Actually we not complaining at all about the cold at least not here in south Florida
@Demon King, down here in 'stralia it's a cool 30°C every day
@The Antagonist, yeh about the same here too we usually start off mornings like now at 68F and get warmer through the day hitting about 85 at most but usually high 70 low 80
@Demon King, I live in Canada and where I live there was an ice storm
@The Antagonist, I'd like to apologize apparently I hit downvote by accident I had just woken up my bad
@Teddy Lupin, well that's....interesting how bad was it
@Demon King, we lost power for 4 or 5 hrs
@Teddy Lupin, where do you live exactly?
Lmao Iowa is under 0*F all winter. We wear tank tops when it reaches 50*F
@Door, in Illinois (I, personally) wear t-shirts and shorts in 20F weather. What do you mean? 59F is hot. I hate summer.
So you guys I have a predicament on my hands and a little help would be pretty nice cause I've been losing a lot of sleep over it lately. So a few days ago a girl I really liked told me that the feeling was mutual, but since then I have started to text her and now she has started to not reply and occasionally cancels plans, but when we do hangout it's about 50/50 on the way she acts towards me. So my question to you all is what exactly should I do should I keep on trying or do you all think I'm just wasting my time?
@ADHD Sloth, you should just ask her about the behavior she might think she is being cute by playing hard to get or she may be unsure if you really like her just ask then you will know
@Perkusionrols , we'll see she told me in a weird way that she really likes me. She told me that she was attracted to a lot if people then told me that she thought I was too, but she's only actually "liked" a few people I her life and that she liked me. But I be been trying to get her to go to dinner or something of that nature to talk about it, but she always wants to hang out with other people there.
@ADHD Sloth, you don't want to seem too desperate so it's best to keep some distance. If she stops responding you let her be the first one to start again. I know it sounds weird but when you give less attention to a girl she's going to come to you. That works with most girls not all.
@ADHD Sloth, well sir you have fallen into a predicament. What i recommend doing is isolating her away from her friends and asking her what she sees in you, another friend or a something more? And if she still does not answer you then you stop wasting your time. In time if she likes you then she will tell you but if she never then move on with life it is never good to look back and think what might have happened
@TheBigQ, but the thing is that she specifically told me she liked me a lot, but now it she's either playing hard to get or something.
@ADHD Sloth, stop texting her first. Don't seem so interested. Make her do the work. Women want what they can't have. Trust me on this one. Give her the same treatment. She'll notice right away. It'll seem weird & hard to do. And it may even backfire in the short term. But in the long term it'll pay off. Trust me on this one.
@ADHD Sloth, dude what you describe is the stupidest way to play hard to get. I reckon you should do something spontaneously romantic something that will make her stop playing hard to get and
@ADHD Sloth, play hard to get back. Or else she just doesn't want the d. Sorry bro
@TheBigQ, sorry bout that phone drop but just do something that will make it impossible for her to say I'm not his boyfriend and then she will stop with all that monkey business.
@ADHD Sloth, ask her "do you like fitness?"..... "Well how 'bout fitness dick in your mouth?!" See where that goes and let us know how it turns out for ya buddy!
@TheBigQ, that sounds pretty good. But what is something that could make her feel that way?
@ADHD Sloth, sounds like you need a girl's perspective here. Honestly, whenever a girl cancels plans with a guy, it's usually because she's not that interested. She may have gotten bored, and if that's the case, you need to change it up a bit. However, reading your predicament, it appears this girl is a huge d!ck, and you deserve better than someone who would just blow you off like that. I'm really sorry, and I wish you the best, but you can do a lot better than a girl who treats you like that. Good luck.
@ADHD Sloth, well unless i meet the girl i wont know you have to do something she likes if she is into sports get vip seats to a game she supports, if she likes fine dinning take her to a famous restaurant its all about your willingness to fork out that extra money but when your done the memory of that night will be worth the money
@Mr Brightside, it's not really the cancellation of plans that is annoying but more so the way it feels when we hang out together. Plus she's quite beautiful so whenever I'm sitting next to her or talking to her and leave to do something there's always another guy that takes my place. I know I can't help that she's attractive, but it's just another thing that keeps me from being able to talk one on one with her. But thanks for all of your help this is why this place is so great.
@ADHD Sloth, Personally, I think she's having cold feet about it. It could be a defense, she's protecting herself from getting hurt by getting too close and having the rug pulled out from under her feet. Alternatively, maybe her idea of a relationship is different from yours. I suggest talking to her about it on the phone since she won't meet you without friends. Ask her what's up. And if you still want her then accept what she tells you. Back off a little, give her time and leeway to work through it. But let her know what you need too. And give her time to come around to your needs as well. And if she won't...then it just isn't meant to be :/
@Chemistbyprofession, That was a dick thing to say. Get it.. "dick"? *Giggles to self*
@ADHD Sloth, she is just starting off slow, that's completely normal
@ADHD Sloth, You could take a risky chance and ask her to hook you up with one of her friends. (Yes there is a meme about this) she either confess feelings because she's jealous, or hook you up with someone. See my other message for more advice.
@ADHD Sloth, See the secret with girls, especially younger girls, is that they like a challenge. It's unfortunate that we must play games, but unfortunately it is true. It will e difficult to do this with this girl because of where it's at, but what would be perfect is if she tries to make plans with you. Kindly decline and say you have other plans. This would hopefully make her wonder why you weren't so eager to drop plans for her (like the old you would) hopefully she'll try again to make plans, it would be risky but recommended to decline plans a second time to really sink the hook. If she doesn't ever try to make plans that messes up this plan. So play hard to get. Like I said, girls like a challenge.
@TheBigQ, hey ADHD sloth, don't listen to TheBigQ, advice to surprise her with something big and romantic? This is a sure fire way for her to completely cut off communication. She's unsure how she feels. Like I said in other messages, girls like a challenge. If you surprise her with something romantic, you give up any 'challenge' to her and she will completely lose interest.
@Statefarmer, what challenge do you girls want. 'Hey i really like this guy an he likes me too why don't i just make way more harder for him and me to ever be together by completely ignoring' plus if she was unsure about her feeling then she should have never have told him that she like hims because if she did that unsure of here feeling then thats just plan evil women ( drake bells voice ) evil
@Statefarmer, all of you are so fcking useless. To the OP: If you're asking an internet funny app community for advice with girls then clearly sir you are failing. Man the fck up, ask her straight up, go drink whiskey and eat a steak and grow some balls. Kids these days...
@TheBigQ, hey I replied, but app crashed. Unfortunately we do need to play hard to get, I had a girl confess she liked me, when I was in school, I told her I liked her too, and she avoided me like the plague... It something psychological that makes a girl want what they can't have. Sorry to bash your comment btw, I wasn't trying to start a war with you, I'm just tryin to help this guy
@Statefarmer, dude lets leave at you have your methods i have mine what this guy decides to do with it up to him
@James May, great advice from Captain Slow! :D hello
@James May, the what?
@THE WONDER BONER, it's the Dacia Sandero that keeps me going.
@THE WONDER BONER, Dacia! Bloody hell, it's like I'm talking to Clarkson that infentile pelic. "Poooowwweerrrr!!" I mean what is that rubbish?
@ADHD Sloth, you should ask her if she actually likes you (wait for a few days to see if she texts you) and if she doesn't give a straight answer then you move on. Either she never liked you or she will do something to get your attention.
@James May,that's not gone well..where's a hammer?
@THE WONDER BONER, *leaves to find richard*
@ADHD Sloth, you know what the same thing happened to me a few weeks ago. It could just be that shes not ready for a relationship at the moment. And if thats the case just leave it as a friendship... For now. Eventually if she really does like you she will probally change her mind. Other than that dont try to be something your not and rush something.
@James May, hamsters probably off driving the new Porsche 911
@THE WONDER BONER, Ouuu that is a glorious car. But I'd rather have the new fiat panda!
@James May, heh Fiat Panda. The flashier the car the smaller the vegetable
@ADHD Sloth, she probably is unsure so back off for a bit. See if she starts making the plans and whatnot, if she doesn't then it's time to let go.
@ADHD Sloth, What @James May said was true! It worked with me a few months back. Although I kinda took it a step further. I completely stopped all communication with her and she came back to me not too long after. Just listen to what James has to say. It really works!
@ADHD Sloth, forget the bish, she just wants attention and you don't deserve to have games played with
@ADHD Sloth, Definitely give her some space. Don't ALWAYS wait for her to initiate conversation, then you'll start to look uninterested, but make sure you don't always start it. Also, I wouldn't push the issue of her feelings anymore. She told you she likes you, she likes you. Perhaps wanting her friends around is because she wants neutral ground. You gotta ease into things man, don't charge head first.
@ADHD Sloth, I'm assuming you two are both under 18? Another piece of advice, don't invest too much in a crush. You are going to meet tons of beautiful girls in your life, that's not to say don't go for it and not enjoy the ride. Just make sure you can accept that this is more than likely not permanent. If it happens at all. The biggest mistake I made with romantic interests when I was a teenager was becoming over bearing when a girl said she liked me. Also, under NO CIRCUMSTANCE should you tell this girl you love her until you've been together for a long time. It's not cute it seems desperate and it will ruin any chance you had. Learn to differentiate love and infatuation, and discipline yourself!
@ADHD Sloth, I don't think you should play hard to get, especially if she is attractive. In my experience it leads to the girl moving on. Find something she really likes and wants to do and do that. And if anything go to a movie. Movies are fun and she will be more willing to go with you. Just dinner sounds boring, and is prolly why she wanted to invite people/canceled. In fact i would suggest not going to dinner till the second date, unless she mentions wanting to go to dinner. Also have u told her ur feelings? Would be something to do. Def dont do what statefarmer suggests. And the last piece of advice is to have fun. If ur serious and nervous then ur going to come off as boring. Be spontaneous and have fun flirting and talking or whatever u do. Let me know how it goes
@ADHD Sloth, this reminds me of the Denko thread on reddit if anyone knows what that is
@ADHD Sloth, she is probably confused about her feelings and don't know how to give you a reply. But she doesn't want to hurt you so she said she likes you. I think it would be better for you to move on. I have once agreed to go out with a guy just because I was rushed. It didn't turm out well... So you can either give her sometime or just confirm her feelings again. Be reassuring about it if you can :)
@ADHD Sloth, You should give it time. My boyfriend waited and become my bestfriend until he ignored me. That made me love him even more. I cancel plans because i'm not ready to be alone with a boy. She probably wants to bring a friend because of that reason. She probably doesn't want to reply because she is confused and shy on how she feels. She didn't just straight up tell you she liked you so that tells me shred is a little shy. Have patience and letting her text you first is a great way to make this go better. Hope everything works out for you man
@ADHD Sloth, tell her she needs to put forth more effort or its not worth either of you trying. If she's this bored this early, you may just not be right for each other
@Thundercvnt, I know this is old but it really sounds like she meant she likes you not that she wants to date you.
Merry Christmas Eve everyone!!!!!
@Demon King pfft 'stralian Christmas is beach and sunshine xD pretty much like the the rest if the yeah.
Hey everyone! I dont know if anyone remembers me, but im back commenting again. Ive missed over 20000 pictures :O alrighty. Thats all
As someone who had lived in Miami most of her life, I can vouch that this is 100% accurate. ;)
The name of the game is candyland
Antarctica: That's cute
Neengland weather every day in a nutshell.
Everyone ready for the Doctor Who Christmas Special?
I live in Florida, and it's pathetic what warrants jackets. White girls wearing Ugg boots and drinking Starbucks erryday. (Originally from Massachusetts, so I know cold.)
Canada be like, "B*tch Pls. Sry"
Meanwhile 80 degrees in dithering California
-10 in Minnesota. Its fricken cold here
Hey, my sister does that.
@Common Canadian, does your sister look like that? If so, feel free to give her my number.
I feel a need to rant considering that Sunday it was seventy degrees in louisiana
@Schrodingers Cat, It was a scorching 28 a few days ago, now it's looking like we'll be dipping below zero soon. Oh the joys of Alaska.
@DamienWeibs, yes and we call thirty freezing as sh!t. Ah humidity.