Get a hold of yourself krabs
somebody wanna give me a reason to not slip into crippling depression?
my girlfriend of a lifetime, who i’ve been with for about 2 years,(I know seems short) the woman I really would’ve loved to married(who loved me back just as much!!!) just recently left me and already wants to fvck other people and is barely hurting at all from the breakup. obviously there’s more details but yeah that’s the sum up and I am dying sos
@Cabbypants, I have been there buddy, mine was a girlfriend of almost three years that became good friends with my family and ended up living with us bringing her boyfriends over to visit until recently when my parents filed for divorce. Then the girlfriend of just under 2 years (really awkward with the first ex living on the couch) that fvcked one of my friends . But things do get better and you will find someone else that will make you happy and you will be glad that you where single when you met her. My view is if a girl treats you like shít she is not worth getting upset over. sorry about the book but just remember we are a family here and we care about you.
@Cabbypants, I've got a fairly good reason to not slip into crippling depression: I'm already down here, and you don't want to be. My girlfriend of a year and a half, who I'd probably have ended up marrying, fell into depression herself. It got so bad that I had to talk her down from a suicide attempt. I pray that no one ever has to talk down a loved one, because I'm still fvcked up over it. Our relationship was never the same after that, and it crumbled. It sucks down here and the depression will suck the life out of you, and the joy out of the things you like. You have to fight it, for yourself, because you're worth fighting for, even if you don't believe that right now. Someday, you'll meet the right girl, but you've got to keep fighting to get there. We're all a family here, so if you need someone to talk to I'm here.
@Cabbypants, if you're looking for a reason not to then you already have your answer
@Cabbypants, I was in that exact same situation. (Timeline and everything) So I totally get it. The main things I did was convince myself that it wasn’t my fault. Disconnect from her on every form of social media and block all her numbers. I hope that helps a bit, but honestly this is a time where you can really reform yourself in preparation for getting back out there when you’re ready. Also after viewing the next pic you have Danny Devito as well.
@Cabbypants, it could be worse... You could be an ifunny user
@Cabbypants, I can relate man. 6 years ago, the girl I planned on marrying left me for another guy and man does that fvck with you. But speaking of someone who’s been down that depression well, I can tell you it gets better. My advice is to keep your mind busy. Right after my break up I started a mindless job and that was the worst part of the breakup because I would just think about her for 8 hours a day. So for the first few months, when it really hurts, spend lots of time with friends and family, devote yourself to school or your job, pick up a hobby, or start playing a really hard video game. It will get better though, you will make it through this
@Cabbypants, Fella, I'm not gonna pretend I know what you're going through, because I don't. But I'll be darned if I just sit on the sidelines while someone is feeling down. We're all here for you. I'm here. I don't know what to do, but I'll listen. Don't lose hope, friend, so that we don't lose you.
By the way, your name wouldn't happen to be Jacob, would it?
Why would you want to be with someone who doesn’t want to be with you?