As someone that's still not fully over being cheated on by someone I trusted more than life itself, if you are a woman who cheats no matter what reason you want to put on it you are still as pathetic as men who do. If you're unhappy being with someone find someone who makes you happy or work out your problems (if possible) dont hurt someone just because you can or out of spite. You can do so much more lasting damage than if you were to just break things off
@Twatasaurusrex, This remains a universal truth:
It is better to show someone you love them than to say it.
And it is always best to tell someone you don't love them rather than show it.
This is a lesson that is often an immersive experience bc it draws and deposits from our resources within and it defines the quality of love one seeks.
@Che D Lay sir, very well said my friend and I hope you have or find what you want and need from love
@Twatasaurusrex, The first thing about love is learning that loving yourself is often the result of not knowing how that works. It is a discovery of self which when located offers a secure mindset towards boundary setting potential that filters both immature emotional response and toxic behaviors.
In way, getting hurt is an omission of self love, almost like some plants only thrive after a fire has scourged a forest.
This is nature rebuilding with an organism that reflects it purpose.
Good luck with going forward...the message you shared above is brave and hopefully catches the attention of someone else who may otherwise feel held back from moving forward.
@Che D Lay sir, this is so deep and true
@Twatasaurusrex, the damage is done hence why im a misogynist.
@Che D Lay sir, women want to hear that they are love. Showing it doesnt count i. My experience and from others experiences aswell.
@Cuactemoc4919, this is how we shape ourselves. Usually into a form which becomes less flexible or at it's worse, atrophic & then wonder what undesirable looks like.
@Che D Lay sir, Well well, not only an artist but a scholar also! Well spoken sir!!!
@DaSchlappah, thank you.
Humility & compassion offer a restitution for some of life's more expensive lessons. Sharing doesn't really cost anyone anything.
However, not knowing something's worth at it's beginning is as irresponsible as not knowing to what length will I allow this devastation to hinder my recovery.
If being funny at times helps heal a loss, be kind to yourself. Criticisms can be very cathartic if you just read the words. And it also gives you rare insight to what those words say about their author. We make mistakes sometimes, but we shouldn't have to pay for them any longer than we should choose.
@Twatasaurusrex, do unto others as you would have them do to you. If people actually lived by that we would all be better off
@Twatasaurusrex, Agreed don't matter who you are cheating is cheating and there's no excuse for it.
If people ain't happy in their relationship they need to talk about it or at least break it off before looking for someone else. Its the "It just happened" thing which makes me more angry. You don't just start creating a new world behind your partners back on accident. Things would have happened for it all to start and it's that persons responsibility to think about what could happen before allowing it to happen. If you meet someone and you find your more compatible you don't need to go all the way and have s*x or even kiss them to work out what you want. But in my opinion if someone is in a position where they find theyre more interested in someone else then its obvious something isnt working in the previous relationship. Im very happy in my relationship I don't start new friendships or even think about talking to new people because what I have with my partner is all I need.
@Twatasaurusrex, agreed 100%. Ive never cheated or have been cheated so not really speaking from experience. But I think 9/10 there is a reason someone cheated (notice i didn't say good reason). You should never cheat on your sig. other. What i will say is my best friend use to have a girlfriend who would ridicule him and make him feel awful about himself. He loved her and didnt want to leave her so he eventually cheated because he wanted to feel like he was still wanted and loved. I was actually pretty upset with him and though i understood i did scold. My point is i dont think 100% of the blame is always on the cheater.
P.s. He has had several talks with her attitude towards before he cheated. It never ended well.
@jerriest jerry , cut my life into pieces
@Sriracha, this is my last resort
Because when men cheat, he's the problem but when women cheat, he's still the problem. That's their logic anyways.
@ace in space, men aint shít. Except when they want them to be. But even still we ain't shìt
@ace in space, yeah... imma have to agree with you.
@ace in space, classic manipulative behavior, I hate that so many women don’t even see a problem with this messed up logic
I dont think Jada's husband is all that loyal, maybe their policies for relationships was compromised but calling him loyal is like sayin' Cardi B's music is life changing.
@Che D Lay sir, They're both swingers. Literally can't cheat if you both ducking other people with each other's consent.
@Che D Lay sir, this...
@Hoover CAT, of course they are but not everyone can accept paths which do not exist on their own map. And others fail miserably because they think they know the way and forget what it looks like when other's see it.
I am not shedding blame on this situation but cant ignore that it got produced & shown online and tv.
I wanna say they maybe did this to themselves and are benefitting from the exposure it causes without any real consequences to change their status quo. It is essentially a PR stunt.
Similar to the Sussex Royal exit strategy but with less interpersonal strife.
Just my 2 cents worth.
When did this app become filled with incel bs? Offset cheated on a pregnant woman and Jada slept with a legal child. They’re both wrong and idk any women who don’t think so.
Her being a thot has nothing to do with this, it’s not right for a man or woman to cheat whether or not she’s a “thot”
I’ve been cheated on. It leaves scars. I think regardless of orientation both gender wise and sex wise you’re a scummy person for cheating.
So i never heard of offset. So i searched a pic of his wife to see if she is indeed a thot
My conclusion: HAHAHAHAHHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
A lovely reminder that women are not your time #GladToBeGay
Anyone else care to take their turn entangling with Jada??