But why is it us men that always have to work extremely hard and suffer through ridiculous mental torture for a relationship? I rarely ever see a girl have to actually suffer through hard mental abuse to obtain one. I always seem to be getting lead on by girls and then they act like I'm a creep for thinking they might have been into me. I put forth the effort to make them happy but thats all they want, their own happiness... Mine doesn't matter. Rant over. Down vote me. Im used to hate.
@LonelyShadow, hey. It happens to girls too btw. Not down voting you cause I get it.
@LonelyShadow, It's tough. It really is. I've just temporarily given up on most girls because of those reasons you've mentioned. Once I feel a change in the air I'll lift my own personal embargo on them. (Also, I refuse to down vote you. You, sir, shall get up votes!)
@LonelyShadow, hey I get friend zoned too sometimes
@LonelyShadow, I dont ask girls out, they ask me out. By then, somehow, I've accidentally friendzoned them..... my life is complicated....
@LonelyShadow, I actually worked really hard to get with this one guy all year and he's on his third girlfriend since I met him. I get the chance to get with him and I kinda did but without the relationship title and then he just left me hanging. And now he's with his girlfriend and doing the same stuff he did with me with his ex at the same time. So yea…I'm over it.
@LonelyShadow, Especially with all of these "rules" that guys have to follow when they are in a relationship or want to be in a relationship. How the guy has to do this first, that first, devote themselves to their woman every day, buy them nice things, put themselves out even to be rejected, and never hurt their woman in any form. Or else we're seen as immature, unmanly, a pig, or simply not ready to be in a relationship. Just keep your head high and try waiting for a girl to make the first move. If she does, she's definitely worth a try
@LonelyShadow, bro I'm there right now with a girl, pretty much dying inside while she takes her time deciding whether or not I'm boyfriend material. I am or like to think i am but the struggle goes on. Know you are not alone, friend! Despite your name...
@LonelyShadow, just a thought, maybe this keeps happening because you go after all the mean little b**ches just because they're good looking. That's what most guys do in my experiences anyway.
@LonelyShadow, i know im
@LonelyShadow, i know im going to get downvoted but if you act like a friend in the first place its how theyll think of you later on. Doesnt matter how good you are to them. Guys who obviously are interested in more than just a friendship get girls. Sucks i know but its life.
@LonelyShadow, here's a good way to look at it. They get those cramps, birth giving, and other physical pain stuff. And we just need to find one that's really cool than were done. So it may not be fun, but it is fair.
@LonelyShadow, it's sucks. So many girls have flirted with me an shown interest with me and they say "sorry I don't like you like that" and I just get confused. Also like you said it's so hard to make them happy. You give them the world and more and they just take advantage of it.
@Peeps, that's very true. But it is a slippery slope. Because you can either attempt to flirt right off and that may not go too well, or play the long game and get friendzoned. Either way, the uncertainty is astounding.
@LonelyShadow, thanks guys, at least i know I'm not completely alone.
@Peeps, I've told a girl to her face that i liked her after we went on a date and she laughed. "Then she said i just don't like you, because your you". And I'm the nicest person i know. She even said i was the nicest person she knew, so its not like i was an @ss to her or anything. She even said i was attractive at one point. But its the past. She was obviously a bi7ch.
But he's ok, because he feels good about all the trees he's planting!
Okay so a girl/guy actually doesn't have to date every person she/he befriends, despite popular belief. Sometimes people just plain old aren't attracted to someone who likes them.....
@normally weird, Of course. But the point being said here is that it's ironic/hypocritical to complain about wanting a sweet nice caring boyfriend, while intentionally keeping sweet nice caring guys as nothing more then friends... It's like complaining that you never get to eat a Peanut Butter Jelly sandwich, while spreading peanut butter on your feet as part of a pedicure.
@normally weird, yeah, that can be the case, but some people just lead others on with no intention of dating them. That's when it becomes wrong...
@Gestalt BumWizard, Just a small point. It's usually not intentionally. Any "friendzoning" of a particularly nice person is probably because, A: Unaware of attraction or B: Some subconscious, personal, psychological need to discard these people because they subconsciously think these people are too good for them or going for the people who treat them badly somehow connect to a part of their past. Like, dating someone who fights and verbally abuses you because that is the only relationship you know because of the relationships surrounding you.
Sorry, pretty long explanation. Anyhow. Yeah.
@Gestalt BumWizard, but does it really make them a hypocrite if they genuinely are not romantically inclined towards nice friends they might have? That seems kind of unfair
@Gestalt BumWizard, dafuq you do with peanut butter?
@normally weird, sorry first comment sent early anyway I totally agree a someone friendzone-ing someone else if just their way of saying I don't feel the same way about you but I am trying to keep the friendship and not be a total jerk to you. Do you want me act like a major crap to you? Cause I will if that's what you want
@Toaoavatar , Only, kind of, and only if they're complaining whining about never finding any nice boyfriends. Hypocritical wasn't exactly the right word, but it's hard to put "Cognitive Dissonance" in an adjective. I mean it is perfectly fine if people just simply aren't attracted because of appearance etc. But you'd be amazed at how many people have the subconscious notion that a friend cannot be a boyfriend/girlfriend.
@Gestalt BumWizard, That was the best analogy I have ever heard.
The "friend zone" is a myth. It's actually called friendSHIP. Either the girl doesn't want you or you're not putting forth the effort to win the girls heart! Relationships don't just land in your lap gentlemen! They take hard work, time, and dedication. If the girl doesn't like you back, it's not HER fault!
@bayleef, I was into this girl once, and she gave hints of liking me as well. So I pursued to try to date, however when I finally asked her out, after 3 years of courting, she revealed that she never even liked me and was "Joking around" with me. So how's that for dedication?! Rant over.
Not sure how I feel about the 9GAG watermark...
@Guide to Fails, I don't care about where a pic originates so long as it's funny
@Xenocide, that's because the tumblr ones are the best
For anyone that wants to know my birthday is on May second, I'm turning thirteen y'all!
@The Orgasmic Wizard, 17+ in order to download this app
@The Orgasmic Wizard, Happy early one
@The Orgasmic Wizard, my sister just turned 14 today. May 1st.
@The Orgasmic Wizard, Happy Birthday!
@Jeff Goldblum, I'm starting to question the age range on this app... 9-60?
@Bonersaurus, MAYDAY MAYDAY
@Bonersaurus, my sister's going to be 14 on the 12th of May
@The Orgasmic Wizard, WE HAVE A YOUNGING, SEND IN THE DOGS. But put little party hats on them. So he can feel special as he is ripped apart
@The Orgasmic Wizard, 13...you were born in 2001...I feel old
@Elphaba Thropp, I feel you man and I'm not even old yet I'm sitting pretty at 20
@deli man, me too, though 21 at the end if the month
@Elphaba Thropp, well an early congrats then, just remember don't drunk post on funny pics lol
1 May 2014 #1May2014
@Raven1313, or 122
I feel like the friendzoned jokes have been overused...
@motherheffer, huh I see you got signal from inside the friend zone to comment this. That's nice.
@Jeff Goldblum, I'll have you know that I have a girlfriend. She just lives in Canada is all.
I can smell the fedora that wrote this
@Thinlizzy, AAAHHHHH NOOO THEY'RE EVERYWHERE!!! QUICK SAY WE JUST FRIENDS SEND THEM AWAY!!!! (judging username im assuming ur a girl)
@Demon King, the stench on the neck beard is almost overpowering
@Thinlizzy, sshhhhh....I think I can just make out the My Little Pony playing in the background.....
@Demon King, *m'lady is whispered* OH MY GOD RUN WHILE YOU STILL CAN
@Demon King, no it's just a band. Wait do most people assume I'm a girl. Sh*t, that totally changes my prospective
@Thinlizzy, I dont know bout others I just assumed due to lizzy I thought maybe its a nickname like fat lizzy and thin lizzy
@Demon King, nope just the second best Irish band of all time (in my opinion)
@Thinlizzy, irish you say well i may go check them out I love irish people
@Demon King, so anyone who talks about friend zoning is automatically a neckbeard now? *insert black child shouting "That's racist"**insert while child telling him it's not**insert asian child saying "That's some dumb@ss level shjt right there"**everyone cheers because he got it right*
@CaptainSwordsman, *starts stammering nervously* w..wh...what....no I...I...I didnt say that....I....I...said the fedora thing.....please dont hurt me.....
@Demon King, I myself happen to own a fedora. My neck is clean shaven and I only wear it to 40's themed parties.
This meme isn't that great...
Why is there always this weird assumption on the internet that most girls just have this guy at the side that they're friend zoning? As a below average looking girl I can tell you that's not true.
If you're not attracted someone, then you're not attracted to someone.
If only this happened in real life
@Average Tumblr User, you mean piece of sh!t guys treating women badly because they are assh0les who refuse to be rejected due to their awful personality? I think it happens enough already.
Because a girl totally has to like any boy that likes her. If you really cared for the girl, then you'd be happy to just be friends with her and not scream and cry when she says she doesn't want to date you and just likes hanging out with you.
This meme is back!
*le fortune cookie cracked in distance...*
I hate life now