Oh no you dont, borderlands 3 is 4 months away I'm not waiting another 4 years
@dadood fromcheers, not if you're a pc master race steam elitist, oof
@dadood fromcheers, right ?!?! I need my borderlands
@Devious Olive , I'm on PC and I'm buying it from humble, so I don't have to buy from epic, and I can still get it on launch day.
@PsychedelicCow, wow, someone who is at least halfway intelligent instead of just whining because it's not the way you want it, I thought your kind was extinct these days.
@PsychedelicCow, You’re just buying an epic game store key for the game - I fail to see how that’s different than buying it from the epic game store itself, other than a 75/25 split instead of 88/12.
@pirey, I'm not risking potential spyware from being on epic's domain.
@PsychedelicCow, but you still have to redeem it through your epic games store account, and presumably launch it through the epic games store once redeemed, unless I’m misunderstanding how the keys work.
@pirey, I believe only the key is from epic, but I'll be able to launch through humble
@PsychedelicCow, wait, humble is selling it too? I though only epic was allowed?
@PsychedelicCow, humble doesnt have a launcher. @pirey is right, you still have to install it through the epic store
@PsychedelicCow, exactly what I'm doing aswell.
@Devious Olive , the crap that Epic is pulling is deserving of criticism though
Holy shjt, please do.
But then I won't be married... I'm down
@BoatyMcGorillaFace, that may be one of the most dangerous things you can say here
@Empshok, How so?
@BoatyMcGorillaFace, if your spouse sees it
@Empshok, She only uses Facebook and Instagram for memes
@BoatyMcGorillaFace, a good marriagebis better than being alone. But being alone is sometimes better than a bad marriage. If there's a chance to make it better, it's worth the effort, but both of you need to feel valued and important. I'm happily married for over 7 years and I can make suggestions if you'd like.
@Empshok, it works sometimes and I still love my wife very much even after all the terrible things she's done, she just needs to change as a person and grow up but refuses to do so even knowing that she's the problem. But I am open to suggestions
@BoatyMcGorillaFace, well that's a good sign. Can you identify the problem, specifically? Also, do you know the solution, and the effort involved in reaching that solution? Does your wife know how you feel about it?
My advice is to ponder on those things and think about a way to clearly present it. Consider how she will respond and how you would respond if you were told about such a problem. What would you need to hear?
@BoatyMcGorillaFace, do you forgive her for the terrible things, and does she know that? Has she forgiven herself? Does she feel like you respect her and believe her capable of genuine improvement?
People do change, but only if they believe the change is worth the effort and pain. Make no mistake; change is painful. If you have any doubts about your ability, the outcome, or your support system, often the change won't happen. I had an issue I felt the need to change. It was an addiction. It took me 2 years to admit the problem and 4 more years of agony and unwavering support from friends and family to do it. The desire was taken from me as I requested (credit to God; elaboration on request).
Anyway, I had to believe I could change and that I was not my addiction, but something bigger and stronger.
@Empshok, She doesn't regret any actions that have negatively affected our relationship so it's difficult to even begin trying to forgive her. One of my biggest complaints is not being treated as an equal, she wants the relationship to be one sided
@BoatyMcGorillaFace, if addiction is the issue, you need to truly believe yourself better than it. A support system is like antibiotics; they offer the tools to fight, but ultimately the victory has to be won by you. That victory is critical to maintain the change. Relapse and regression are very damaging and lead to discouragement, bitterness, and self-doubt. Patience and love are most critical here. If the support system crumbles, change will be exponentially harder. Consider that a factor here, has she tried to change before?
"People can't change" is one of the most damaging lies ever told. It was created by the most bitter, miserable being and is an attempt to spread that misery.
@BoatyMcGorillaFace, if that's true, she doesn't deserve the relationship. Present your concerns and directly, specifically, ask if the relationship is important enough for her to address and discuss your concerns. Be ready for her answer. That may be the most difficult part here. If you have family or friends, make sure they will be there for you if you need a place to go for support. Do not try to turn your support against your spouse, this will make it worse. If she indicates she won't change, you can leave. This may cause her to wake up and reflect.
@BoatyMcGorillaFace, if she's willing to do that, the relationship may not only be saved, but can be key to actual change. Just make sure you both have the same big picture that you're working towards.
I hope this helps.
@Empshok, I daydream about running away to a different state and starting a new life away from everyone here but that's selfish, especially to my kids. I've never had any support from family and friends and I know that my wife will struggle with money since she doesn't have that kind of support either. We're in too deep being codependent on each other so I am going to keep trying every day to keep everyone happy unless she happens to repeat one of her particular actions, then I might have to run away anyway
@BoatyMcGorillaFace, oh, shoot. I didn't realize kids were involved. My parents divorced when I was 5. I'm afraid the only advice I can offer there is to do what you feel is best for your kids. I'm sorry you have no family/friend support system, but if it helps, you are not alone. Many others face similar situations, and regardless of how anybody judges you, if you try to do what's best for your kids, that's what will help you sleep at night. If your wife is as selfish as it seems, she'll provide her own punishment as she drives away everybody who cares about her.
@Empshok, It seems like the kids have it best right now and any split will make it worse for them. She's pointed this out as well and said that as soon as they can take care of themselves then she'd end but I honestly don't like that idea. But thank you for all of the help you've provided and listening to my sob story
@BoatyMcGorillaFace, don't settle for being 'trapped.' Seek out creative solutions. Never attempt to turn your kids against her, though. That will ultimately damage their relationship with you and they'll start associating negative consequences with close relationships. Always be honest and loving with them and make sure they know they can talk to you about anything.
Anyway, I think I'm overdoing the advice at this point and unless any of this is new or helpful I'll simply extend the offer of further advice if requested and a hope that this works out for you and your family.
@BoatyMcGorillaFace, be strong, friend.
Do I lose all of my memories from the last four years? Or do I remember stuff completely which would basically mean nothings changed? Or would I have brief deja vus in important moments that help guide my actions? The last one would be useful there’s a few little things I could’ve done different that would make a huge difference now
What’s going to be different this time around?
@megamanx181x, the absolute worst version of one of those "spot the difference" things.
Nah, I've actually been going up. Please dont
@ptitty1231, it will be ok because you already know how to get to where you are only faster
@ptitty1231, yeah a reset like that means I would be back in highschool sooo no
I wouldn't mind watching trump destroy the leftists again...
@MMSieBreeze, hoho, sick comment bro. Really burned those lefties Haha.
@Pubmarine Shamwich, Make Amphibians Great Again?
@Seohn, No need, amphibians never stopped being great
Can we re set to 2012? I have many ragerts
They quicksaved and wanted to do what they want for a short bit, we all go there
No! That means I just have to relive this sht and I don't get my new movies. Basically we would need to wait another 4 years for another marvel movie, DC movies will still suck, and we are so close to John wick three. And worst of all that means we wouldn't be at part 5 of jojo. I need my gang...
I am not going through half of high school again also yeah borderlands
Please don't! I don't want to go back to when I was dating my ex. I hate that bitch!