Doesn’t that get exhausting? Personally, i feel like its absolutely tiring to care that much what others think. I realize they may not have a choice in the matter but damn
@Beggar Mugger, It's exhausting when people expect you to know how they feel or what they want from just plain responses
@Beggar Mugger, I used to give a shjt and care alot but then I realized that other people have the choice to talk to me, so if they are they must like me more then they hate me.
Now I just vibe and if people wanna chat thats word, if not thats word too. I got too much actual important shjt to care about over whether some one likes me or not.
@Beggar Mugger, it's very exhausting! But I also lived with a father who would switch emotions at the drop of a dime and you had to notice the small things in his talk and text tones so you wouldn't be around when he got mean.
@Beggar Mugger, I mean as someone who suffers from anxiety/social anxiety, yes it gets rather tiring. And unfortunately it's a vicious circle because you care about how they're saying things to you but then your anxiety makes you think you're being overbearing
@Beggar Mugger, I try not to care, then I feel guilty because I think I'm being insensitive.
Someone sounds like he/she likes drama
@seeUpee, Then yeah. I guess I'm angry
This happened to me earlier this week:
"Hey man, wanna grab an after work beer?"
*2 hours later* And I fűcked I did something I completely didn't realize was rude before that text and...
*next day response* "Sorry I didn't respond! My anxiety medication is messing up sleeping cycle, see you Friday!"
Maybe I need anxiety medication
If you ever end up with someone like that - RUN!! They don’t get better and it’s not worth it
The insecurity is real
The best part of waking up
Well somebody had passive-agressive parents
I'm both of these people