So...its a female that has a dude tied up using him as a fvck stick? Im just trying to understand whats happening...
@MMSieBreeze, unless my translations are off, I believe you are correct.
@MMSieBreeze, oh no it's a male using a male
@Tentastic, oh god...i wasnt ready...i dont want to know anymore....
I see girls on tinder looking for doms, and it makes me feel insecure that I’m not deeply into sexual kinks like that. But then I remember that I’m not wildly emotionally fvcked up like they are and I feel better.
@VibratingButtChomper, it's not my fault they gotta get choked while dangling upside down in a freezer to nut
@VibratingButtChomper, if it makes you feel even better, a good portion of those girls probably don't actually know the extent of what they're asking for.
@Your Waifu, it depends, I've found most of them have some vague idea of at least scenes from porn, but don't really understand a true dynamic very well. Fun to play with occasionally but not very good long term material. Others have just had vanilla people pretending so they can get laid, and are surprised after at how deep they go when actually submitting to someone.
@thrawnfett, that's what I mean. They're the kind who got the basic idea from stuff like Fifty Shades but are too vanilla to understand just how far that rabbit hole really goes. They think it's what they want until the moment you introduce them to a new idea they're not comfortable with.
@Your Waifu, I think I'm seeing it from an opposite perspective. The descriptor for the second group I think best describes it is "pleasant surprise". They're used to maybe getting one or two things they need from any partner and are shocked when they can suddenly get them all.
@thrawnfett, well that's always a possibility too, but I feel like most people on tender are probably not necessarily looking for that much depth.
@Your Waifu, depends on how you use it I suppose. When I use it I tend to be very open on mine, so the people that swipe already tend to know what I'm about. Makes life simpler, doesn't hurt that I'm openly a top either, so there's an endless stream of bottoms too sort through
@thrawnfett, oh, being open is a absolutely a must. I'm just saying there's a decent chunk of people like this who are likely to back out as soon as you tell them the details, and that that chunk is probably at least a bit larger than the people who are willing to experiment due to certain popularized media that romanticizes only the most basic principle without really showing what it's about. There absolutely are people out there who've looked into this stuff enough on their own to know it's what they want, I'm just saying the majority of the girls looking for hookups on tinder who say this in their profile are probably not going to be that kind of person. Obviously you can probably figure this out before meeting them in person, but you might not be able to before talking to them.
@Your Waifu, reasonable, my point is more that I might have a skewed pool. Just because I haven't seen something doesn't mean it can't be true. Its like a roulette wheel, you spin it and it comes up black 5 times in a row. You place a bet, red or black. One person says "it must be red, its been black 5 in a row". Another says "its probably black, if it has already been overwhelmingly black, there's probably a reason like the wheel is off balance." Just cause my wheel is off balance doesn't mean that your Red doesn't apply on the average wheel
I've met several girls on tinder asking for a Dom and usually they are just lazy lovers wanting someone else to do things to them. 🤷♂️
Sounds like too much work to get off
That's....fvckin awesome, dude