Question for everybody, what's your favorite trait you want/like in someone your dating?
@Lazy Wolf, I misread the first comment, and my joke reply doesn't work. please ignore my comment.
@Lazy Wolf, I want them to be physically and mentally healthy. I hate the idea of getting attached to someone then finding out they have terminal cancer or a drug addiction or something. I would be an emotional mess always worrying about them. And I don’t need that.
@Lazy Wolf, A strong work ethic, and the drive to work harder and better themselves
@Lazy Wolf, I just want someone who I can enjoy my hobbies and interests with. Aside from that, I'd like my partner to take care of themselves, to kinda influence me to better myself as well
@Lazy Wolf, bobs and vagene. I'll figure out the rest.
@Lazy Wolf, Weirdly enough, I'm not picky about most physical traits, but there is one thing that can kill my interest:
Bad teeth. I think it's because I had braces forced on me as a kid, but if someone has a jacked up set of chompers, it just ruins their smile and (for me) everything else about their aesthetic. Beyond that, looks are mostly irrelevant as long as we can enjoy each other's company.
@Fairy Squad Mother, this seems oddly specific
@Lazy Wolf, someone who shares the same views as i do. Cant be arguing over silly things like politics 🙄
@Lazy Wolf, someone who likes me back
@Lazy Wolf, someone who has hobbies and isn't addicted to social media and external gratification. Someone who helps others but doesn't take photos and post about it.
Surprise, I'm single 😔
@Lazy Wolf, I really like it if someone can accept others for who they are, I dont want to date someone who's judgemental of others.
@Lazy Wolf, Have the desire not to be below average. They don't have to be the most hardworking person, but they shouldn't be a sloth. They don't have to be the most beautiful, but they should put effort into their appearance. They don't have to have the same financial ideas as I do, but they shouldn't blow all their money on ridiculous expenditures and never save. If they have the desire to at least strive for average in all feasible areas of their life, that is extremely attractive. If they have the will power to excel in a few specific areas on top of that, they outclass most people.
@Augustweather, kinda like the jack of all trades, master of none? (or master of a few if possible in this case)
@Lazy Wolf, Exactly. Like someone could be the funniest, prettiest, most enjoyable person to be around, but if they have something like a terrible gambling habit and bankrupt themselves and a partner, that's hard to deal with if they dont change.
@Augustweather, alot of people act like it's a bad thing to want someone you're dating to be free of any major flaws, like it's being unfairly judgmental or something. I met someone like that once and I asked her if she would date someone who was nearly perfect, but had a major meth addiction. Obviously like a person with common sense she said no. (If she had said yes I probably would have dropped the conversation there. No point arguing with stupid) i told her congrats, you're judgmental too, and she understood my point after that.
@Lazy Wolf, For real. I've been told I'm picky and judgemental for this point of view. I'll use that story next time.
@Anonymous Jack III, summed it up right there.
@Lazy Wolf, someone who wont try to change me. And what was said about nice teeth, totally. I guess i need to learn how to talk to women first anyway.
@Anonymous Jack III, sounds like you need a boyfriend
@Lazy Wolf, If there’s no one nearby I can marry to form an alliance I generally sort by highest stat spread
@Youtuber, One too many tragedy animes. That’s really all it took. And if a fictional character messed me up that bad, I can’t imagine what a real person would do
@Lazy Wolf, this isn’t Reddit 🤣
*Stares in confused Alabama*
Well yes, but actually no.
Its two words, people
Instructions not clear. *goats test positive*
Truths like this keep me #GladToBeGay
And Ill say: "what's your weight?"
@hasher2288, How dare you have a preference! That’s sexist and misogynistic! All women are beautiful!