Pretty ballsy move for a bald dude. He must have a fat bank account.
@on the crapper, Or something else 😉
Just because you already ordered doesn't mean you can keep looking at the menu
Honestly though, who wouldn't peek?
@FirstOrderOfFries, people with more than the average amount of sociable accepted self-control. Or, you know, people who truly love their wives.
@BBraamse, so? I've been with my girlfriend for a year now. Neither of us mind
Hell we both ogle together
It's called trusting that your partner loves you and not flying off the handle because of your insecurities
@carguy25, Especially seeing as shorts that allow for "under-butt" are now a thing 😛
@carguy25, my comment was initially about marriage, a commitment that should be made forever. If someone is in a marriage and is looking at something else then they probably aren't satisfied with what they have. I've never been happier than I am with my wife. Even if someone sees something that looks tempting, sexual or not (such as drugs), they would be wise resist the temptation because even small amounts of exposure could lead to an addiction which will, more than likely, result in some form of torn relations whether it be with your spouse, family, or friends.
My point is, don't do things, or hang around people/things, that are tempting because you are more than likely to be influenced by said thing. If someone wants to argue that then please think about your accent, or the things you say. You act a certain way because of the environment you put yourself in (or if you are a child, then it is the environment you are put in by your legal guardians).
@BBraamse, you must never watch porn huh? Or else that means you arent satisfied with your wife right?
Lighten up man everyone looks at hot bodies even when married it doesn't mean a lack of satisfaction it can literally be a moment of damn that person has it going on and then not looking at them at all. You're saying you wouldn't even glance at the random hottie in passing by you on the street. You're point is repress yourself severely. It's almost like saying dont have sex with people before marriage because that's a betrayal of the commitment you will make
@Cousteau, you're literally replying to a comment from over three years ago. And you are right, I do not look at porn and I am more than satisfied with my wife.
And yes I am opposed to the idea of sex before marriage because - I am speaking from an American point of view - most of the time people have more than one sexual partner. This leads to multiple issues both socially and personally. For the personal experience, you most likely will never completely forget your previous partners and there is no reason to ever think about someone else in that regard since after marriage you should only ever be with and only ever think about your spouse. This generally leads to comparisons of your current spouse and previous partners; generally not a good idea. From a social standpoint, this leads to an increase in sexually transmitted illnesses and diseases; not exactly what I want floating around my country even if it doesn't personally affect me, it affects others, probably future generations.
@Cousteau, I will not say that I have never looked at porn because I have many many years ago and I am not proud of it. It is absolutely disgusting when you stop and think about it. Women are objectified in the porn industry. You're literally watching someone's daughter on that screen. I highly doubt that any loving and caring father is 100% okay with their daughter doing that. What if you had a daughter and she was doing that? Selling her body for cash? And I can already hear your arguments coming: "But she does it of her own free will." Are you sure about that? Are you sure she isn't just a victim of society? Are you sure she hasn't had a rough life? Are you sure she actually wants to do this? I doubt that any woman actually wants to do that. Some may say they want to but I doubt it. I am sure that they, and their family, would much rather have them do something else. We are human beings, not property, and not slaves. Treat each other the way you would want to be treated.
@BBraamse, lol I didnt notice I was in the random section until I sent the comment.
I disagree many marriages I've seen that are successful are just because they accept and enjoy the other person not because they are still somehow hung up on a past fling or relationship that's really silly. I'm also American lol and have had a decent few sexual partners all of which have been fantastic. I also just practiced safe sex and have never contracted anything nor gotten anyone pregnant. I have said I love you before and I meant it but this is honestly the first time I've ever even thought about the girl in at least a year the last time was when I saw her but it definitely wasn't anything romantic or something painful it was just hi and bye. Maybe you are projecting a bit? I've only had one friend who had a STD and it was curable. Idk exploring yourself seems more important than believing you'll never be able to make a long commitment because of it.
@Cousteau, I never mentioned that you would ruin your entire marriage because of having previous partners. I said it isn't a good idea to compare them. I'm also not saying every single person is going to get an STD or become pregnant through pre-marital sex, either. But you know that there are billions of people on this planet and not all of them follow the same safe sex patterns as yourself. Many get drunk and have unprotected sex or they have protected sex but they don't realize that the other person has an illness and an accident happens such as the protection breaking or improper use due to them being intoxicated. Then, another person becomes infected. Some people can be infected and never show signs for years to come. Iny my eyes, it is still a bad idea to have sex before marriage because of the physical risk and the emotional trials later in life. Just doesn't seem worth it to me. And you never responded to my remarks about pornography. What do you think about it?
@BBraamse, I mean you are also watching someone's son. The porn industry is weird but you're wrong if you believe no one wants to do that people have all kinds of kinks including publicly sharing sexual acts. I honestly wouldn't be very upset if my son or daughter made a video or two and shared it but I would want them to have higher aspirations than a porn star but hey it takes a village lol. Theres a great documentary on porn stars on netflix you should give a check. No one is talking about slaves the closest we get to that in our country is the treatment of migrant workers and illegal immigrants filling those positions haha. Porn stars are actually pretty well compensated and a lot really do it because they like it. Maybe it disappoints they're dads but arent all people aloud to live they're own life. You sound a bit controlling...
@BBraamse, took me a bit to type all that out.
@Cousteau, not controlling. I simply have standards. There are plenty of people who don't want to be in the porn industry but sometimes they are brought in through ways they never imagined. Like a child who is rebellious and leaves home only to have a man say, "Hey son. I'll take you in." And then they think they have a good thing. Then the man tells them, "You look pretty. You could make some money in my videos." And not realizing what he is getting into he accepts and then hates himself for it but it's all he has at the moment so he does his best to suck it up and keep doing it so he can have money and a roof over his head. Little do you know though, he gets drunk and high just to make it through a show. Give this song a listen if you like, "Dear Mr. Christian" by Derek Minor. It shows you a little bit about what happens in our society. It's three people singing about the story of three other people.
@BBraamse, anyway I have to go to work so I'm leaving for a while I may not reply again who knows I dont really care a whole lot you can have your own convictions and I'll live with mine.
@BBraamse, the porn industry really isnt as dark as you think haha but unless you watch that doc you probably wont understand I actually had a gay friend who did some porn and he was able to refuse scenes he was uncomfortable with and was still paid very well. I think you really have some hangups and are projecting porn isnt a big creepy sex thing it's a business at this point they even have conventions and awards lol. I dont understand the mentality but I've learned enough not to be crazy enough to judge because I also dont understand religious people.
seriously gotta go now though cant be on my phone driving or at work so later.
@Cousteau, yeah. We both can disagree. I also never said I was religious.
If you're going to do shjt like that what's the point of getting married? People never cease to disappoint me
@DeathbyBadgers, I'm with you bud. Stuff like this is so stupid. He obviously isn't committed to her. It makes me sick sometimes.
@DeathbyBadgers, it's Han nature for guys to check out girls as long as your love stays true and faithful there's no problem
@funny pics veteran, how could I forgot the Han Solo in all of us? Lol but really, I agree to a certain extent but at the end of the day you're in charge of your decisions, and to allow a habit of checking out other girls to develop... You're inviting a whole realm of temptations. Sorry for the long reply!
My (unpopular) opinion: Control your urges or they will control you
@Exxon, how is he not committed?
How do you know it wasn't a joke
How do you know he's going to follow through ?
How do you know what their relationship is? Maybe they both ogle
You know men were never meant to be monogamous, it's not natural
@benderama, women either. Recent studies show women lose interest faster than men in their partners. Human nature sucks
@benderama, actually humans as a species are supposed to be monogamous. We are a synchronous leking species. This makes us monogamous. Source: Basic animal behavior
Sure that's not her dad?
To his defense, that girl fine!!
@benderama, NOT GOOD ENOUGH! Divorce pending.
@mas2de, I'm surprised the bride isn't looking at that ass too
Fastest divorce in history
Plot twist, she told him to check out the goods . Shes interested in honeymoon 3 way
Damn I could've gotten the newer model
What a idiot
@The Petrolhead, *an, lol
Plot twist: his wife is the one walking away.
I thought you dress up like that just to stroll through the park.