This was when my mom decided to have a surprise clean to me during college.
I'm also gay.
And a bottom
@Tentastic, my dude, I know your pain.
You've not felt shame until your mother finds your bad dragon and bondage gear during a house move
@DancingIsNotAdvised, mostly pup and chapless gear
@Tentastic, oh dear lawd 😨
@Tentastic, what does a bottom mean? Like...are you on your back? Or are you the taker? Do you not share?
@MMSieBreeze, it means I like having dicks up my ass and hitting my prostate.
Once you experience it, it's exactly like a drug: you need more, and what you were doing previously isn't as effective. Jacking off never feels the same way again.
Getting your prostate hit is like feeling electricity surge through your body and you just need to give in, let nature take over as you push yourself into it. It's like a scratch- at first it itches, but as you scratch more and more it feels amazing. Only issue is once you experience it the itch never goes away.
I'd say the best thing about it is that it makes your body do things you didn't know.
@Tentastic, that was...far more descriptive than i thought i would get....thank you for sharing...i guess
@Tentastic, you go man, milk that prostrate!
@Tentastic, Youre not a bottom, my friend you are a power bottom. Good on you
@Guy Fawkes, *pure bottom. Power bottoms are Dom bottoms. I'm a sub bottom.
@Tentastic, oh goodness. And here i thought i had already learned something today. Well even more power to you. Or... less, seeing as how thats kinda your thing ;)
@Guy Fawkes, haha, you might think it's degrading or lesser to be a sub, but not quite. It's like a dog- they don't listen to anyone, and if you mess with them they will tear your limbs off.
They are only sub/pups to those they have chosen to commit themselves to and protect, only heeling to the Masters that love and provide for them.
That's what being a sub is. You are a sub because you chose someone to be loyal to and serve because you love them and want them to be happy and they love you.
@Guy Fawkes, Being a sub also allows you not to have worries other than making other people happy.
You might have seen my other post under father's abuse, that I don't think I matter in the world but I care about people who do. The abuse may have impacted me to want a dom who I can love and serve because I never had that fatherly connection growing up.
But being a sub allows you to be happy only by devoting yourself to and making the ones you love happy. And in this trade, the Dom looks after you, makes sure you're well fed, makes you who they want you to be, and that's it. You don't need to do any thinking, you just let your Dom do it for you. Then you live the simple life of beer, sex, and work.
Major warning: keep aware of abusive or bad relationship signs. You can't let 'love' blind you. There are times layed my heart for people, and I'm lucky they were good. I could have been taken advantage of, but they taught me instead. Im glad I have a good judge of character (thanks dad).
@Tentastic, oh no i underatand the dom/sub dynamic. Im a switch actually but more on the dom side, at least in my previous relationship i was. It was actually my previous love that introduced me to those aspects of myself and im very grateful for that
I had completely misinterpreted the power bottom designation though in all honesty and i thank you for clearing that up.
@Guy Fawkes, I see. I definitely get that confusion. Usually apps have "only top, tops, vers, bottom, power bottom" but power bottom is supposed to specifically be a Dom bottom.
But yeah tops/bottoms aren't exclusive to Dom/sub.
In Dom/Sub there's a lot of variation. Handler/Pup, Sir/Boy, Master/Slave. But sometimes Sirs enjoy being the bottom while their Boys serve them by fu king them.
@Tentastic, mine was a daddy/little. She liked being Princess but sometimes Momma showed up and boy were those good times hahaha. She was mostly a sub but she did really good at accommodating for my switch when it came around.
Its a difficult dynamic to make work but we never had to make it work. I really miss it in all honesty, i miss her more. Sorry, the topic just makes it hard to think of anything else.
@Guy Fawkes, honestly that's what I find great about being a sub. You don't need to think about anything else. It feels so fulfilling.
@DancingIsNotAdvised, @Tentastic holy shįt dude, how did you read my mind so perfectly? This terrifies me every day that I'm in college. There was one time my parents had an impromptu "let's paint our son's room day". I ran home as fast as I could to make sure the bag I kept all my Dab Dragon stuff in was still there and it wasn't. I ran into the basement to see if the bag was down there and it was, open. Thank god though I kept it all in a more secret pocket inside said bag, and the stuff was seemingly undisturbed in there. Either my parents found it and they're totally fine letting me live my life, or I dodged a massive bullet.
@unknownjanitor, my mum just dropped the box the second she saw a knot. Not a word during or after said but God my face burnt
@unknownjanitor, not suggesting of course that having my mother see a massive collection of human dongs would have been in any way better but with the BD stuff it's just soooooo much worse.
@DancingIsNotAdvised, just out of curiosity, how did she react/hows your relationship with her now?
@unknownjanitor, fine to be honest, was an embarrassing incident and doesn't get brought up but nothing material changed in our relationship
One things for sure if I know how porn goes... we SHOULD spank him...
Hurt me daddy......
@megamanx181x, me and your mother are getting a divorce. And you are most definitely the reason
@Guy Fawkes, MMMMM!!!!
What if they found out his sister/brother is his dom. What then?
Those are the best kind of restraints. Handcuffs are nice when you want a little bit more of a bite. But if you plan on being bonded for longer than 5 or 10 minutes then you want somethi g woth some cushion folks