unless you try, good or bad.
@EL COMMENTER, A lot of people won't like to hear this, but nail on the head my friend.
Aka YOLO. Which is notorious on funny pics for being extremely ANNOYING
@CPS, So those annoying stories of sadness and regret get top comment, but the success ones are downvoted? Ugh
@EL COMMENTER, Thank You! I wanted to tell people this, but alas, I am only a venusaur.... I mean.... VENUSAUR!
@EL COMMENTER, I'd like to add a story to this :) I'm a girl and I've had a guy best friend for years. (Most of my friends are guys btw, girls are bitches!) Anyway, I've always kinda liked him and last year he asked me out. Now we're both happy! :) So, you never know, just go for it, ask out the girl or guy that you like, they might like you too :D
Stop complaining about friendzone if you haven't even tried. I recently worked up enough courage to tell my best friend i liked her turns out she likes me too. We're dating now. So guys and girls just tell them how you really feel they may feel the same way.
@tasty tweeterpee, ok guys... This one goes to everyone!! Pick your fights... Sometimes is even better to not try to get out of the "friend zone"; why? You may ask, because the girl/guy you are trying to get might not even be worth it, she/he might be in a downward spiral or a complete loser... Could you see yourself happily with that person for years? Could you really not get pissed off whenever he/she does something with that obnoxious mind? (That same mind that got him/her) choosing over other people besides you? Would you be ok with being the second best option he/she had? And perhaps even leave you for "something better"? If you ask... Yes I did passes trough the worst friend zone, and the scars never go away... But you're dam right I sent that girl to eat sh*t in hell for making me put up with her maniac tendencies.... :) it made me a lot wiser for my next relationships... Hope it helps!
@EL COMMENTER, Thank you so much for this rant, the amount of people that use that excuse on this app is annoyingly ridiculous.
@EL COMMENTER, if only I could fit this on some cheesy inspirational poster.
@Moocowsaysquack, no what I don't understand is why you'd downvote advise. and not only that but friendly advise. It's like your friend zoned and don't like it but refuse to do anything about it. It just makes no sense to me.
@CPS, I could stand one but come on this is 5 on one thread, on one picture. I'm sure that that would be helpfull to the people who need it, but if I wanted advise repeated to me 5 times about one case in a relationship I would look for it. Why don't you get that I'm FINE. I'm not friendzoned. I don't need that and what's this app called? Funny pics. Not advice on friendzone pics.
@Moocowsaysquack, someone takes funny too dam seriously...
@EL COMMENTER, I completely agree, except I was in the friend zone, but my definition of friend zone is when you ask a girl out, and she says we can still be friends.
@EL COMMENTER, no people just shouldn't act like guys and girls are slot machines for social interaction. A person could just like you as a friend and acting like a friend and boy or girlfriend are different.
@EL COMMENTER, I just don't like the word. Causes way too many flame wars. Personally I'm fine with being in that zone. Most of the time it's just a fleeting crush anyway, and I get to spend a lot of time with them regardless.
I'm a funny nazi, hail hitler!
Just kidding, Hitler isn't funny.
He's cute (super saiyan mode activate)
@EL COMMENTER, This is true for some people, but for others we can't just get over it, I told my crush how I felt and got rejected but it's not easy to move on!
@EL COMMENTER, i like your name.
@EL COMMENTER, #yolo
I got out of the friend zone today :D
@Lamp Post, and joined the best friend zone
@Lamp Post, liar! I went back to make sure.
@Jizzus Christ, BURN!
@Lamp Post, Wha...ho-HOW?!? Pardon my confusion, but....YOU'RE A LAMP 'A POST!
i was going through the random section and found a comment of mine that had -8... now i'm bummed out...
I love it when youre gone for a long time and come back to all these new pics...best way to spend the day yep scrolling through hundreds of pictures
Where will you be when *slap!* shut up!
Girl: " I wish I could find a guy just like you, someone who cares for me and is nice like you"
Guy: "How about me?"
Girl: "But you're like a brother to me"
@Sosa, yep, "Like-a-Brother-to-me"zone is actually a lot worse.
This is probably the most accurate description of the friendzone that has ever existed
Birinci Amina Koyim!
I'll just leave commenting up to the funny people...
Can't imagine what the sex feels like when you're in the friendzone
Update ooh kill em!
" I waited at the cafe for Emma to finally show up, late as always, sipping on my (non-gay) pumpkin spice latte. She thinks all men should drink coffee plain because its how men should be but the only exception of it being mixed with a whiskey. I'm not sure what alcoholics she grew up with but I keep drinking my girly latte and tell her it's black like I've always done. I only do it to impress her, it's why I do anything at this point. It's pathetic in a way if you think about it but I look at it as flirting for the weak" I started my "Friendzone" book!
My best friend finally confessed he liked me but I'm dating his bestfriend and he sent me this so I uploaded this to tell you guys right when I was about to tell him my feelings he put himself in the friend zone again...
Is it just me or did anyone else almost literally cry on this episode?
Not only girls friend zone...