That's why I keep things exciting with my wife by randomly threatning to leave her! Take it from me guys, nothing keeps a relationship more exciting than instability.
@Mhael, that was hilariously, yet depressingly, unexpected
@Mhael, when your computer wife threatens to leave you for a new operating system.
@El Batman, I’m gonna tell him.
I just started dating this girl and this is my exact fear. Which sux cuz thinking this makes me act really awkward around her, which perpetuates my fear and creates a vicious cycle
@ted, The way I see it, it doesn't matter how perceptively boring or exciting you are (Within reason of course). If she likes you, she won't find you boring, even if you think you are boring. On the other hand, you could think you are the most exciting being alive and she could get bored with you. I'm not sure if I explained myself well enough, but good luck to you mate.
@ted, Be a her hero ted, buy her sandwiches, eat her pûssy, start a 401k
@ted, maybe send her this? It’s really sweet
@ted, whether you think you can or cannot, you're right.
Don't feel any pressure man. In 20,000 years LITERALLY no one will remember you or your relationship with this broad. It's only for you and her to experience (and possibly those around you, but even they only get a minor taste). If you dwell on this and have a shjt relationship and she leaves, you've wasted the time you had with her. But if you get over your fear for her sake, have a solid and genuine relationship, and she still leaves, it'll suck so hard BUT at least you will have the good times you spent with her. They'll help you learn and grow. The fear of failure causes stagnation, so even failing spectacularly leaves you with more than just letting it turn to ash for no reason.
Live it up to the fullest, love her as hard as you can without being creepy, and cherish every second you have with her just in case there comes a point in time which you don't have her.
@ted, I used to be like that, until I realized that no matter what I have no control over the actions of anyone else, so I’ma just do my best and not worry about others.
This isn't fear. This is insecurity. And one must crush insecurity with the force of a thousand... Alcoholic beverages. Cold preferably.
Usually that feeling is mutual. Once you find out you both have the same fear, then you both realize I have no idea what I'm talking about because i don't have this issue anymore
Once you dwell on a fear like this it becomes your reality
I watched sponge Bob for the first time since 2004 and plankton's computer went from an autonomous machine to now cracking jokes and practically making out with him. It was disturbing.
I’ve been crushing on this one girl for a couple of weeks, but because of her extroverted personality and my introverted personality, I feel like she’ll get bored of me. We’ve hung out a couple of times with friends, but only twice just the two of us, and in those two times, I still couldn’t muster up the courage to ask her out because of that fear. I know I just need to man up and do it, but I just can’t for whatever reason.
Waiter. Waiter! I found some "too real and relatable" in my funny!!!