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@I Are Lebo, I agree. Same with people who identify as Trans. Like, if I ask what gender you are, even if you're trans, it would be make or female. The whole point of it is that you want to be the other gender, and (often in my experience of having trans friends) never even want to acknowledge that you were ever your previous gender. If you say "oh I'm trans" and keep bringing to attention that your trans (when it isn't relevant), and not just the gender you prefer, I'm going to assume you're doing it for attention.
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@BrenadryI, it makes no difference to me if a girl is masculine because she’s naturally masculine or if she was born male and has since transitioned. It’s none of my business, I’ll refer to you how you present yourself, unless you’re presenting yourself so poorly that it’s impossible to take seriously, like bad drag. But even then, in that situation, I’m not going to treat anyone with disrespect or harassment, I’ll just not associate. What I do take issue with is gender fluidity or non conforming. For the genders with no actual connection to reality, I simply don’t respect that and am not going to validate it. It’s nothing more than a desire to feel special and a concept disconnected from reality. With gender fluidity, I think people should be free to have whatever style they feel comfortable with, and if someone wants to change whether they dress or act masculine or feminine, that’s also none of my business. But people who randomly and frequently change how they not only perceive
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themselves but also how they expect to be related to (ie those people who mid-conversation go “I’m a girl now” and take it as a grave insult if the ‘wrong’ pronoun is ever used) are insane and deserve no respect or consideration. They have embraced madness in order to have power over other people and their ideology is literally crazy, fantasy over reality bullshït.
I just "hey there, sport" everyone. I don't even remember my fiancee's name.