I need support 😔 sorry poster but I just got out of the most emotionally abusive relationship ever. I wasn't saying the right things or looked the right way and I can't stop doubting how I act if it's really annoying to people or not. Fp community has always helped everyone else...I might need some of that
@Fiesta Anaconda , well let's start off with the good news... You're free of an unhealthy relationship. I've been in multiple rather emotionally abusive relationships myself. These girls made me feel bad about who I was. My jokes were always bad. I was always wrong. Could never say the right thing. After I moved on for a couple years, I got to know myself better and could actually socially adapt without them over my shoulder. Learned that I was decent funny. What/how to do/say/act in normal social interactions. Take a breather. Chill on the dating scene for a bit. Just focus on improving something about you, for you. Get better at a hobby. Gym more. Aim for a raise or promo at work. Study for that test. Do something to improve your new life. Then go hang with some friends, or new people. Figure out who you are. You'll make an ass out of yourself sometimes. You'll also grow to be good company and have everyone laughing and happy that you're around. It's scary now
@Fiesta Anaconda , but it's a new beginning. You got this bro/bro-ette...stagnation will get unhealthy quickly. And I know we are in a crazy world right now, but you owe it to yourself to seize as much as it has to offer. I have no doubt that you can make something out of this. Stay healthy, be safe, take life by the balls and mold it into what will make you happy. Keep on chuggin my friend 🤘🇺🇲🤘
@thecraftywalrus, but why could I help everyone else in this situation but myself and I let it get this bad?
@Fiesta Anaconda , cause emotional givers like ourselves are stupid and don't realize that it's ok to focus on ourselves every once in a while. Emotionally abusive relationships tend to enforce that. You're guilty as hell for even standing up for yourself. But that's over. Just focus on you for a bit. You deserve it.
@Fiesta Anaconda , I had an emotionally abusive relationship for 6 months. Every time I'd think about ending it they'd do something just nice enough to keep me. They said it was my fault, I was a bad gf etc. I was crazy to think they were cheating (they were). It took years to get over that kind of abuse. My advice is to speak to mates, have them reassure you that the stuff the person said isn't true as I'm pretty sure most of it won't be. Try to be your best self, love yourself and others will to. Now is the time to do things that make you happy. All the best ma dude
Me at 11am every morning, for some reason
When you have to go to work the next day:" I wish i was the turkey"
Turkey contains the highest concentration oglf tryptophan in any food products. Milk also contains it, this is why warm milk and turkey make you sleepy. :)