Lost my virginity at 17 to a girl I didn't love, still regret it 11 years later. Only reason I did it (beyond your typical teenage libido) was because of the stigma that high school is when you need to be getting laid.
Kids and young adults, please only have sex when you're ready. Please know that nobody should control your body but you, and know that society and your peers really don't care if you are getting laid by a certain age. There is nothing wrong with being a virgin, and there is nothing wrong with losing your virginity, just make sure it's really what you want.
Take care y'all.
@Runed Ram, you're awesome. Nobody says this kind of shjt these days.
@sploot, thank you! I'm just trying to pass on what little knowledge I've gained. Being 28 I'm still very young and have a lot to learn, but these things are very important to know and I wish someone would have told me then. But it still would have been up to me to listen.
@Runed Ram, I lost mine at 15 myself, and while I don’t regret it, I’d also say that you should make sure that you’re absolutely ready when you do. You only get one, after all.
@Runed Ram, I lost mine at either 11 or 12. I honestly don't know the number of girls I've slept with, but it's probably in the 40's or 50's. Still clean though
Edit: I'm definitely not a "Chad" before any of you incels suggest it.
@Runed Ram, 28 myself and am still a virgin. I have fingered a girl though, so there's that. Just looking for the one.
@Mattizzle9, good on ya, I can really respect waiting for the one. I still don't think I've ever done the deed with the one, but there definitely is a difference between having sex with a person you have feelings for compared to someone you have no feelings for. Having sex with someone you really do love is just the best.
@Runed Ram, I can understand that. It truly is a beautiful thing.
@Runed Ram, I am 22 and I haven't lost it yet. When I was younger I was constantly trying to but lately it has become a combination of waiting for the right girl and the fact that I don't have my life together enough as is, the last thing I need is to either catch something or get a girl pregnant. So for now I just keep waiting untill I find the right one.
@Runed Ram, same same but different
@Runed Ram, I’ve made it to thirty, but not for lack of trying.
@Runed Ram, I totally agree with your second paragraph, and right on you for saying it so well. Personally I don't think you need to love a girl before taking that step, but it's definitely better if you do, and doing it with someone you trust is much better than just losing it with a stranger
@CJWJ, Oh no, please don't misunderstand, I don't think you need to love someone to have sex with them or that it's wrong if you do. I just know from my personal experience that I ended up regretting it. I discovered with time I'm not someone who enjoys casual sex, and the times I've enjoyed it the most was when I was in a deeply connected relationship.
I just wanted to pass on my personal experience to anyone who may have been struggling with those thoughts.
literally all i did as a teenager was go to the movies and play video games
Lost mine at 18 to my high school sweetheart. Here we are 10 years later, married for 5, with a beautiful 2 year old baby girl and a boy on the way.
@Blue Elephants, that’s awesome
Bout to be a 31 year old virgin and it’s largely because I never found anyone I even remotely liked and trusted to do anything with.
I’m fvckin 23 and still a virgin and drunk tb quite honest so fvck you for me paying attention to my career instead of my penis
@Prince super Vegeta , 21 and I have never had a romantic attraction to anyone much less anything further
21 year old virgin here, don't feel so left out anymore.
I’m a 23 year old virgin and the idea that people actually have sex is becoming weird to me. Like how to people just do that with each other. It seems almost like a lie spread through media. I’m convinced I will die alone
@The next plague, I totally have that same feeling, like how do people even date or have sex, it's so out of my wheelhouse. And I'm about to hit 30 in October. A herd of cats might be coming for me, I don't know.
@The next plague, its like jerking off with someone of the opposite gender(or same) , but you use eachother instead of ur hand. Sounds 100x weirder when its said like that lol
I was 24 going on 25. The only woman I've ever been with is my wife, and I have absolutely no regrets. It's a big step in your life, and you can't take it back if you regret it. I'm actually happy to see how many people on here are admitting they waited (or are still waiting) for the right person. Sex without love is meaningless. Plus, in this day and age, it also means that 10-15 years down the line, someone's going to accuse you of doing something inappropriate, just so they can ruin your career.
I think I might be one of the few if not more I have no clue, but I lost it when I was 14 with another 14 year old girl, we dated and one day she asked if I liked her, we dated about 3 months before we had sex, long story short I plowed that girl about 3 times a week for 2 year in high school, getting condoms was rough!
@DrSin, I was 13 to my 13 year old neighbor... what fun glorious times with her that I will never forget... her parents busted us in her bed when I was 14 and moved... we didn’t use rubbers bc in my mind I knew the feeling and when I would precum. I am glad they moved bc my stupid ass would of definitely got her pregnant.
@seeUpee, I had my scares ..... nothing like almost having a baby at 14 ..... then again at 15 ....... scary ass moments , now I’m older and still have no kids I honestly wrap up no joke about that
@DrSin, That just made me really reminisce to how dumb and innocent I really once was. We had a scare too bc her period was 3 days late... I freaked out when she told me she was pregnant. I was at the park three days later when I got the call on my flip phone that aunt flow is in town. A week later I was doing the same crap like a horndog. Except I would convince myself to pull out if I even felt like I was about to jizz.... so a scare didn’t stop me. Was mad as hell they moved. Now I look back and I’m sooooo happy they did. Haven’t seen that girl ever again, never did look her up. You never forget your first
@DrSin, what an impression!!
@seeUpee, glad things worked out where you didn’t over do it
@DrSin, I was 15, lost it to a guy who was a few years older. I knew what I was doing but I just wanted to get it over with. I didn't believe the wait til you're in love BS. Because guess what? That shjt might never truley happen until youre in your 30s or 40s. I still havent found it but I have fun with who ever I'm sleeping with at least.
@ TouchMyCatEars, I agree!
@ TouchMyCatEars, i mean, in college I was no saint, I’m not gonna say I banged every girl but I did have like 10-15 partners some lasted a few months
22 and never gotten more than a friendly hug. Most of high school there were some girls I found attractive, but never really had any sort of desire to do anything, romantic, lustful, or otherwise. Been in a couple long distance relationships in which things might've been different if they worked out, but they didn't. And now I've just engulfed myself in work, video games, and anime, having more desire to become a wizard and maybe even a sage rather than find a girlfriend.
I kinda regret how I lost mine
I have no idea what any of you idiots are talking about
I didn’t lose my virginity until I was 22 years old. It really isn’t all that important to “get laid” as some would have you believe. All that’s needed is integrity and, when you finally do get a girlfriend, a deep emotional connection with that special person in your life that makes the *ahem* intercourse even more meaningful to both of you
That, and being homeschooled from grade 6 all the way through high school doesn’t hurt either
22 and still a virgin..... yeah, dont get on my level, it's not great
@40 to Pun, too late. I’m already there. And that’s ok. I know how my body works and don’t need a partner to keep myself entertained
I was more wanting to have a gf in general but luckily I had some good times with my friends playing games and hanging out.
My at 19*
if you wanna be good at sex in college you have to practice in high school