Trying to find someone
Yeah I'd say I'm equally good at being depressed as I am at missing out on life
@GayShjtSniper, i thought bring depressed was life? Am i misinformed? I mean thats been my expereince.... Dealing with only the soul crushing depression with a dissatisfaction with ones life.
@megamanx181x, still failing
@mas2de, nothing ever changes
POF. Worked for both me and my hubby who neither go out and see people outside our immediate friend group. Id still not recommend online dating but i cant deny that it DID work for us
@PunnyBaker, Why would you not recommend it if it worked for you may I ask out of interest?
@Banetersaurus Rex, we both tried it before without success and have known many people who tried it as well with either no success or had bad experiences come from it. The only reason it worked for us was because we actually did go to the same school (neither of us knew it at the time) and were familiar with all the same people and even grew up in the same town. It was one of those freaky "so close but never met before" situations. So its just very unlikely that it would have been successful for us if not for those weirdly perfect circumstances. And everyone i know who has used online dating sites (including me and my hubby prior to meeting) has had either nothing but bad relationships out of it or just no luck at all or slim pickings fishing thru countless terrible profiles just trying to find one semi normal one. Its great for meeting new people or finding hookups but as far as dating/relationships go i still wouldnt put it down as a top choice
@PunnyBaker, I see, thanks for sharing. I’ve never used any site or app but am curious. I really struggle to come across people I like and I don’t put myself in many positions to meet new people, but I just can’t do things I’m not comfortable with like going out to bars/clubs and drinking or going online to meet people. I don’t know what my other options are