Guys, take notes
Then fvcking talk to him. Don't hide shjt.
@Strider1321, but in this case they may just have a frog in their throat
@Strider1321, attention-craving at it's finest
@Strider1321, spoken like a real amateur
@Strider1321, well on the rare occasion i do this, its not because im upset with my boyfriend, but its that im having other problems and feel terrible for always unloading my emotional baggage on him, so i want to talk to him, but i also dont want to have to deal with feeling like im throwing all my crap on him when he doesnt even care
@Strider1321, yes! If there is something wrong why hide it or think they will figure it out because they won't. Good relationships begin with good communication.
@Shentei Zei, if he is dating/married to you, he does care. He would rather help than see you upset.
@Shentei Zei, That's what the cuddling is for. Cuddle for a couple of minutes to clear your head, then say what you need to say.
@mcakes2009, you know man whiskey burns when it sprays out your nose. Thanx dude
@Shentei Zei, but that's literally what we're for.
Doing that literally right now. This room is cold, and he is just over there playing elite dangerous.
@JaH1995, he can't read your mind..
@carguy25, i know that, but I also don't want to seem needy to him. He always comes to bed eventually, but me being there is what speeds up the process.
@JaH1995, having a significant other is needy
But I'd definitely rather help mine than let them go through things alone if they don't need to
If they need or want comfort
I'd expect them, and rather them say so
Sometimes if I'm busy I'd say no if it's something important
But I'd definitely help them after I'm done if needed
A relationship is give and take
Talk to him about stuff like this
Communication is everything in a relationship
@carguy25, oh man, I was just cold. I learned a long time ago to actually let him know when there is a problem. He has let me know that I can share my burdens with him.
@JaH1995, my girlfriend just complains she's cold... or will just attack me with snuggles
But she's never cold to me
She comes from Florida
My girlfriend actually does this sometimes and it's not about hiding anything or avoiding communication. It's more about not being ready to seek someone else out without breaking down and needing them to recognize your feelings on their own.
When you're single and just want to mingle, but act like you aren't desperate
All. The. Flippin'. Time.
"we're not that complicated"
Just say it already. No one reads minds and you can't be mad at them for that.