Why do we do that? For my friends and family ill risk everything but for myself ill just let it be? Even if I'm dying unless its to help someone else ill just except it like oh well...wierd
@OmegaExceed, is cuz you are a good person.
You put others, before yourself!
@seeUpee, plus it’s harder to confront your own demons and work on yourself. Speaking for myself haha
@Pysch is Awesome, just punch those demons into the closet to hang out with your skeletons. Close the door, lock it and toss the key away... that is for future you to worry about... speaking for myself :D
@OmegaExceed, lots of reasons, one possibility is that you put more effort into things you care about, meaning you value the happiness of other but not your own. It’s could also be a sympathetic reaction, like “I know how that feels, and I wished someone reached out to help” therefore you do what you wished happened to you by offering help.
Or you could just be a people pleaser that can’t say no lol it just depends on the person
@Natural Sarcasm , I dont have trouble saying no say it alot to my boss when he tries to make me do overtime so least I know I got a little backbone lol
My happiness is worthless. Im a terrible person. Being happy sometimes feels like you should deserve it. So if you feel undeserving of self care, you don't care at all. Doesn't mean you can't recognize someone else who deserves happiness.