Polyamorous relationships have a rate of mistrust and deceit, STDS, and manipulative behavior.
What you REALLY want is a waifu/husbando harem that has all the women/men devoted to you instead of having their own wants and ambitions
@ptitty1231, then there's me that would settle for just one woman that shows even the slightest interest in me 🤣🤣 😭
@MrJojo, Big OOF
@ptitty1231, I'd like to just straight call you out and tell you you're full of crap, but I will acknowledge that it is certainly a possibility. There are a lot of people that go into it with bad faith and the wrong mindset. With the way society brings people up, some have it in their head that they can't be happy with just one person and feel the need to hide things from those close to them, then they can just call "poly" and it honestly upsets me that people do that. You aren't poly because you need more than one person in your life in a romantic context to be happy.
For me at least it's not that I'm not happy unless I have more than one person to be involved with. I was involved with the same person for years and they made me happy. And we came to the conclusion that if other people can also make us happy then it would be wrong to put restrictions on ourselves and miss out on something beautiful. We don't need other people but we are willing to let other people into our lives
@Slayer9200, and see if they can add to it. There isn't a limit on what can make you happy, and if finding different things about different people that make you happy helps you live your best life then I think that's beautiful.
But don't get me wrong, I see where you're coming from. There is a lot of stigma surrounding the idea and a decent number of people with bad intentions do try to use the term to justify their actions, and it's a legitimate lifestyle that has its risks. But it has the potential to be beautiful.
@Slayer9200, That's a lot of words
So all I'm gonna say is "k"
@ptitty1231, fair enough. TL;DR: I understand your point of view, but I disagree with it.
@Slayer9200, damn bro this sound like some straight Roman level hoe shlt. But I just got off to the thought of SeeUpee suckin off a goat so you do you boo-boo.
@ptitty1231, nah, I think they really want a poly relationship that doesn't have all those things. Higher rate =/= guaranteed, after all.
@Slayer9200, it's not a legitimate lifestyle, if you have to put so many addendum attached to it.
Monogamy is the most stable way to construct society.
Not by lineage or property rights.
But to enshrine the virtue of woman's rights and equalities.
Simple fact of being, people are selfish, jealous and envious.
A person that has a stable life will be happier then those with unknown prospects.
A woman is with a man on a biological and evolutionary level to gain access to his resources in exchange for prodigy.
That's why cheating is such an instinctual gut-level feeling.
So, to have the promotion of such a destructive force be couched in so much uncertainty, from you, it's comical.
@Slayer9200, and the fact that you and your partner are not able to have a platonic relationship with others. Makes the relationship sound rather rocky. As if it wasn't built on a relationship but rather lust.
@MrJojo, gotta be interesting first! Right now by your username I can tell there’s some husbandos out there for you!
Tyler you're above that, you deserve someone who loves only you. Also welcome back, there was some DICK here a little while back using your name
@Medic135, goodness, i heard. i am really sorry that happened to u all. i strangely feel somewhat responsible so i apologize.. even tho i’ve still never seen the new spiderman.
@Tyler643, you gotta see it Ol' boy, it's fantastic as if a meme became a movie.
I've found it's guys who are the ones who want relationships, and don't enjoy a casual sharing situation
@NerdyGirl69, i thought about it and couldnt do it. That kind of jealousy doesnt go away for me. Casual sex is one thing but an extended casual sexual relationship where you know and meet the others is weird to me
@Guy Fawkes, yeah it's not for everyone
@NerdyGirl69, I feel like most guys want a 3some but very few would want an open relationship like that. It’s easy for us to have sex and not get emotionally attached. Once we get into our feels tho we get hella jealous and possessive.
Polyamory love or just a three way?
No thanks. I don’t share well. Like, I go as far as to write my name on my toothpaste so no one else in my household uses it. And my ice cream. And I keep my mugs in the cabinet separate from the rest. So sharing an entire person? No chance
Average poly fan: ‘I want to be poly as in I get to sleep with other people, but none of my partners get to.’