I hate when this happens because more than half the time their personality is shjt as well, if you don't take care of your body how great of a personality could you have
@EddySteady, i agree and disagree.
@EddySteady, someone being overweight isnt on it own a sign of one not taking care of their body. My work is sedentary and my hobbies are as well. I enjoy good food as well. None of that has any bearing on my personality.
@EddySteady, there is very little correlation here my dude
@TheWhiteWolf, there's nothing wrong with being overweight especially because some people don't lose weight as easily and some people really do just have those kinds of genetics, but there are plenty of people who let their bodies get grotesquely out of shape and constantly eat fast food despite having their doctor tell them they need to lose weight
@EddySteady, I think the dumb downed statement is "if they don't put effort into their body on the outside why would they put effort into the inside (character building). I agree with this logic.
@EddySteady, REAL. TALK. MY MAN.
@EddySteady, at one point I weighed 170 at 5’2” and I sometimes wonder if my husband would have still given me a chance if we met when I was that fat. He assures he still would have loved me for my personality but who knows. Edit: I means who knows if he would’ve given me a chance
@TheWhiteWolf, while you and I share all of the same aspects of sedentary lifestyles and probably unhealthy food choice, we need to bear in mind one particular point: the length of death. Everybody dies, but how long do you want to be in decline before passing? Strokes, heart attacks, diabetes, and more often cause permanent damage and neurogenic pain (i.e., chronic pain not treatable by medication). More often than you'd think, people end up immobile and incontinent long before dying. It fvcking sucks. Just something to think about. I don't wish that suffering on you.
@EddySteady, that’s ok, she’ll tell herself she don’t need no man and never work on herself.
@TheWhiteWolf, It kinda does. It means you prefer a seditary lifestyle, and therefore would probably not get along with people who lead very active lifestyles so conflicting with your own. Not saying thats the case mind you, but our hobbies and activities often shape who is in our social cricle and often times people outside of that social circle rarely mix.
Again. Not saying thats you in particular but there is definitely a strong correlation between our lifestyles and who our friends are. Thats just how we are sadly. I for one have both active and passive hobbies, while my work is very active. So i have friends on both side of the spectrum, and they rarely get along with eachother.
@TheWhiteWolf, All of my hobbies involve sitting still and not moving, however I force myself to run a few times a week and do push ups and planks. I do this purely for aesthetic reasons because we as humans view overweight people as unattractive (obviously there are exceptions but in general). It’s your choice if you don’t want to work out at all but if you’re single then that significantly lowers the chances of getting into a relationship. Of course genetic reasons are different, although the unfortunate truth is that even if you’re overweight because of genetics, you will probably have a harder time getting into a relationship. I do however agree that being overweight doesn’t necessarily mean that you have a bad personality. I think that some overweight people are jaded and act like assh*les but the same is true for health nuts that act like douchebags... so it kind of evens out.
@EddySteady, let me guess, you consider yourself to be a "nice guy" don't you?
I think that’s a bit insulting on both parts: one your friend doesn’t have any realism that you would be attracted to someone physically over weight. Secondly throwing her fat friend in this mixed getting her hopes up