Me: this isn't what I wanted. Barber: i know
@Square Feet, 'Gus, I just had a great new idea'
@Prince super Vegeta , I should've saw that coming.
So a few months ago I made a comment saying how I was in a new relationship with this amazing guy. How he treated me good and all that. Well, it turns out I was wrong. We dated for about 4 months. The lovey stuff lasted about 2. He cheated on me, was a racist, put me down, didn't have a car or job, and never took me out. Isn't that something? How your idea of someone can change in an instant? That's okay. I'm not upset over it. I actually went on an awesome date recently with a guy who has his life together. Who works everyday, and he seems like a real sweetheart. We'll see though. I'm going to take it slow. We're going on another date soon. Wish me luck! Anyway, relationships and finding someone who values you and your way of thinking ha been the hardest challenge in life so far. Don't give up hope guys! Love yourself, respect your values and beliefs, don't be with someone who doesn't support you or make you want to become a better person!
@barfingpony, Take my downvote and become a better person.
@Chick33n, I'm confused. Are the downvotes because she dumped a cheating racist? Or because it's a facebook style rant?
@barfingpony, I'm not bashing on you in the slightest, I'm genuinely curious as to how those signs of the guy, you thought was amazing, wasn't there initially?
@barfingpony, I enjoy reading people's stories. But then it got too inspirational.
@barfingpony, *Sniffs around* There may be some "Top Comment" conspiracy attempts going on around here..
@Taquito Speedo, infatuation can be just as blind as love..
@RhettandLink, I get what you mean babe, I'm just saying there's always those signs when something isn't right. Those red flags that we are willing to look past. You're right, I shouldn't judge someone. I'd just like everyone to be as happy as us
@Kangaroo Jacked, I didn't downvote, but it's a Facebook rant that is 100% unrelated to the picture without even an apologetic preface.
@Kangaroo Jacked, I always downvote stuff like this, because it annoys me.
@Taquito Speedo, Well I seen some of the signs..like not having a car or Job, but I liked who he seemed to be so I wanted to give him a chance. I felt like he would get a job and all that soon. The racism and everything else he didn't show until later on. I was blinded by the good stuff because I didn't really get to experience that before.
@barfingpony, I completely understand. He was a whole new kind of person for you and he probably shaped new feelings, so his flaws didn't quite emerge or were overlookable since he impacted you so heavily
@Dr Simon Acula, Well I'm a hairdresser so I thought this was a good photo to comment on. There wasn't any comments when I made this post and I didn't really expect a response. Also it wasn't meant to be anything big, I just wanted to show people in this community that there is people on here that have experienced crappy stuff too.
@Taquito Speedo, Yes. Very true. It's just a life lesson. Over time I'm getting better at seeing the bad in people. That sounds horrible, I just mean I'm not as naïve.
@barfingpony, it's not horrible, I get it. I used to have walls that never let anyone in. Then I evolved to keep those walls up but have a nice gate in the center so I would choose who I let in my life. Doing so, I was capable of meeting the fp user above RhettandLink and she's made me happier than I ever believed possible
@Kangaroo Jacked, the Facebook rant for sure, I mean yea this is a community but that said... it’s a funny picture site, we come here to escape problems not become entrenched in others. I didn’t downvote them but I didn’t upvote either. Normally I just skip over them
This is a real place in Seattle!
Just letting you know, I'm a fvck up your hair.