That would require me to actually use my social media
Wait, that's illegal
Nah. Way easier to just die alone.
@I Are Lebo, Get to it
Currently talking to a girl from tinder, but my anxiety loves to hit me with the, "You're probably annoying her or making her uncomfortable" I got that going for me
What if you're ugly?
@theboatandcarman, get rich and it won't matter
@theboatandcarman, plenty of ugly girls than need love
You have to date! See who you are compatible with... It amazes me those that meet up one night and get married the next day
@seeUpee, well what if I'm socially awkward and the girl that likes me is my best friend's ex?
@The Last Roman, only way you can proceed is to ask your best bro’s permission and blessing. Otherwise forget about her. Never put a girl in front of the friendship. In the end is not worth it, no matter how bad you want it
@seeUpee, well of course, bros before nice ladies all day everyday
@seeUpee, how've you been my guy, I haven't been on in ages
@The Last Roman, Ahahah cuz you my guy! Plus knoxvillian neighbor!!! Hope everything is well with you.
1) Focus on you, respect your needs. Care for yourself, never sacrifice it.
2) With focus on your needs, you respect yourself. Embrace yourself, keep the good, adjust the bad. Always stay true to yourself!
3) Find a partner who respects themself, and respects your self respect. This is mutual respect- the only path to a healthy relationship. Respect keeps mistakes temporary, not permanent.
4) Share your lives. Do mutually enjoyed activities often. Complement each other when your strength matches against their weakness. Weakness you both share can become common goals to work on together. Eg-You both love sharing memes, you hate doing dishes but not vacuuming, your partner loves doing dishes not vacuuming. You both hate paying bills. Share memes, divide the chores, struggle together with bills.
Relationship is taking the same path together. The path to happy is the hardest. People ahead are happier, people behind will be jealous of you. You and you partner should walk cooperatively.
@orion55, if done correctly: you’ll feel confident in yourself, your partner will be self confident, your relationship will be mutually respectful. You will voice your grievances with respect. You’ll compromise for each other instead of feeling controlled. Your love will be real, and trusted, and mutual. If it’s ultimately not meant to be, you’ll be able to handle that together because you’ll want the best outcome for your partner and you. If you truly love someone, you should never want to see them unhappy, regardless of where that puts you in their life. If the relationship eventually ends, it should end because you mutually realize that it’s keeping both of you from real happiness. If one wants kids and the other doesn’t, *and it’s a big deal*, neither of you can actually be happy long term unless the other isn’t happy. And both partners should want the other to find true happiness. Even if that means finding separate paths after walking together for a while. Be patient for love.
What if I don't do either.
I gave up on finding love long ago. It’s been a lot less stressful now since I don’t have to worry about finding someone to love or ever being happy.
@Bobaganusche88, Great 👍 now quit wasting our oxygen
Nope. Don't like that.
Wrong prescription. Thanks a lot pharmacist.
Just take it slowly and just talk to someone for a while, if you still feel sorry for yourself then go see someone about expressing those emotions so you can move past them
Gonna need some whiskey with these pills, but less of both because I'm here for a good, safe time.
First of all I don't like being called out like that...
I'm so proud of the non incel that made this
Well being the girl I loved just left me during one of the hardest holidays for me for a guy with money I kinda feel like money is love now
Agreed. Now how do I get dates and stop getting rejected?
@Augustweather, Push through it. 100 failures is worth the 1 win