This hits a little too close to home
@ORGANIC, I’m pretty sure this community is just a group of doppelgängers that get together over the inter webs.
@ORGANIC, They need to get out of my head...
@ORGANIC, This is so close its licking me
@Ripblade01, so close I can almost taste it *licks popsicle that looks like you*
Then your dad puts you in a giant robot and makes you fight giant monsters covered in bible imagery
@YUNoJump, get in the damn robot Shinji!
@Nosferatu Zodd, your dad loves you! Get in the robot!
@YUNoJump, "Hey Shinji! You better get in the robot, or I won't love you anymore!"
Guys and gals and anyone else that’s searching to be accepted, here’s my advice: don’t give up. Just keep being yourself, put yourself out there in whatever way you feel comfortable, and your significant other will find you. And when they do, communicate with them. If you like/love that person, tell them that and also tell them how you feel like you don’t deserve their love because odds are they feel that way too. Love and attachment are so powerful that all of us feel humbled in the presence of it. I believe in every one of you to find someone that will make you happy
Meh sounds familiar. Except instead of recoiling in disgust i just dont actively seek a relationship due to the fear of rejection since thats been a consistent theme in that regard. As such closing myself off emotionally pressing to the point where i dont give a shvt aboit anyone and probablu wouldnt care in the least if someone were to drop dead in front of me.
@AllThanks, same but instead, I crave love and intimacy but the thought of it scares me cause I fear rejection and embarrassment. So I hide my feelings from people so I can hold on to my pride and suffer in silence. But when I tell the few people I trust about my feelings they tell me go do something about it, I never listen.
@princess vegeta , i feel like in this situation i should post the spiderman meme where the two spidermans point at each other. I feel the same. My prior comment is the beginning stage to that point.
@AllThanks, I'm pretty sure we're all just lonely people that fear rejection. But when I'm feeling like sad cause no one loves me, I think that one day I'll wake up next to someone who loves me and this feeling will be gone. I'm going only 19, I have time.
@princess vegeta , heh. Your lucky to feel that way. While i realise 22 is fairly young when taking a look at all the sucessfull relationships or times ive succeeded when asking someone out (there are none) i kinda feel fvcked. And that feeling perpetuates my cold feelings towards love and unltimatly twist mt belief to not needing something so "worthless" or "pointless" to work for when the past has proven success is not likely. Therefore i dont try because to try is to beget failure. I have dreams like that too. But i end up feeling more bitter about it all after the dream ends. It kinda sucks but what can you do?
@AllThanks, I've never really had a real relationship, just random guys on the internet or some strange guy from cuba (long story). I just want a meaningful relationship where it's not just about how I look but my qwirks. But the guys that say I'm pretty don't know that I memorized all the lantern oaths from dc comics and other strange things like that. But the guys that are like me and that I would like are shy like me, so we just miss eachother. I know we would get along but I'm too much of a weenie to say anything.
@AllThanks, but the every guy I meet that I do like and we get along there's always something in the way and I can't be anything about it
@princess vegeta , hey i can relate. I mean theres plenty of times where i think about all the stuff i know that most people wouldnt care about or look at as important even thought its more than an outward appearance and an assumed personality based on what little they've seen. So dont worry at least you know you arent the only one who has that realization. And i mean ive had like one or two women ask me out but the problem always ended up being that they didnt really make an effort to know who i was. They were just comfortable in what they assumed i was.
@AllThanks, i also believe that love comes from the most unexpected places. And you'll find it where you least expect it. Trust me
@princess vegeta , hey thay will happen sometimes. Some obstacles can be overcome thats true. But its up to you to determine if its worth the effort. I mean ive meet people online and sometimes i did what you jist said about obstacles. And while i know maybe its worth the effort but the first part of being weary of a relationship kinda just helps shut any consideration down
@princess vegeta , I agree on the point of love comong from unexpected places. Its difficult to fall in love with someone you dont feel a connection too. And sometimes its literally a chance meeting. Ive seen it actually happen so its never as simple as generic dating sometimes.
@AllThanks, yeah and I know it's really stressful and upsetting the see people falling in love around you and your just sitting there feeling like it will never happen for you but if Honey boo boos mom can get someone to love her, you can too.
@princess vegeta , ha! Thats true. I think the reasoning about getting hurt by seeing other is what has caused my aversion to being in public so i can avoid that situation all together. Its kinda sad too i miss going out and hanging out. It is nice to at least have thia platform to interact with people. Its not exactly bright and sunny being on your own and not really having contact with people. But even this conversation has helped brighten my day so thanks for that.
@AllThanks, hey no problem man. also if you have an instragram, feel free to add me. Its Kristina_bodiroga :)
@princess vegeta , thanks ill add you tonight. Havent used mine in a long time but always could get back into it
@AllThanks, just went to look at memes before I went to bed and ended up having a pretty nice conversation.
@princess vegeta , i know it was a nice surprise. Anyways ill let you get to sleep. I probably should do the same if i want to get anything done at home tomorrow
After a five year relationship, which ended because my partner cheated on me, left me feeling like i would have to keep my guard up. After 4-5 months of being alone and learning about myself, i got on a dating app (for the first time ever) and went on dates with several people. This one person stuck out and i decided to spend more time with them and they have made my life feel more fun the past 2 weeks versus the past several years in my relationship. My advice, when you’re strong enough on your own, try to get out there.
Hoe life or no life.
Spot on sir, spot on.
Boohoo, get over it.
Or just stop being such a cuck boi
Is this how jerks think? Or did I misunderstand something?
What if it isn't fear or disgust but just knowing without a doubt that there are better alternatives than yourself and that you'd be a waste of time and resources and emotion for anyone who feels any amount of affection for you because you yourself can't guarantee to reciprocate any of the same affection
Haha me too
Wow, theres funny and a thinly veiled cry for help. Can funny pics start distributing prozac?
Just get a dog, or a cat, or lesser life form of your own choosing, and learn to accept that most of humanity is ba$tard coated ba$tards with a chewy ba$tard center.
OP, is there something on your mind you wish to talk about?
Replace the fears with divorce and being forced to give everything to a gold digging hoe, and that's me
@The Pun Shielder, I have a friend that went through something somewhat similar. Judging for how horrible he was feeling, hopefully you are doing okay man.
@depressedaf, I'm doing fine, I'm just saying my reason for not wanting a relationship. But I feel for anyone suffering like that.